So this is the guy from work I went out with last weds for the first time(and my first post divorce date)....I'll call him N. N poked his head into my area this am to say hello. At lunch time I left the building and while deciding where to get lunch, N came out the door and asked where I was headed. We had lunch together( accidental? I'm not sure )--he even had me sample his food on his clean fork and then ate on it after me. We chatted a lot and each time we chat I feel like I'm peeling away his layers and getting to know him. Overall he seems like a sweet guy who is a bit homesick since coming to NY a little over a year ago. No plans to hang out again yet, but I'm taking it for face value--for now we're friends...we'll see where it goes!