My ex is trash!

[celiacmom]

So my ex texted me to tell me he is getting married.... I lurked on fb and looks like his soon to be wife is pregnant.
He abandoned our son and doesn't deserve another child!
His soon to be wife has multiple children (I think 4) and doesn't have custody of any....
Trash finds trash!

On a happy note I booked a last minute trip to Denver to see my best friend for today!

[humpforfree]

I'm sorry, but so glad you have such a positive outlook! You are amazing and L has an awesome mom!

[momin2013]

Hmm...yikes.

Have a great trip!

[greencrayon]

Ugh. I'm so sorry.

[pinotgrig]

You are so much better off where you are now. Let her keep him and find out what a treat he is.

[raangoli]

Yikes. You're absolutely right that trash finds trash. You and L are way better off. Enjoy your trip!

[simpsongal]

Definitely Judge Judy material - so glad you got out!

[Deleted]

My really good friend is married to a loser like this and it just makes me so upset. He has 2 kids he doesn't take care of yet wanted to have a baby with her in the worst way. Now she is pregnant and he is still trash. She found out he may have a 3rd kid he ignores.

I'm so sorry your ex is horrible but glad you have such a positive outlook on life and are such a great mom.

[cjeanette]

Gross. That poor baby.

[bowies]

At least they've found each other and won't drag more unsuspecting people into their messes. You are free, you are free, you are free.

[kdubs923]

Ugh, I'm sorry he sucks. They deserve each other.

Enjoy your trip!

[whitemerlot]

He's an ass.

You are kicking ass with an awesome business and fantastic relationship with your son.

[Deleted]

Ugh I'm sorry

[statlerwaldorf]

Aug 12, 2016 14:11:22 GMT -5 bowies said:

At least they've found each other and won't drag more unsuspecting people into their messes. You are free, you are free, you are free.

Well except for the poor baby...

[nextbigthing]

he's an ass and you're way better off without him! but, I get it, I'd be annoyed too

you're a great mom and enjoy your fun trip!

[kristenbell]

I'm so glad you got away from him.

[waterchurch]

I'm sorry he's terrible and it doesn't sound like she's any better. Poor kids.
I'm glad you're done with him and have an awesome life with your awesome kid!

[pizzapizza]

I am so sorry but based on your post it sounds like you are better without him. You seem like such a great mom, your son is lucky to have you.

[somersault72]

Why did he even bother texting you if he doesn't have a relationship with your son?? Good riddance, loser.

[celiacmom]

Aug 12, 2016 15:35:57 GMT -5 somersault72 said:

Why did he even bother texting you if he doesn't have a relationship with your son?? Good riddance, loser.

That was my question! Did he think I'd say congrats? I responded saying "text someone who cares."

[winemaker06]

Great response!
You're so much better off without him.

[Brie]

A classy woman's trash is a trashy woman's treasure.

[Deleted]

That poor fetus! Your DS is lucky to have such a wonderful mom! I know its shitty that he doesn't see your EX but he really seems to be lucky that he won't be mixed up in all of that mess. I wish I got to bypass my father's drama  

[oceanstbride]

That's awful. I'm sorry. Sounds like he just wanted to either press buttons or rile you up. Love your response! Your DS is lucky to have you.

[ellipses84]

Yes, great response! Of course they are both awful to not take care of the kids they have and bring another one into the world. A normal person would see that as a huge red flag, but they obviously thought they were meant for each other.

[awick14]

I'm sorry he doesn't want a relationship with your son. it makes me sad to think about all the parents out there who have more children after they abandon their others.

It's also weird that he text you about his upcoming wedding. My exbf text me when him and his girlfriend bought a house together, 7 years after we broke up, and 4 years after I was married. Lol. Why would I care?!?

(Edit: I reread what I wrote and I kinda sounded demeaning in my first part. I'm not talking about ladies who give their kids up for adoption, or the like. Just parents who ignore their kids when they can have a relationship with them.)