90 Day Fiancee and Vanderpump Rules

[cleo29]

90 Day

I cannot even believe that Stephen think he will be taking the baby, alone, to the US. he is fucking crazy and i sincerely hope Olga tells him hell no. WTF is he thinking??

The scenes with Leida and Tasha were tough to watch. i think Leida is terrible person and he is fucking idiot to stay with her.

Larissa is... it was a lot.

VPR

James is a dick. i agree though that it Kristen looks kind of ridiculous at this point. If you don't care about him, just let it all go.

I saw the reunion for the first season and was reminded how much I liked Katie's hair. I think she needs to go shorter and lighter again. Not that she is asking me. lol

[maloney]

This is the second time Kristen brought a woman out of the wood work to confront people. She looks like a petty and needs to stop inserting herself into drama that has nothing to do with her

[meowmaps]

I'm hoping that the footage was edited to make it seem like Steven was going to take the baby because there's no fucking way you can take a nursing baby from its mom. That's just stupid and inhumane. Besides, based on what we see on the show, Olga does EVERYTHING. I haven't seen Steven change a diaper, burp the baby, etc. He just hands the baby off to her.

Larissa could be calmer, sure. But why is Colt so quick to absolve his cousin for being a complete dick? I'd 100% dump any guy who wouldn't stand up for me after his family member called me a bitch and gold digger.

If Tasha is just crashing at the apartment and not contributing rent, I don't think she should be living there. Leida's not wrong but she presents it in such an ugly, dictatorial way. It's a conversation that Eric should be having with his daughter.

[frlcb]

Dec 11, 2018 20:28:45 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

I'm hoping that the footage was edited to make it seem like Steven was going to take the baby because there's no fucking way you can take a nursing baby from its mom. That's just stupid and inhumane. Besides, based on what we see on the show, Olga does EVERYTHING. I haven't seen Steven change a diaper, burp the baby, etc. He just hands the baby off to her.

Larissa could be calmer, sure. But why is Colt so quick to absolve his cousin for being a complete dick? I'd 100% dump any guy who wouldn't stand up for me after his family member called me a bitch and gold digger.

If Tasha is just crashing at the apartment and not contributing rent, I don't think she should be living there. Leida's not wrong but she presents it in such an ugly, dictatorial way. It's a conversation that Eric should be having with his daughter.

Larissa needs to not be so rude to her future MIL. I think the cousin was a total ass, and Coltee just sits there not chiming in, but Larissa seems a little bit wacky. 

Tasha is what, 19? My understanding is it was HER apartment and her dad moved in because he was homeless (according to Reddit and her instagram). He's a shitty dad for letting his fiance evict her from the apartment. I think Leida is the most hateful, disgusting person ever on this show, and that says a lot.

[NomadicMama]

I read an article on line that said that Tasha was living in the apartment with friends. They moved out and she asked her dad to move in with her because he was living in his car. So, it’s pretty ballsy to force Tasha out of what was **her** apartment. Leida is a spoiled rotten princess who is with Eric for her green card. And, IMO, Eric is a lackluster father to allow Leida to treat Tasha with such disrespect. Eric seems to have very little. I wonder how he was able to sponsor Leida and Allesandro.

Stephen is delusional. He can not take the baby from Olga. What is he thinking. And his demanding that Olga show proper appreciation for everything he’s done is very telling. Red flags, Olga, red flags. Run away. Send him home.

I’m glad that Kalani and Asuelu had a break through. I hope it’s enough. Though, Asuelu seems to not be very nature, even at 23 years. I think that Kalani will always be frustrated with him.

Colt is so damn passive. Larissa is crazy. If I were Debbie, I’d want my own place. Ugh.

Fernanda is showing a great maturity and insight into Jonathan and his fractured relationship with his mom. I do not care for him much, but I think Fernanda is good for him.

[cleo29]

Dec 11, 2018 20:28:45 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

I'm hoping that the footage was edited to make it seem like Steven was going to take the baby because there's no fucking way you can take a nursing baby from its mom. That's just stupid and inhumane. Besides, based on what we see on the show, Olga does EVERYTHING. I haven't seen Steven change a diaper, burp the baby, etc. He just hands the baby off to her.

