Aren't you disappointed to not be online dating with me?

[rosiebear]

Ew. What a jerkpig.

[Queen Mamadala]

Ugh. He's awful. I remember asshats like that. *sigh*

[btay]

this is why I have not yet gone back to the online dating world. Men are disgusting

[lilac05]

Disgusting.

[thedutchgirl]

Oh god. That's horrifying. I met XH 14 years ago, so I never tried it. I've avoided it so far, although I know I'll likely eventually give in. So many assholes.

[kitkat2613]

Ew. Why do they think in any way that this would be a good first message to send a person? It's not funny, and in a form of dating where first impressions are definitely everything, you'd think they'd try to make a better one.

[stephogirl]

Apparently I am the 1% here.

Who knew?!?

ETA: Agreed. He's gross. 

[meowmaps]

He's a giant turd.

[stephogirl]

Sept 18, 2016 22:12:15 GMT -5 mp said:

Sept 18, 2016 22:10:48 GMT -5 stephogirl said:

Apparently I am the 1% here.

Who knew?!?

ETA: Agreed. He's gross. 

I don't know what this means... 

"Although 99% of women who dye their hair are shaved." 

TMI...moving on...

[eb777888]

He is fucking horrible. I hate him.

And I love that you corrected the then/than.

[themoneytree]

He is absolutely disgusting. 
This is all very discouraging. I don't blame you for deleting your account.

[letsgetweird]

Okcupid is full of deplorables.

[Shreddingbetty]

I love that you corrected his grammar...I hope that was your last msg to him too

[letsgetweird]

Sept 18, 2016 22:30:38 GMT -5 mp said:

Sept 18, 2016 22:23:46 GMT -5 letsgetweird said:

Okcupid is full of deplorables.

And tinder. And bumble. And POF. And every site I've been on in recent history. All of them. So frustrating. It's all the same people and everyone is just gross.

Very true. I think I've gotten more nasty messages on okc though.

#foreveralone

[gretchenindisguise]

El

[gretchenindisguise]

Ew. Not el. Effing autocorrect.

[letsgetweird]

Sept 18, 2016 22:44:32 GMT -5 kooshball said:

Sept 18, 2016 22:35:38 GMT -5 letsgetweird said:

Very true. I think I've gotten more nasty messages on okc though.

#foreveralone

Agree. OKC is the worst.

Tinder is not too far away but its basically just game. No one is serious.

Bumble pays models. No way. I got tons of doctors and they are all insanely hot. Nope. I'm not buying it.

The first 5 or so people that come up any time I open bumble are ridiculously good looking.

[Deleted]

Coffee meets bagel is the only app that I haven't gotten gross messages on. He really doubled down on his asshattery, didn't he?

[muffin0]

WHAT THE FUCK!?!

[mcmel]

Honey, come be my sister wife and be done with this asshatery.

[Queen Mamadala]

Sept 18, 2016 22:44:32 GMT -5 kooshball said:

Sept 18, 2016 22:35:38 GMT -5 letsgetweird said:

Very true. I think I've gotten more nasty messages on okc though.

#foreveralone

Agree. OKC is the worst.

Tinder is not too far away but its basically just game. No one is serious.

Bumble pays models. No way. I got tons of doctors and they are all insanely hot. Nope. I'm not buying it.

It's always interesting to hear other people's OLD stories. OKC was my favorite by far. I really liked it. There's a lot of overlap between all the main dating sites, but I liked OKC's layout and matching algorithm. It was pretty spot on when it came to matching me with compatible matches. PoF... I always got the dive bar feel from it. When it came to sleazy comments and questions, it was definitely the worse. I tried Match a few times. I didn't really care for it. I met MH just before Tinder was created or became popular. From what I've read and reading many others' stories, I wouldn't have cared for Tinder. 

[flex]

I hate it when guys think it's cute to make those kind of comments to a stranger. I suspect those delightful specimins of masculinity will be alone the rest of their life. lol

[ECB]

Yeah. um. Ew. And I love how he "guarantees" what you and your friends joke about and calls you a hypocrite over it. At least he's showing his hand right out of the gate.

[carrotsmakemefat]

I'm sorry mp. Are there any decent sites? I "know" people here who have meet good matches but not one in real life.
I do have a friend who started elite singles. She likes that one so far

[cleo29]

Well, that is disgusting. I would not surprise with Tinder because that strikes me as more of a hook up site vs. people really looking for something serious.

I met H on Match and when I was on there never got gross messages. I did have a guy who would not leave me alone, constantly telling me he looked like Robert DeNiro. The final straw with him, whom I ignored, was when he mentioned coming to my house in this creepy way.

Sorry you are "meeting" are the creeps and frogs.

[verycontrary247]

Yeah. It sucks.

I generally prefer Tinder and Bumble because essentially you both have to consent to communicating. On OKC and POF I'd get at least 10 messages like that a day.

[kaybee85]

So gross. I'm sorry

[Saint Monica]

mp, lol at *than vs then

[abcdefu]

What is wrong with people?!?! I was planning to go back to online dating in the next few months, but I think this post changed my mind!

I wonder if this guy says this stuff to women in person, or if he just hides behind the keyboard. Either way, EW!

[candreco]

How hard is it to say something along the lines of "Hello! Your hair caught my attention and you seem really fun. Want to chat?"

When will people (men) understand that women's bodies aren't out there for public comment?