Lingerie Question

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Do you keep it from past relationships and use it with new?

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Yes....is that bad? I wouldn't throw out all my stuff because it was "used" with someone else.

[doriswe]

New dude won't have a clue old dude enjoyed it first if you don't say anything!

[omeomi]

Hell.no.

When I moved out of my house with my ex, he had all of the lingerie I had used for him in a box. I pulled it all out and threw it on the floor. There was no way I would be ok with using that stuff again.

Granted he cheated on me. With unsavory people. So I told him to keep that shit for his whores. But either way, I wouldn't even want that in my house now.

[gozf]

Absolutely.

[Deleted]

Yeah. I'm torn if I should use my lingerie I used with my XH. I kept it for the past 9 months but I still can't decide! It's probably over 300 dollars of stuff.

[Deleted]

Yes because I picked it out and I was the one who enjoyed it. We barely used it anyways.

I mean do you also throw out all of your bras and panties?

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Sept 18, 2012 21:53:26 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Yes because I picked it out and I was the one who enjoyed it. We barely used it anyways.

I mean do you also throw out all of your bras and panties?

This is the logic I am using to keep it, I guess.

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I will keep mine even though I didn't have anything super expensive buying all new would be senseless to me. Mine unfortunatly is a range of sizes so hopefully when I lose some weight I can alter the bigger stuff so I can still use it.

[letyourselfgo]

Yes and No. Each of the men I've dated seriously enough to choose lingerie for all had wildly different tastes.

My ex-husband preferred to choose for me, and liked lingerie sets that kept me mostly covered, but showed the unexpected peek of skin, like one of those tie front teddies that showed a bit of belly right in front, but with a modern looking print. He hated the girly, pink and powder blue sets that I preferred.

My Ex-FI was into me wearing granny panties. Otherwise, he hated all lingerie.

My latest Ex had a similar preference to my own, and loved the few things I chose. No questions asked.

So, yes....I'll keep the lingerie I chose for myself and only myself. The lingerie I chose for the man in my life to enjoy.....those are gone with the wind.

[BlueBayou]

Sept 18, 2012 21:53:26 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Yes because I picked it out and I was the one who enjoyed it. We barely used it anyways.

I mean do you also throw out all of your bras and panties?

:Y: :Y: :Y:

[udscoobychick]

Yup, I keep it. I pick what makes me feel good, while still taking into account the guy's preference. So, I keep it because I like it.

[bullygirl979]

Sept 18, 2012 19:48:23 GMT -5 doriswe said:

New dude won't have a clue old dude enjoyed it first if you don't say anything!

:Y: :Y:

[jojoandleo]

Yes, I picked it out and it is mine. IF it was something I had picked out specifically to suit an ex's tastes, I could maybe see not using it. I'm cheap, too, though.

[dakotadangerdog]

The only outfit I got rid of was the one I bought specifically for my anniversary with XH, for some reason that one outfit made me feel weird. I kept everything else though.

[blackkitty]

I do not wear lingerie. I don't get the appeal. I look better naked.

[stephbfan]

I bought my lingerie and used it with the ex. He didn't give two craps about it so of course I kept it. I'm planning to use it with someone else when the time comes.