Larissa could be calmer, sure. But why is Colt so quick to absolve his cousin for being a complete dick? I'd 100% dump any guy who wouldn't stand up for me after his family member called me a bitch and gold digger.

If Tasha is just crashing at the apartment and not contributing rent, I don't think she should be living there. Leida's not wrong but she presents it in such an ugly, dictatorial way. It's a conversation that Eric should be having with his daughter.

tasha and her dad were splitting everything. then, when leida was going to come here and they would need the space he told her to just split the utilities and save the rent so she can get a new place. She is on the lease with Eric and the fact he is staying with a woman who told him outright she have him terminate his parental rights is pretty outrageous.

[greysgirl]

Dec 11, 2018 21:00:00 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

I read an article on line that said that Tasha was living in the apartment with friends. They moved out and she asked her dad to move in with her because he was living in his car. So, it’s pretty ballsy to force Tasha out of what was **her** apartment. Leida is a spoiled rotten princess who is with Eric for her green card. And, IMO, Eric is a lackluster father to allow Leida to treat Tasha with such disrespect. Eric seems to have very little. I wonder how he was able to sponsor Leida and Allesandro.

Stephen is delusional. He can not take the baby from Olga. What is he thinking. And his demanding that Olga show proper appreciation for everything he’s done is very telling. Red flags, Olga, red flags. Run away. Send him home.

I’m glad that Kalani and Asuelu had a break through. I hope it’s enough. Though, Asuelu seems to not be very nature, even at 23 years. I think that Kalani will always be frustrated with him.

Colt is so damn passive. Larissa is crazy. If I were Debbie, I’d want my own place. Ugh.

Fernanda is showing a great maturity and insight into Jonathan and his fractured relationship with his mom. I do not care for him much, but I think Fernanda is good for him.

Ditto all of this!

[VillainV]

Stephen/Olga: He’s on crack if he thinks he’s going to take her baby to America without her. She’s the only one who is capable (or even interested?) in caring for him. At the beginning this seemed like a real opportunity for Stephen to grow up and give his kid the family he didn’t have growing up. But it looks like he’s going to mess it up. I just hope everything works out for Olga and the baby.

Eric/Leida: He learned all he needed to know about her when she said she wanted him to forfeit parental rights. AYFKM? When someone shows you who they are, believe them. He’s so desperate for affection from her (or the feeling he gets from having a beautiful young foreign girlfriend) that he won’t send her home. Tasha kicks ass, I really like her.

Jon/Fernanda: She’s showing a lot of maturity here, trying to get Jon to mend ties with his mom for the good of their future extended family. I like her a lot. Jon’s mom grates on me, but hopefully she’ll come around and realize that Fernanda is the best thing to happen to Jon in a long time.

Colt/Larissa: I mean, the cousin wasn’t wrong to call her a gold-digger. She truly doesn’t seem to understand that Colt has a limited amount of money and can’t just buy her whatever she wants. I’m disappointed that Colt just sat there like an asshole, but I’m not really surprised. I like Debbie.

Jay/Ashley: I remain horrified about the threats they’ve received, and I’m pissed for them that friends and family refused to attend their wedding because of the threats.

Kalani/Asuelu: I hope their relationship turned the corner and they can start to mature some and builds mutually supportive relationship. I feel like she holds his age/maturity against him too much — I mean, what did she expect when she slept with a man that young? His heart is in the right place, they just both need to learn how to have an adult relationship with each other.

[cleo29]

VillainV, I am just praying she will not send the baby with stephen. I don't think she will, but he pressures her and puts everything on her. He is an idiot.

I agree with you about Kalani. She knew how old he was when she slept with him. if she was concerned with him being mature, she should have considered that before.

[joy]

Ohmygod, ohmygod - does the Steven and Olga stuff get better as this newest episode goes on? Him threatening to take that baby away from Olga is giving me heart palpitations.

“We’re citizens. You’d have no say really.”

Seriously. I’m totally uncomfortable.





Obligatory - lord, Kalani.

[cleo29]

Dec 17, 2018 8:20:59 GMT -5 joy said:

Ohmygod, ohmygod - does the Steven and Olga stuff get better as this newest episode goes on? Him threatening to take that baby away from Olga is giving me heart palpitations.

“We’re citizens. You’d have no say really.”

