MAFS, who watched?

[cleo29]

Luke is such a piece of shit.  he is totally gaslighting Kate. i want her to just get up and say enough.

AJ has no awareness. A person's actions, even if they are not because of an issue with their spouse, can still negatively impact the marriage. maybe this is why he had been single for five years.

[yourmother]

I watched it. Luke is very much gaslighting Kate. He wants her so badly to break up the marriage and he's doing everything in his power to make that happen. She's such a sweetheart and I feel so awful for her. His manipulative BS is so transparent. I'm glad the world is seeing him for who he is.

I really like Will and Jazmine at people but I'm not sure if they're the right fit for each other.

AJ. Ugh. He's so very lucky he got matched with Saint Stephanie. He needs to thank his lucky stars that she likes his hot-head-goofy-ass.

Keith and Kristine are a total match! LOVE THEM!

[litskispeciality]

So I really, really hope Kate asks for a divorce next week. Of course a-hole Luke "cares" now and "wants to save the marriage". What scares me is Dr. Jessica is supposed to be clinically trained, WHY is she not noticing this behavior? It seems like she's not that involved this season, was she on her honeymoon with JOhn? I feel a little bad for Kate too, while you sign up to have your life documented, they're making her seem like she's an alcoholic, if that's not true stop saying it! I was proud of her for standing up to Luke and calling him out for his drinking if that's "such an issue".

I'm not a fan of Jasmine. I think Will could do better. I'm sure she's a nice lady, but neither really seem into it.

Saint Stephanie all the way.

I'm glad Keith took the cooking class. I think him and Kristine could really make it. They're so cute together and seem to have their act together.

[brooke77]

I agree with everyone.

I still think Luke is hiding something. A girlfriend? Something is up. He’s shady. His mom even seemed to be trying to let Kate know that this marriage was hopeless.

I do not get what Stephanie sees in AJ. I guess there is someone out there for everyone? I also don’t know how she had a hard time finding someone. She seems successful, attractive, sweet, and interesting. Why is she on this show?!?

I love Keith and Kristine. Great couple with great chemistry.

Jasmine and her husband aren’t going to work out. They turn each other off. I thought it was telling that she said she was going to sleep with him on their 1 month anniversary, but he answered a question wrong (I think he rated her a 6.8 as a spouse) so she changed her mind). She’s so petty.

[NomadicMama]

My jaw was in my lap when Luke was gaslighting Kate early in the episode. The crap he says doesn’t even make sense. I was so sad for Kate on their anniversary. He got up and left her alone. He is not invested, at all. I, too, am surprised that the experts have not stepped in more. They are taking a more hands off approach this season, it seems. I hope Kate tells Luke to shove it on deciosion day.

Jasmine and Will are like minimally compatible roommates. They appear no closer to each other now than they did on their wedding day. She has strong ideas of what her marriage and husband should be like…and Will is not it.

AJ and Stephanie work. He’s got issues but she’s able to deal with him. I do hope she has a CTJ meeting with him about his outbursts. She shouldn’t have to deal with that on a regular basis.

Keith and Kristine are the best match. They are learning and growing together. I like how they both make mistakes but recover and take something positive from it. I can see them going the distance and I hope they do!

[cleo29]

Mar 1, 2019 10:38:55 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

My jaw was in my lap when Luke was gaslighting Kate early in the episode. The crap he says doesn’t even make sense. I was so sad for Kate on their anniversary. He got up and left her alone. He is not invested, at all. I, too, am surprised that the experts have not stepped in more. They are taking a more hands off approach this season, it seems. I hope Kate tells Luke to shove it on deciosion day.

Jasmine and Will are like minimally compatible roommates. They appear no closer to each other now than they did on their wedding day. She has strong ideas of what her marriage and husband should be like…and Will is not it.

AJ and Stephanie work. He’s got issues but she’s able to deal with him. I do hope she has a CTJ meeting with him about his outbursts. She shouldn’t have to deal with that on a regular basis.

Keith and Kristine are the best match. They are learning and growing together. I like how they both make mistakes but recover and take something positive from it. I can see them going the distance and I hope they do!

