90 Day Fiancé/Teen Mom/Young&Pregnant/etc chatter

[Jalapeñomel]

I’m catching up on this week’s episodes.

[Jalapeñomel]

So are we surprised that Jay cheated?

That’s a no.

Why for the love of god is Kalani marrying Asuelo? Why does she get pregnant so easy? 😭

[cleo29]

Why have sex without a condom when she does not want to get pregnant right now??

not shocked about Jay. I have not finished watching yet, I fell asleep the other night to Leida's voice. :/ Eric's whole, "this is my last chance at love" is such bullshit. a woman who loves you would not make you put her above your kids. period.

and I am nervous to watch steven and risk my head exploding.

[brooke77]

I guess I’m only surprised Jay cheated so quickly! He created a Tinder account as soon as they got home from Vegas? I doubt he was ever faithful.

Kalani’s sister is being so dramatic about the pregnancy. I understand why Kalani would be upset (in general, not at Asuelu) at getting pregnant when she already has a young baby. But she’s to blame too since there are so many options for birth control for breastfeeding mothers. I don’t get why her sister was so upset. Maybe for drama for the show?

I can’t watch Leida. She just seems like a terrible person.

[lovelyshoes]

I can’t look at eric. I don’t believe that guy is 40, he is at least 10 years older. And he needs to wash his hair.
Someone posted before that her family is paying him to marry her for the green card, that’s seriously the only explanation that I can accept at this point. She is the worst of all shows and he needs to drive her to the airport yesterday.

Steven is the worst. I feel so incredibly sad for Olga. I hope she doesn’t come here.

[joy]

Steven scares me.

[meowmaps]

Dec 26, 2018 17:07:37 GMT -5 brooke77 said:

I guess I’m only surprised Jay cheated so quickly! He created a Tinder account as soon as they got home from Vegas? I doubt he was ever faithful.

Kalani’s sister is being so dramatic about the pregnancy. I understand why Kalani would be upset (in general, not at Asuelu) at getting pregnant when she already has a young baby. But she’s to blame too since there are so many options for birth control for breastfeeding mothers. I don’t get why her sister was so upset. Maybe for drama for the show?

I can’t watch Leida. She just seems like a terrible person.

I find that part so odd.  She's way too involved in her sister's life.  It's unhealthy and borderline creepy.  It's like Kalani needs permission from her sister when it comes to living her life. Granted, she doesn't make great decisions, but I'd be really resentful if I had a sister that was scrutinizing my every move.  

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 26, 2018 17:50:53 GMT -5 joy said:

Steven scares me.

He’s terrifying. Olga seems so normal, and thank god for her friend, the only voice of reason.

Eric freaks me out, because I’m now 40, and I hope I don’t look that worn out.

[brooke77]

Dec 26, 2018 20:32:44 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 26, 2018 17:50:53 GMT -5 joy said:

Steven scares me.

He’s terrifying. Olga seems so normal, and thank god for her friend, the only voice of reason.

Eric freaks me out, because I’m now 40, and I hope I don’t look that worn out.

Did you guys see this? I don’t know how true it is, but it makes me feel even worse for Olga. And scared for her that she’s with Steven.

soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-horror-story-olga-grandparents-brutally-murdered-her-mother-left-her-an-orphan/

[cleo29]

Dec 26, 2018 17:26:19 GMT -5 lovelyshoes said:

I can’t look at eric. I don’t believe that guy is 40, he is at least 10 years older. And he needs to wash his hair.
Someone posted before that her family is paying him to marry her for the green card, that’s seriously the only explanation that I can accept at this point. She is the worst of all shows and he needs to drive her to the airport yesterday.

Steven is the worst. I feel so incredibly sad for Olga. I hope she doesn’t come here.

I read that they are not doing something with the show anymore because of threats on instagram towards Leida or something. I am not sure they were genuine threats, but definitely people calling her out on her shit and she responded that she is a nice person. ummm, no you are not.

Also, Steven created a Gofundme to help pay bills because he is starting some sort of trade school and apprenticeship which does not have a big salary yet. he said his rent in bowie, MD is two grand a month which I am finding hard to believe unless he is renting a bigger house. So, I am not really buying it but he made it sound like olga is here which just makes me sad for her and the baby. also, did his dad die or just walk out on them? If the latter, why would you want to name your kid after the man? I don't get it.

