u/d on grandma

[chessie]

Please dont quote, prob delete later.

Elder care has been over to her house 2 times already, she refuses to put anything in writing. They cannot help her at all. What they are trying to push her to do is go into a nursing home which would get her away from my uncle completely. But all and all its her decision. Aside from talking to the lawyer, we gotta get a doctor to deem her unfit to make decisions to gain power.

Situation actually got worse and now she knows I am the one that called cops/elder care..Even the nurse that has been going to her house daily said she reported them, but she knew there was not much she could do since my gram just makes up excuses.

I have decided if things are wrapped up by mid next month, I am cancelling the trip, if he is there, there is no way I can see them like that. I would hate for the last time I see my grandparents something horrible to go wrong. There obviously a reason why my mom won't go down there, so I gotta trust my gut at this point.

Taking tomorrow off for stress related reasons and maybe rest of the week. Hoping to meet up with my mom and we can discuss the options.

[Roc A Bee]

I'm sorry. It sounds very complicated.