Porn Makes Men Terrible In Bed

[summer]

Medium: Porn Makes Men Terrible In Bed


Most porn is about watching women pretend to enjoy sex acts that are unpleasant to them. It doesn’t have to be this way, but it is. Men who watch this type of porn are basically being taught sexual practices that will not work in real life. Why does that matter? Well, if you’re an 18 year old virgin, the only moves you’re learning are moves that will leave your partners miserable.

[al320]

I am so glad someone put this down in words and published it. Because jfc its true.

[aprilsails]

My good friend is divorcing her husband as a result of this among other things. When she wouldn't perform as he preferred in the bedroom he spent thousands on cam girls so you know, not a winner as it turns out. He then turned it back on her like if she had been compliant in the bedroom then he wouldn't have had to do that and if she would put in the effort they could save their marriage... Ugh I hate this dude so much.

[rupertpenny]

This was great. I've actually only watched a total of about 20 minutes of porn in my life, but I definitely got the message that sex was all about women pleasing men loud and clear. I wish I had learned to stick up for myself sexually much earlier.

[Michelle]

The best lover I ever had watched a lot of porn... But he "got off" on being able to make a woman squeal like the porn girls I guess, and worked really hard to make that happen. Really hard. And he was effective.

I can, however, see how some men would turn into total lazy asses and disrespectful/disregarding in the bedroom.

I also had a friend whose boyfriend allegedly always wanted to finish in her mouth - likely from watching too much porn. That was an uncomfortable vent to listen to...

[Bernadine]

This was absolutely an issue with my xh. He watched a more than normal amount I think- and had very unrealistic expectations of our sex life because of it.

It's a relief for me that h doesn't watch.

[taratru]

I totally wasted 2 years of my life on a guy like this. He was the worst. I'm so grateful for my h.