Post by liubotflittyfud on Sept 19, 2012 10:47:23 GMT -5
Here's the best advice you can ever take about Starting Over and relationships.
If you feel like you're unhappy, leave the fucker.
If you have kids and feel like you're unhappy, leave the fucker and make him pay child support or have joint custody.
If you like a dude and want to date him, don't be a pussy. Say so and try it. Don't wait around for him.
If you think you want to bone some dude b/c you feel an attraction, don't beat yourself up b/c it's been 2 dates, or 23 and a half hours. Get yourself laid, son. Work it out later on.
If you're broke, or struggling, get a second job. But don't be yourself during your interview b/c they might not like it.
JUST DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO BE HAPPY.
Gah, fuck, shit. I'm done here. Goodbye cruel GBCN. You fucking twats are just that. Insecure bitches, riding your high horses and letting everyone else know that you think you're superior.
Post by stephbfan on Sept 19, 2012 10:52:45 GMT -5
Liubot, seriously.
This just doesn't make any sense. If you feel this board is crap, then why bother coming in here?
Also, people here give you good advice. Advice you don't take and then come back and complain about the results of those bad decisions you made. You really need to stop the excuses already and try to see what everyone is telling you here.
This just doesn't make any sense. If you feel this board is crap, then why bother coming in here?
Also, people here give you good advice. Advice you don't take and then come back and complain about the results of those bad decisions you made. You really need to stop the excuses already and try to see what everyone is telling you here.
Good advice and all, but it didn't sink in the last 30 or so times it was given to her, it isn't going to now either sadly.
Post by formerlyak on Sept 19, 2012 10:58:04 GMT -5
I love how when you don't like our advice (and you know in your heart the advice is good ... spot on even), you leave. Then you come back as a different name. We all figure you out and then you seem to make improvements. Then when you are taking steps backward instead of forward, we call you out on it and you get mad again. Rince. Repeat.
The Wah I'm the vicitm here, bs is getting old. I love that you're talking shit about us but you're the one that lies about things going on in your life to SEEK APPROVAL!!
Yea but everyone else that posts here are "Insecure Twats".
Pot meet Kettle.
We all know you'll be back. You never stay away long enough.
I actually just took the time to read the entire 6 pages of your other post. I have to ask you a question. Why wouldn't you want to make the right decisions in your life to validate the praise? I mean, didn't it feel good we were all rooting for you and were really thinking you were getting your life together? Why lie? I never will understand those who lie. If you did lie because you were sick of hearing shit from us, then why not just make the right decision to begin with?
I really wish you the best but you are an absolute train wreck.
I actually just took the time to read the entire 6 pages of your other post. I have to ask you a question. Why wouldn't you want to make the right decisions in your life to validate the praise? I mean, didn't it feel good we were all rooting for you and were really thinking you were getting your life together? Why lie? I never will understand those who lie. If you did lie because you were sick of hearing shit from us, then why not just make the right decision to begin with?
I really wish you the best but you are an absolute train wreck.
I was rooting for you, I reserved judgement, and I believed in you. You obviously don't really want to help yourself; you just want attention and validation. Those are things I'm not willing to give.
Your lies and your tantrums are indefensible. I don't have time for bullshit, and I'm kicking myself for wasting a second of my energy on you.
I actually just took the time to read the entire 6 pages of your other post. I have to ask you a question. Why wouldn't you want to make the right decisions in your life to validate the praise? I mean, didn't it feel good we were all rooting for you and were really thinking you were getting your life together? Why lie? I never will understand those who lie. If you did lie because you were sick of hearing shit from us, then why not just make the right decision to begin with?
I really wish you the best but you are an absolute train wreck.
The far more salient question is why she isn't making those choices for.her own life. Doing it for random international strangers approval is nearly as unhealthy as doing anything to please the latest guy in her life. Nearly only because internet strangers are not there to beat get up when they get annoyed.
LOL. Did people really believe she suddenly saw the light and didn't move in with her bf, etc. etc.? I thought it was obvious she was lying about all her decisions and progress and it's why I never posted on her posts.
It's not that I think she's a bad person or a lost cause but we should all know people don't change that quickly and start making different decisions. She has to make choices for herself and do what she wants to do until she is motivated to really change for herself, not because a board told her to. As long as she needs validation and lacks confidence, she is going to keep not making good decisions.
I think it's actually a healthy choice for her to get off this board. It was only making her lie.
I actually just took the time to read the entire 6 pages of your other post. I have to ask you a question. Why wouldn't you want to make the right decisions in your life to validate the praise? I mean, didn't it feel good we were all rooting for you and were really thinking you were getting your life together? Why lie? I never will understand those who lie. If you did lie because you were sick of hearing shit from us, then why not just make the right decision to begin with?
I really wish you the best but you are an absolute train wreck.
The far more salient question is why she isn't making those choices for.her own life. Doing it for random international strangers approval is nearly as unhealthy as doing anything to please the latest guy in her life. Nearly only because internet strangers are not there to beat get up when they get annoyed.
The far more salient question is why she isn't making those choices for.her own life. Doing it for random international strangers approval is nearly as unhealthy as doing anything to please the latest guy in her life. Nearly only because internet strangers are not there to beat get up when they get annoyed.
What took you so long? Maybe now people will stop being so nice to you. A lot of people around here have been way too kind and naive about you and your games. Maybe just maybe next time you come back they will tell you to fuck off and ignore your lies. Or maybe they will be looking for some BSC entertainment. Bye