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cherryvalance
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Post by cherryvalance on Dec 8, 2016 23:41:44 GMT -5

I'm in the ER and bleeding, waiting on an ultrasound.

As I was about to go to bed, I had sudden, excruciating cramps. It was the worst pain I've been in and I threw up a few times.

I hadn't had any spotting, but once we got here and I gave a urine sample, there was some blood and it seems I'm lightly bleeding now.

I'm terrified this is happening again.

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Really scared Dec 9, 2016 0:10:48 GMT -5

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Post by loira on Dec 9, 2016 0:10:48 GMT -5

Thinking of you and hoping it's nothing. With A I had spotting (unexplained) and awful, awful cramps. So bad that I was convinced I was miscarrying again. Not sure if this helps to reassure you, but I just wanted to let you know that you can fear the worst and have it be alright. It is possible, and I've got everything crossed that that's the case for you.

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 0:27:57 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Dec 9, 2016 0:27:57 GMT -5 ((cherryvalance)) I'm so sorry you are going through this, so many good thoughts coming your way.
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Really scared Dec 9, 2016 0:58:19 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by cherryvalance on Dec 9, 2016 0:58:19 GMT -5

Thank you both.

We did an ultrasound and it looks like I'm measuring at 6w2d, which matches my 5w6d Monday scan, but the tech couldn't find the heartbeat. We're waiting for the doctor and to be discharged and I guess I'll follow up with my doctor tomorrow.

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 2:37:08 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Dec 9, 2016 2:37:08 GMT -5 Just remember that the heartbeat isn't always seen until closer to 7 weeks. ((Hugs))
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thoseareradishes Senior Member Posts: 6,405 Likes: 5,227	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 7:22:48 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by thoseareradishes on Dec 9, 2016 7:22:48 GMT -5 I hope everything is ok and it was just a crappy ultrasound machine. (((Big hugs)))
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knx9211 Elder Posts: 13,169 Likes: 35,591	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 7:29:37 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by knx9211 on Dec 9, 2016 7:29:37 GMT -5 How scary. Thinking of you and hoping everything is ok.
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boiler717 Moderator Posts: 13,488 Likes: 11,848	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 7:32:15 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by boiler717 on Dec 9, 2016 7:32:15 GMT -5 Hugs, I hope it's just too early.
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mpc Senior Member Posts: 5,711 Likes: 6,853	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 9:06:36 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mpc on Dec 9, 2016 9:06:36 GMT -5 oh cherry I'm so sorry.
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Post by cherryvalance on Dec 9, 2016 11:06:37 GMT -5

Thanks, guys. The bleeding seemed to intensify last night, but was just brown discharge this morning (probably the Endometrin). My doctor is going to scan me tomorrow because he's concerned that they couldn't find the heartbeat.

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Post by FastHands on Dec 9, 2016 11:29:20 GMT -5

I'm sorry, that sounds terrifying.

I'm glad it seems to be old blood this morning, and hopefully you will have good news tomorrow. You're so early yet that I'm surprised your dr is concerned that they didnt' find a HB; that seems pretty reasonable to me..!

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Post by awick14 on Dec 9, 2016 12:05:08 GMT -5

cherryvalance- the ultrasound machines in the ER here are very crappy. They always told me yes there's a baby in there, and they would say things like "it looks like your x number of weeks" and even when it looked like I was 9-10 weeks they didn't seem discouraged that they couldn't actually see the heartbeat because of the machines they used. If it's one of those machines try not to worry. (Way easier said then done) but I'm glad your getting an ultrasound soon so you can see baby again.

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shauni27 Elder Posts: 14,605 Likes: 16,226	Really scared Dec 9, 2016 19:03:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by shauni27 on Dec 9, 2016 19:03:04 GMT -5 oh god, I am so sorry to read this. Please keep us posted--I am thinking of you. Huge hugs.
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Post by cherryvalance on Dec 10, 2016 9:41:35 GMT -5

Thank you for all the kind words.

We went in today and baby's HB was 135 and is measuring at 6w4d, which is on pace with Monday's measurements.

My RE said we're not out of the woods, but he was genuinely shocked that everything is still growing. So for now, we just wait and see.

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scm1011 Elder Posts: 14,457 Likes: 23,945	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 9:45:34 GMT -5 via mobile cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by scm1011 on Dec 10, 2016 9:45:34 GMT -5 Wonderful news!! Continued good thoughts coming your way.
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Chrysanthemum Full Member Posts: 2,753 Likes: 2,905	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 9:55:46 GMT -5 cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Chrysanthemum on Dec 10, 2016 9:55:46 GMT -5 Great news cherryvalance!!!!
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lms Full Member Posts: 1,317 Likes: 1,663	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 10:14:27 GMT -5 via Tapatalk cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lms on Dec 10, 2016 10:14:27 GMT -5 I hope it continues to go well.
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knx9211 Elder Posts: 13,169 Likes: 35,591	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 11:06:49 GMT -5 cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by knx9211 on Dec 10, 2016 11:06:49 GMT -5 I have been thinking of you all the time. So glad it was good news and will keep sending good vibes your way.
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trace Full Member Posts: 1,167 Likes: 1,083	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 12:20:06 GMT -5 via mobile cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by trace on Dec 10, 2016 12:20:06 GMT -5 That is very reassuring news! I had a lot of bleeding from 5.5 - 11 weeks due to a SCH. It's so hard not to assume the worst. Hang in there!
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loira Senior Member Posts: 8,947 Likes: 9,581	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 14:02:07 GMT -5 via Tapatalk cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by loira on Dec 10, 2016 14:02:07 GMT -5 Fantastic news! Strong heartbeat, too!
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Post by cherryvalance on Dec 10, 2016 14:48:13 GMT -5

I'm trying to be mentally prepared either way, but the HB has given me hope. I really believe in the power of a bunch of people thinking good thoughts/prayers/whatever, so I truly appreciate it all!

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Really scared Dec 10, 2016 15:38:06 GMT -5 via Tapatalk cherryvalance likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Dec 10, 2016 15:38:06 GMT -5 Yay! I'm so happy for you. You are going to be in my thoughts, sending good ones your way.
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Dec 10, 2016 14:48:13 GMT -5 cherryvalance said:

I'm trying to be mentally prepared either way, but the HB has given me hope. I really believe in the power of a bunch of people thinking good thoughts/prayers/whatever, so I truly appreciate it all!

I was thinking of you all night and all day today. I am SO glad to hear this update!!

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Post by cherryvalance on Dec 8, 2016 23:41:44 GMT -5

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