Seriously. I’m totally uncomfortable.





Obligatory - lord, Kalani.

 I think steven is losing his mind. his good family friend, second mom, said she was not happy with what she saw last night and that it is not like the Steven she knows. she thinks he was trying to assert this male part of him.

I don't know. I don't understand his logic. he hated growing up without a dad, but he thinks taking the baby away from his mother is totally OK. olga better not let that baby leave her.

[meowmaps]

Can someone explain to me why it's all Asuelu's fault that Kalani's pregnant? I got the impression that Kalani willingly had unprotected sex with him so...

I gave Kalani a death stare that lasted like five minutes. I was hoping she could feel it through the TV screen.

[cleo29]

Dec 17, 2018 8:31:49 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

Can someone explain to me why it's all Asuelu's fault that Kalani's pregnant? I got the impression that Kalani willingly had unprotected sex with him so...

I gave Kalani a death stare that lasted like five minutes. I was hoping she could feel it through the TV screen.

yeah. If you do not want to have another kid again, at least not yet, then take the steps you need to take protect yourself.

[VillainV]

Dec 17, 2018 8:31:49 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

Can someone explain to me why it's all Asuelu's fault that Kalani's pregnant? I got the impression that Kalani willingly had unprotected sex with him so...

I gave Kalani a death stare that lasted like five minutes. I was hoping she could feel it through the TV screen.

I get the distinct impression that’s she’s equally upset with herself, but is just taking it out on him. She’s like 30, she knows it’s her responsibility too. Even with my amazing husband, I would have been equal parts terrified and pissed if I’d become pregnant 5 months after having my son. I don’t agree at all with how she’s handling it, but I do think she’s allowed to have that reaction.

[NomadicMama]

Yah, Kalani needs to stop playing the martyr. She talks about how she’s gone against her father’s wishes and her upbringing…she chose to have sex with Asuelu. If you don’t use protection, you run the risk of getting pregnant. She knows he wants more kids, and that he won’t wear a condom…I don’t see how she can blame him.

Steven needs to pull his head out of his backend. You can not separate at baby from his mother, despite how bad your relationship with your father was. Be patient through the visa process.

Colt and Larissa…I would have been soooooo embarrassed to have been at that dinner with his friends. Not the time, not the place.

Ashley and Jay deserve to be happy. I hope things go more smoothly once they are married.

[yourmother]

I REALLY hope Olga keeps her baby in Russia. Steven is nuts and watching his controlling behavior causes ME anxiety. Does anyone know how this story unfolds? Twitter was going crazy last night over this.

Kalani will never own up to her own part in the messes she helps to create. I wanted to SLAP HER THROUGH THE TV when she said Asuelo doesn't wear condoms because "those are for slut people". SHUT IT, LADY. She could easily say, no thanks.

Colt and Larissa. Gosh, is this MUD or what?!? Those poor friends had to sit through all that! And I'm wondering if he ever got his A/C fixed. Did they mention that? I'd take a $150 Uber before sharing a ride with Colt/Larissa/no A/C in LAS VEGAS. Oh, and I did see on Reddit or Twitter that Deb (mom) said that the cousin (John) isn't very close to her family and that she did not every talk to him about her opinion of Larissa. She is trying to distance herself from the crazy cousin.

Ashley and Jay - I hate to say it, but this reminds me of a teacher/student relationship. It creeps me out. He's a baby!

John and Fernanda - I'm all over the place with this couple. I think there is too much of an age gap and immaturity for this couple. While she is mature about a lot of things, I kinda think she overreacted about him spending 45 mins with his friend. Maybe my perspective is off because I've been married a million years and I have my own life away from my DH so him going out would be NBD.

Eric and Leida - They deserve each other. Did anyone see her meltdown on Instagram? LOL! I like Eric's ex-wife. She's so calm and normal. I wanted to punch Leida's face when she said that she wouldn't care one bit if the step kids didn't show up to the wedding. She keeps talking about her "medical career". I can't seem to find out exactly what this means. Anyone here know? Eric is a POS for allowing this nonsense to go on.

