T texted me last night

[Bernadine]

He said that he really missed me and asked for more time to change things. Ugh.

I texted him back and told him I was sorry, we just didn't have enough chemistry.

I feel like a jerk, even though I know I did the right thing breaking it off with him. I don't miss him at all.

[bullygirl979]

Sept 19, 2012 8:06:24 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I feel like a jerk, even though I know I did the right thing breaking it off with him. I don't miss him at all.

You are NOT a jerk! You are doing the right thing for you AND him!

[Bernadine]

Sept 19, 2012 8:07:51 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

You did the right thing. I've had this happen to me too. You have to wonder who would want to be with someone who obviously does not want to be with them.

That's true.

And if he liked me so much, he should have acted like it more.

[gozf]

Do not lose a second of sleep over this! You did the right thing.

[marigoldgirl]

You are not a jerk. You are not responsible for his feelings.

[turtle1120]

You're not a jerk. If you don't miss him at all - there's no room to question whether or not you made the right decision.

[heavenly]

You did the right thing but that doesn't mean it was easy. I know far too many people stay in a bad situation because they don't want to hurt the other person's feelings.

[blackkitty]

Try to take comfort in knowing that you did the right thing for both of you.

[dakotadangerdog]

Ugh that would piss me off! You wouldn't have broken up with him if you weren't sure it wasn't going to work out. I hate when guys pull that shit!

[BlueBayou]

Sept 19, 2012 8:29:10 GMT -5 gozf said:

Do not lose a second of sleep over this! You did the right thing.

THIS . 110%. Its a favor in the long run that he cant see right now. You didnt do anything wrong. This is his problem, not yours (})

[achase123]

Ugh, nice response. Why are people so desperate?