[NomadicMama]

Kalani is too deeply enmeshed with her family. It’s all about how her sister and father feel about her relationship and children. Her sister needs to take a giant step back. And stop enabling her bad choices. And talking about her pregnancy on camera but hiding it from her father. He’s going to find out he’s been kept in the dark and that’s gonna get messy.

Eric’s children deserve much better. And I pity Alessandro given Leida and Eric are raising him. Imagine, in 18 years, how Leida would react if her future husband treated Alessandro the way Leida treated Tasha. Her head would explode with rage. I loathe Eric and Leida.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 26, 2018 21:00:05 GMT -5 brooke77 said:

Dec 26, 2018 20:32:44 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

He’s terrifying. Olga seems so normal, and thank god for her friend, the only voice of reason.

Eric freaks me out, because I’m now 40, and I hope I don’t look that worn out.

Did you guys see this? I don’t know how true it is, but it makes me feel even worse for Olga. And scared for her that she’s with Steven.

soapdirt.com/90-day-fiance-horror-story-olga-grandparents-brutally-murdered-her-mother-left-her-an-orphan/

Yeah we discussed this in the last thread, I think.


Anyone watch Young and Pregnant?

[egishere]

The thing with Kalani's sister is I think they were very close and she's just very sad that things have turned out like that for her sister. I think she is genuinely worried, although being a little bitchy about the whole thing, about their future and how are they going to support two kids.

Ashley and Jay's wedding was weird with the whole Elvis thing and she looked so sad.

[Violet]

The drama this season is insane. I made the mistake of looking at the Colt di*k pic posed on reddit. Let's just say it's the same size as a wine cork. Larissa must really want her green card. 

(censored due to my own work filters)

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 27, 2018 13:13:15 GMT -5 Violet said:

The drama this season is insane. I made the mistake of looking at the Colt di*k pic posed on reddit. Let's just say it's the same size as a wine cork. Larissa must really want her green card. 

(censored due to my own work filters)

Wtf. Why?

[Violet]

Dec 27, 2018 14:07:15 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 27, 2018 13:13:15 GMT -5 Violet said:

The drama this season is insane. I made the mistake of looking at the Colt di*k pic posed on reddit. Let's just say it's the same size as a wine cork. Larissa must really want her green card. 

(censored due to my own work filters)

Wtf. Why?

self loathe. Damn reddit.

[marie]

Dec 26, 2018 21:59:44 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Dec 26, 2018 17:26:19 GMT -5 lovelyshoes said:

I can’t look at eric. I don’t believe that guy is 40, he is at least 10 years older. And he needs to wash his hair.
Someone posted before that her family is paying him to marry her for the green card, that’s seriously the only explanation that I can accept at this point. She is the worst of all shows and he needs to drive her to the airport yesterday.

Steven is the worst. I feel so incredibly sad for Olga. I hope she doesn’t come here.

I read that they are not doing something with the show anymore because of threats on instagram towards Leida or something. I am not sure they were genuine threats, but definitely people calling her out on her shit and she responded that she is a nice person. ummm, no you are not.

Also, Steven created a Gofundme to help pay bills because he is starting some sort of trade school and apprenticeship which does not have a big salary yet. he said his rent in bowie, MD is two grand a month which I am finding hard to believe unless he is renting a bigger house. So, I am not really buying it but he made it sound like olga is here which just makes me sad for her and the baby. also, did his dad die or just walk out on them? If the latter, why would you want to name your kid after the man? I don't get it.

This made me go look for it of course   Steven posted an update... see below. I do not recall their baby being named Alex?


The page is doing better we hoped. We made a mutual agreement and to ensure you guys are donating for a good cause we are going to open a second account in my bank and put all of this money in the bank for Alex and everything he needs. We will not be spending this on our personal selfs! We appreciate every single one of you who are helping give our family a small head start! If you would like a personalized video from us both or only one of us just make an attempt to contact us. Thank you all and have a lovely Christmas and New Years from the Frend family ❤️

[frlcb]

Dec 27, 2018 16:45:08 GMT -5 marie said:

Dec 26, 2018 21:59:44 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I read that they are not doing something with the show anymore because of threats on instagram towards Leida or something. I am not sure they were genuine threats, but definitely people calling her out on her shit and she responded that she is a nice person. ummm, no you are not.

