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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I had 3 dates with a guy and was not feeling it. I broke things off and it was all we are meant to be together the next day. Then the next day I was a awful person. I responded back with well you dodged a bullet then.
But, but....what about all those super happy people Match.com and Eharmony talk about? Is it all bullshit?
Not all BS. My dh and I met on eHarmony ... and we are in LA. I had a completely different experience online than many people talk about on here. I mean, I chatted with my share of odd balls, but all of the guys I met in person were very nice - even if they weren't a match long term.
Post by studytime45 on Aug 18, 2016 16:54:41 GMT -5
I've met lots of great people online... but have waded through SO many weirdos/perverts/bigots, etc... Also, full disclosure, I'm now single. Haha. But I dated a couple guys I met on OkCupid for two and three years, respectively.
My inbox on OkCupid is FULL of insane messages. I'm going to see if I can post some for entertainment value.
OH! And I met cabin-guy on OkC! And we still chat almost every day and see each other when we can.
Post by Queen Mamadala on Aug 18, 2016 17:00:26 GMT -5
Girl, I'm with you. I have stories. I did meet MH and a few other past SOs on OKC, and dated others from a couple other sites (PoF and Match). I preferred OKC. Hands down.
I had a 21 year old dude ask me if I was into butt plugs. I responded with something snarky and he responded asking me if I could Domme him. And another offer me $200 to go on a date with him. Then when I declined he upped it to $400. Um... no?
Post by cuddlyevil on Aug 18, 2016 18:35:12 GMT -5
Ugh! I got a nice message from someone and then when I went to his profile he had a paragraph about "be honest with your pictures ladies, eventually we guys will figure it out.". Combine him with the guy who has nothing but pictures from the neck down and I hate POF.
But, but....what about all those super happy people Match.com and Eharmony talk about? Is it all bullshit?
Not all BS. My dh and I met on eHarmony ... and we are in LA. I had a completely different experience online than many people talk about on here. I mean, I chatted with my share of odd balls, but all of the guys I met in person were very nice - even if they weren't a match long term.
This is actually somewhat true for me too, if I stop and think about it. I have met nice guys where it just didn't go anywhere. A few, like I mentioned, I am still really good friends with. I just tend to forget about the nice ones, since the crazies and their odd messages are the ones that make good stories to tell friends.
I just feel like it's so much work for like zero results. I'm talking to 1 guy on Bumble that I'd like to meet, but if it doesn't work out I'm going to take a break for a bit. It's either guys who never want to meet or crazies.
I am meeting a woman I've been chatting with on Bumble BFF tonight. More nervous for that than an actual date!
I've met lots of great people online... but have waded through SO many weirdos/perverts/bigots, etc... Also, full disclosure, I'm now single. Haha. But I dated a couple guys I met on OkCupid for two and three years, respectively.
My inbox on OkCupid is FULL of insane messages. I'm going to see if I can post some for entertainment value.
OH! And I met cabin-guy on OkC! And we still chat almost every day and see each other when we can.
I just feel like it's so much work for like zero results. I'm talking to 1 guy on Bumble that I'd like to meet, but if it doesn't work out I'm going to take a break for a bit. It's either guys who never want to meet or crazies.
I am meeting a woman I've been chatting with on Bumble BFF tonight. More nervous for that than an actual date!
I just feel like it's so much work for like zero results. I'm talking to 1 guy on Bumble that I'd like to meet, but if it doesn't work out I'm going to take a break for a bit. It's either guys who never want to meet or crazies.
I am meeting a woman I've been chatting with on Bumble BFF tonight. More nervous for that than an actual date!
Bumble BFF? I can meet cool friends on bumble ?
I'm on my way home from it now! Met a bunch of cool people & got a couple numbers to hang out again. The friend function is more fun than the dating one for sure!
I think online dating (and just dating in general) is just a combination of luck and timing. I had a rough go of it (in NYC) and I felt that a big part of it was that I didn't fit the popular body type in the area which seemed to be the thin/athletic type that was a choice of body description on most sites. At a size 16, yeah...I had guys ask me for more full length body pics because all of my profile pics looked different--all of which were accurate and recent at that time. I had random jerks ask me all sorts of inappropriate things. Everyone has a type, that's cool, but I am who I am and I felt really shitty about myself a lot during that time. I found most of my interactions to be very superficial. NYC was rough for me...I can't even imagine what it's like out in LA mp. I did, however, meet my BF online about 3 years ago. He didn't mind my extra fluff. And again, a combination of luck and timing. I know (IRL and from SO) so many beautiful women that have their shit together and just have had shit luck. I feel like there's no rhyme or reason.
A friend of mine met a guy on match.com like 10 years ago. They talked every night for a month or so and then he flew her out to meet him. She was excited and thought he was a nice guy. He took her straight to his house, fucked her, and dropped her off in a park to fend for herself and get home the next day. No hotel, no ride, no meal, no nothing. That's a lot of effort for a one and done you're gonna ghost. I was jaw on the floor shocked.
A friend of mine met a guy on match.com like 10 years ago. They talked every night for a month or so and then he flew her out to meet him. She was excited and thought he was a nice guy. He took her straight to his house, fucked her, and dropped her off in a park to fend for herself and get home the next day. No hotel, no ride, no meal, no nothing. That's a lot of effort for a one and done you're gonna ghost. I was jaw on the floor shocked.