My Ex Called me

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Jesus H Christ. WHY can't he let it go. I haven't responded to a single phone call, text or email that wasn't directly related to the sale of the house since I left OVER two years ago.

We have been divorced for a year and a half and from what I've gathered from past voicemails and texts he's been with girlfriend for about that long.

This voicemail was apparently to tell me that he had deleted my number from his phone, but was calling to let me know he still new my number and was calling it to see if I still had the same one.

And yes I realize I could change my number but I've had it for 11 years and I don't want to go through the hassle for his random every 3-6 month drunk calls. Also he's totally a lose cannon so I like to be able to have some sort of gauge on his state of mind.

[naeljun]

I know you don't want to change your number but why do you listen to the messages. Just delete them.

[dakotadangerdog]

Hahaha your EXH is even more of a moron than mine.

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Sept 10, 2012 15:46:06 GMT -5 naeljun said:

I know you don't want to change your number but why do you listen to the messages. Just delete them.

He escalates quite quickly and has done some truly bizarre things like releasing a hate video, tried to blackmail me, bought my domain name for a website, posed as my dad via an email address etc. It's important for me to listen to the voicemails to make sure there isn't something that requires legal action or if I need to save the voicemail as evidence.

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Sept 10, 2012 15:45:57 GMT -5 jellymankelly said:

Did you tell him you were too busy with TV and food to talk to him, and to go screw some "college chicks?" What a loser. Also, this message + your sig pic makes me LOL.

Omg this made me LOL.

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Sept 10, 2012 16:05:39 GMT -5 dynamoo said:

Keep ignoring - job well done so far.

Ha! Oh yes I have NO desire to engage in his BS at.all.

[blackkitty]

I'm pretty sure your Ex wins Biggest Asshole Ex-husband of this board
And that's saying a lot

[starburst604]

After seeing his videos I have to agree with BK. I can't stop picturing him licking his lips while he left the message.

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Sept 10, 2012 16:25:16 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

After seeing his videos I have to agree with BK. I can't stop picturing him licking his lips while he left the message.

You could hear it!

[turtle1120]

Omg your Ex wins an award for biggest douche! Too bad you couldn't let his new GF know about all of his continuing ridiculousness. I'm sure she'd be thrilled to know that he's still not over you and continues to harass you.

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Sept 10, 2012 16:37:44 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

Omg your Ex wins an award for biggest douche! Too bad you couldn't let his new GF know about all of his continuing ridiculousness. I'm sure she'd be thrilled to know that he's still not over you and continues to harass you.

I know right? Although honestly I'm just thrilled he's with someone else because it has cut down on a lot of the harassment. And from what I know of her she seems to be just as crazy as him so I think they are a good fit.

[turtle1120]

Sept 10, 2012 16:40:07 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Sept 10, 2012 16:37:44 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

Omg your Ex wins an award for biggest douche! Too bad you couldn't let his new GF know about all of his continuing ridiculousness. I'm sure she'd be thrilled to know that he's still not over you and continues to harass you.

I know right? Although honestly I'm just thrilled he's with someone else because it has cut down on a lot of the harassment. And from what I know of her she seems to be just as crazy as him so I think they are a good fit.

Lord help us all! They better not procreate!!!

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Sept 10, 2012 16:53:30 GMT -5 dynamoo said:

Sept 10, 2012 16:07:44 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Ha! Oh yes I have NO desire to engage in his BS at.all.

Think about when that last tie is cut how much you will be able to celebrate. ;D

Oh that's the craziest thing. EVERY tie has been cut. We sold and closed on the house, the divorce is final. Yet the harassment continues. He truly is pathological. I realize a lot of ladies on her have had much worse though, so I can't really complain too much.

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Sept 10, 2012 17:15:15 GMT -5 dynamoo said:

That's crazy, PDX! I guess ignore him until he gets bored in future years or can you block him?

Because he is so pathological he'd just start calling from other numbers, or my work. So really it would just be a waste of the money to put the block. Also given I don't want to take any actions that show he's "gotten" to me. If he realizes he's blocked or even that I changed my number he'll realize in a small way that he's "getting to me" and that will further entice him to escalate.

He's very aggressive and I think it's best he have an outlet to express his anger. I'm seriously scared for myself if he realized he couldn't reach me. As in he would show up at my apartment or work.

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 10, 2012 16:34:22 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Sept 10, 2012 16:25:16 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

After seeing his videos I have to agree with BK. I can't stop picturing him licking his lips while he left the message.

You could hear it!

LOL OMG! That lip licking thing is one of the creepiest things ever.

[usedtobebear]

Sept 10, 2012 15:42:02 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

. Also he's totally a lose cannon so I like to be able to have some sort of gauge on his state of mind.

This is exactly why I haven't changed my number and why I'm not sure if I want to. I can't believe he's still calling you, how annoying!! At least he doesn't call very often anymore, hopefully he'll stop calling altogether very soon!

[naeljun]

Sept 10, 2012 16:04:27 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Sept 10, 2012 15:46:06 GMT -5 naeljun said:

I know you don't want to change your number but why do you listen to the messages. Just delete them.

He escalates quite quickly and has done some truly bizarre things like releasing a hate video, tried to blackmail me, bought my domain name for a website, posed as my dad via an email address etc. It's important for me to listen to the voicemails to make sure there isn't something that requires legal action or if I need to save the voicemail as evidence.

I forgot about that..