Also, Steven created a Gofundme to help pay bills because he is starting some sort of trade school and apprenticeship which does not have a big salary yet. he said his rent in bowie, MD is two grand a month which I am finding hard to believe unless he is renting a bigger house. So, I am not really buying it but he made it sound like olga is here which just makes me sad for her and the baby. also, did his dad die or just walk out on them? If the latter, why would you want to name your kid after the man? I don't get it.

This made me go look for it of course   Steven posted an update... see below. I do not recall their baby being named Alex?


The page is doing better we hoped. We made a mutual agreement and to ensure you guys are donating for a good cause we are going to open a second account in my bank and put all of this money in the bank for Alex and everything he needs. We will not be spending this on our personal selfs! We appreciate every single one of you who are helping give our family a small head start! If you would like a personalized video from us both or only one of us just make an attempt to contact us. Thank you all and have a lovely Christmas and New Years from the Frend family ❤️

He said that his middle name is Alexander and they call him Alex, because they feel weird calling him Richie, which is what his first name is, but that TLC made them call him that. I have no idea. 

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 27, 2018 16:45:08 GMT -5 marie said:

Dec 26, 2018 21:59:44 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I read that they are not doing something with the show anymore because of threats on instagram towards Leida or something. I am not sure they were genuine threats, but definitely people calling her out on her shit and she responded that she is a nice person. ummm, no you are not.

Also, Steven created a Gofundme to help pay bills because he is starting some sort of trade school and apprenticeship which does not have a big salary yet. he said his rent in bowie, MD is two grand a month which I am finding hard to believe unless he is renting a bigger house. So, I am not really buying it but he made it sound like olga is here which just makes me sad for her and the baby. also, did his dad die or just walk out on them? If the latter, why would you want to name your kid after the man? I don't get it.

This made me go look for it of course   Steven posted an update... see below. I do not recall their baby being named Alex?


The page is doing better we hoped. We made a mutual agreement and to ensure you guys are donating for a good cause we are going to open a second account in my bank and put all of this money in the bank for Alex and everything he needs. We will not be spending this on our personal selfs! We appreciate every single one of you who are helping give our family a small head start! If you would like a personalized video from us both or only one of us just make an attempt to contact us. Thank you all and have a lovely Christmas and New Years from the Frend family ❤️

Um, no.


Young and pregnant talk: I’m so sad to hear about all of these men putting their hands on the baby mamas. It’s so sad.

[klingklang77]

Dec 27, 2018 17:37:26 GMT -5 frlcb said:

Dec 27, 2018 16:45:08 GMT -5 marie said:

This made me go look for it of course   Steven posted an update... see below. I do not recall their baby being named Alex?


The page is doing better we hoped. We made a mutual agreement and to ensure you guys are donating for a good cause we are going to open a second account in my bank and put all of this money in the bank for Alex and everything he needs. We will not be spending this on our personal selfs! We appreciate every single one of you who are helping give our family a small head start! If you would like a personalized video from us both or only one of us just make an attempt to contact us. Thank you all and have a lovely Christmas and New Years from the Frend family ❤️

He said that his middle name is Alexander and they call him Alex, because they feel weird calling him Richie, which is what his first name is, but that TLC made them call him that. I have no idea. 

I think it is common in Europe to use the middle name sometimes. I’m surprised they are using Alex and not Sasha. 

[cleo29]

Dec 27, 2018 19:22:00 GMT -5 klingklang77 said:

Dec 27, 2018 17:37:26 GMT -5 frlcb said:

He said that his middle name is Alexander and they call him Alex, because they feel weird calling him Richie, which is what his first name is, but that TLC made them call him that. I have no idea. 

I think it is common in Europe to use the middle name sometimes. I’m surprised they are using Alex and not Sasha. 

i feel like Steven would feel that is too feminine sounding. Just a guess on my part.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 27, 2018 22:10:06 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Dec 27, 2018 19:22:00 GMT -5 klingklang77 said:

I think it is common in Europe to use the middle name sometimes. I’m surprised they are using Alex and not Sasha. 

i feel like Steven would feel that is too feminine sounding. Just a guess on my part.

Yeah I could see this.