[cleo29]

Dec 17, 2018 10:13:07 GMT -5 jeaniebueller said:

Someone on reddit did a really detailed post about how the visa and immigration laws work and analyzed each couple and its pretty interesting and one of them explained that there would be a zero likelihood that he could take that baby to america, absent Olga's approval anyway. That made me feel better. There is something wrong with Steve. Yes, you didn't have a dad but why would you want to remove the kid's mom from his life, especially since she appears to EBF? Idiot.

I loved Eric's dad throwing shade at him and Eric didn't even notice.

i fear that Steven will try to wear Olga down. He is such a jerk. brings the baby over,  "Feed him. Feed him."  he is a prick.

[VillainV]

Dec 17, 2018 10:39:47 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Dec 17, 2018 10:13:07 GMT -5 jeaniebueller said:

Someone on reddit did a really detailed post about how the visa and immigration laws work and analyzed each couple and its pretty interesting and one of them explained that there would be a zero likelihood that he could take that baby to america, absent Olga's approval anyway. That made me feel better. There is something wrong with Steve. Yes, you didn't have a dad but why would you want to remove the kid's mom from his life, especially since she appears to EBF? Idiot.

I loved Eric's dad throwing shade at him and Eric didn't even notice.

i fear that Steven will try to wear Olga down. He is such a jerk. brings the baby over,  "Feed him. Feed him."  he is a prick.

If he can’t handle a couple of hours at the embassy without Olga there to calm him or feed him, how does he expect to deal with an infant full-time without Olga there? He wouldn’t even last the flight home.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 17, 2018 10:57:06 GMT -5 VillainV said:

Dec 17, 2018 10:39:47 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

i fear that Steven will try to wear Olga down. He is such a jerk. brings the baby over,  "Feed him. Feed him."  he is a prick.

If he can’t handle a couple of hours at the embassy without Olga there to calm him or feed him, how does he expect to deal with an infant full-time without Olga there? He wouldn’t even last the flight home.

She spends so much time defending him on SM...it's such a typical response for someone who is in that sort of power relationship. 

[Jalapeñomel]

Also this: soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-horror-story-olga-grandparents-brutally-murdered-her-mother-left-her-an-orphan/

[Deleted]

Anyone watch VPR last night?

I know it's summer and he wears long-sleeve shirts, but Jax always looks greasy.

And wow to Ariana's outfit for their "glamorous" night out.

Raquel is young and clueless.

[NomadicMama]

Dec 17, 2018 12:02:49 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Also this: soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-horror-story-olga-grandparents-brutally-murdered-her-mother-left-her-an-orphan/

I cannot fathom such tragedy. Olga has been through so much in her short life. She deserves to be with someone who makes her life less hard. (Not that anyone deserves poor treatment.) This makes my heart ache for her. Wow.

[peachdragon]

I watched VPR. I can't get over the 70k ring. I told my husband that if he had bought me something like that with inheritance money, I would have told him to take it back and get something a lot more reasonable.

I find the Kristen scheming to be very gross. The looks of glee she gets while telling Raquel about Hope are disgusting.

It's interesting that being drunk gives you a pass to be an asshole. James says the same thing over and over again about not drinking anymore. Do we still believe it? No.

I think Lala needs to go back to blonde hair. She's so so pretty, and all that brown washes her out a bit.

I'm loving that Ariana and Stassi are friends now, lol. I thought Ariana was such a bitch to Stassi. I admit I've always loved Stassi.

[cleo29]

Dec 17, 2018 10:57:06 GMT -5 VillainV said:

Dec 17, 2018 10:39:47 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

i fear that Steven will try to wear Olga down. He is such a jerk. brings the baby over,  "Feed him. Feed him."  he is a prick.

If he can’t handle a couple of hours at the embassy without Olga there to calm him or feed him, how does he expect to deal with an infant full-time without Olga there? He wouldn’t even last the flight home.

Did his dad die or leave them? if it is the latter, i do not understand naming the baby after him.

[cleo29]

Dec 17, 2018 12:40:02 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

Dec 17, 2018 12:02:49 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Also this: soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-horror-story-olga-grandparents-brutally-murdered-her-mother-left-her-an-orphan/

I cannot fathom such tragedy. Olga has been through so much in her short life. She deserves to be with someone who makes her life less hard. (Not that anyone deserves poor treatment.) This makes my heart ache for her. Wow.

this makes me more annoyed on her behalf because he acts like he is the only one who lost a parent.