My ex came to visit

[stephbfan]

My ex came to visit DD and stayed for with us 6 days. He left early today and will not see her until mid December.

DD had a rough morning. As soon as she woke up and noticed her dad was gone she started crying. We had breakfast, got her ready for school. She wanted to finish a page that she started coloring yesterday and I told her that we would finish it in the evening and she said good, because daddy will be back by then. When I told her daddy was flying to his home, she started crying again. This is the first time she does something like this.

I have to be honest here. I miss the guy too. I don't miss him per se but I miss having someone around. He helped me with the house and with DD a lot.

[chrissie3416]

Poor lil thing....that must be tough. Is she able to skype with him until then?

[stephbfan]

Sept 17, 2012 9:37:17 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

Poor lil thing....that must be tough. Is she able to skype with him until then?

We Skype once/twice per week since she was 6 months old.

She doesn't even get this sad when she stays with him for several weeks and its time to come back home.

[chrissie3416]

[doriswe]

Awww, poor little girl!

Sidenote, I saw your post on BF about him going to the MD with you....sounds like that was really positive!

[stephbfan]

Sept 17, 2012 9:55:42 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Awww, poor little girl!

Sidenote, I saw your post on BF about him going to the MD with you....sounds like that was really positive!

Yeah, I scheduled a Drs appointment for when he was visiting and he sort of got pissed at first. At the end it worked out very well because DD was diagnosed with asthma and since he has it, he was able to provide a lot of info and had the chance to ask lots of questions since I have no experience with the condition.

Oh and I know I will get flamed for this but he has a baseball hat that I hate. It looks awful and its not like he doesn't have money to buy a new one. Well I took it and hid it from him and straight up told him he wasn't getting it back. I know I crossed the line there but the hat looks terrible!

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Shes getting older and she understands more now. Time is more concrete for her now.
She'll be ok in a couple of days.