I’m watching Teen Mom now, and Amber is once again bitching that the show is making her look bad.

[cleo29]

Dec 28, 2018 10:28:03 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 27, 2018 22:10:06 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

i feel like Steven would feel that is too feminine sounding. Just a guess on my part.

Yeah I could see this.

I’m watching Teen Mom now, and Amber is once again bitching that the show is making her look bad.

I feel like this always the excuse. maybe you really do come across that bad.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 28, 2018 10:34:41 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Dec 28, 2018 10:28:03 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Yeah I could see this.

I’m watching Teen Mom now, and Amber is once again bitching that the show is making her look bad.

I feel like this always the excuse. maybe you really do come across that bad.

And let’s be real Amber, what have you done to ensure that you continue to make $250k a year (or whatever ridiculous salary she’s making to stay in bed)?

[cleo29]

Dec 28, 2018 10:40:52 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 28, 2018 10:34:41 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I feel like this always the excuse. maybe you really do come across that bad.

And let’s be real Amber, what have you done to ensure that you continue to make $250k a year (or whatever ridiculous salary she’s making to stay in bed)?

exactly, not that she even has to make that much money, which is a ton of money (at least to me lol).  Really, when you first saw them on the show, who would have thought that Gary would end up being the responsible one and good parent? i feel like he has actually had a lot of personal growth and maturing over the years

[frlcb]

Dec 27, 2018 19:22:00 GMT -5 klingklang77 said:

Dec 27, 2018 17:37:26 GMT -5 frlcb said:

He said that his middle name is Alexander and they call him Alex, because they feel weird calling him Richie, which is what his first name is, but that TLC made them call him that. I have no idea. 

I think it is common in Europe to use the middle name sometimes. I’m surprised they are using Alex and not Sasha. 

 I don't think it is uncommon in the US for people to use their middle name (both my dad and brother do, and I know several kids who do) but the point is that TLC wanted them to use Richie for some reason (according to Steven) but they want him to go by Alex. Who knows!

[icedcoffee]

Teen Mom:

Amber is ridiculous for saying she's going to quit. Why would she leave that salary behind?

Tyler is totally going to leave Cait. He seems so over it all. I hope he does. He deserves better than to always be taking care of everyone.

That conversation between Ryan's parents and Maci was so weird. Like almost staged? I hope Ryan does get better, but I feel skeptical.

[cleo29]

Dec 28, 2018 10:54:17 GMT -5 frlcb said:

Dec 27, 2018 19:22:00 GMT -5 klingklang77 said:

I think it is common in Europe to use the middle name sometimes. I’m surprised they are using Alex and not Sasha. 

 I don't think it is uncommon in the US for people to use their middle name (both my dad and brother do, and I know several kids who do) but the point is that TLC wanted them to use Richie for some reason (according to Steven) but they want him to go by Alex. Who knows!

in the beginning he said the name Richie was after his dad. But I thought his dad walked out on his family, which would make it seem unlikely. Maybe he did die, i can't remember i just know that it was his dad's name.

[NomadicMama]

I think some of Amber’s frustration is that she was not given much time off to handle her PPD whereas Cate did several long stints in treatment without cameras in her face. I can understand that, to a degree. But, Cate went to great lengths to get help, whereas we’ve all seen Amber take to her bed and complain. Though, I can understand why Amber doesn’t want to do a residential program—James is so little and she doesn’t want to be away from him. It’s a difficult situation. Amber needs to realize her ability to live well and not have to work a nine to five job is because of Teen Mom. If she quits, there goes her paycheck. I can’t see Andrew finding much production work in Indiana.

[klingklang77]

Dec 28, 2018 10:54:17 GMT -5 frlcb said:

Dec 27, 2018 19:22:00 GMT -5 klingklang77 said:

I think it is common in Europe to use the middle name sometimes. I’m surprised they are using Alex and not Sasha. 

 I don't think it is uncommon in the US for people to use their middle name (both my dad and brother do, and I know several kids who do) but the point is that TLC wanted them to use Richie for some reason (according to Steven) but they want him to go by Alex. Who knows!

Oh I didn’t know TLC wanted him to use Ritchie. I find it really odd that they named the baby after the father. Steven has said many times what a horrible father he had. I guess it’s just another TLC story like like the rest of them are.