I nearly lost it when Luke's reasoning for not hanging with her on the anniversary was that she was feeling so down on herself and pretty much how unattractive it was  to him and thought she wanted space. SHE FEELS HORRIBLE ABOUT THINGS BECAUSE OF YOU, LUKE! 

This guy is not nice.  He is an asshole of the first order and he is just mean.

[litskispeciality]

I forgot about Luke's mom basically telling her sorry hunny this ain't gonna work. I know she says it's a mockery of marriage to do this process, but she really just knows what's going on behind the scenes. Seems like she likes Kate too.

I forget what he said at the end of the episode to gaslight her again but he's really pushing it off like it's her fault. Kate run, experts finally get involved. It's like they're watching this after and going "oh whoops, oh well".

I have a feeling Kristine will be pregnant right after filming. Dr. Pepper made a comment about using protection to avoid unwanted children. Great they're all having babies, just wait to make sure you're with the right person and ready. Interesting to see where they go with that next week, although I think Keith thinks he wants babies because they're cute and his wife will do all the work, which isn't what Kristine wants, hence the waiting.

[litskispeciality]

Going back seasons too, are Jepthe and whatever her name is still married? I don't do much on IG but found some baby/family pictures last night. I didn't watch happily ever after enough to see what Jepthe did to piss her off when she was pregnant.

[Jalapeñomel]

Mar 1, 2019 13:05:32 GMT -5 litskispeciality said:

Going back seasons too, are Jepthe and whatever her name is still married? I don't do much on IG but found some baby/family pictures last night. I didn't watch happily ever after enough to see what Jepthe did to piss her off when she was pregnant.

Well IG says yes?


Kristine and Keith laugh together. That’s huge IMO.

[cbwm1]

Mar 1, 2019 13:05:32 GMT -5 litskispeciality said:

Going back seasons too, are Jepthe and whatever her name is still married? I don't do much on IG but found some baby/family pictures last night. I didn't watch happily ever after enough to see what Jepthe did to piss her off when she was pregnant.

She said she was done and wanted a divorce, I *think* he moved out, then slept with another woman.

And that’s what Shawneice was pissed about.

[litskispeciality]

Mar 1, 2019 15:50:44 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Mar 1, 2019 13:05:32 GMT -5 litskispeciality said:

Going back seasons too, are Jepthe and whatever her name is still married? I don't do much on IG but found some baby/family pictures last night. I didn't watch happily ever after enough to see what Jepthe did to piss her off when she was pregnant.

She said she was done and wanted a divorce, I *think* he moved out, then slept with another woman.

And that’s what Shawneice was pissed about.

Wow. I mean technically it's the Friends "we were on a break" but assuming she was pregnant or just had a child maybe wait to sleep with someone else even if you're getting a divorce? Oh well good luck to them.

[Jalapeñomel]

Mar 1, 2019 15:50:44 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Mar 1, 2019 13:05:32 GMT -5 litskispeciality said:

Going back seasons too, are Jepthe and whatever her name is still married? I don't do much on IG but found some baby/family pictures last night. I didn't watch happily ever after enough to see what Jepthe did to piss her off when she was pregnant.

She said she was done and wanted a divorce, I *think* he moved out, then slept with another woman.

And that’s what Shawneice was pissed about.

Whoa! I just thought they weren’t communicating!

[achi]

I’m just finally watching this now. Luke thinks he’s a 7.5? WTF? More like a 2, and that’s being generous.

[cleo29]

Mar 1, 2019 21:12:15 GMT -5 achi said:

I’m just finally watching this now. Luke thinks he’s a 7.5? WTF? More like a 2, and that’s being generous.

I agree. I would like to know why he thinks he is a 7.5 in his role as a husband. And the way he judged Kate and her honest response was pretty gross.

[achi]

Mar 1, 2019 21:17:07 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Mar 1, 2019 21:12:15 GMT -5 achi said:

I’m just finally watching this now. Luke thinks he’s a 7.5? WTF? More like a 2, and that’s being generous.

I agree. I would like to know why he thinks he is a 7.5 in his role as a husband. And the way he judged Kate and her honest response was pretty gross.

I wish she would stand up for herself and tell him (and the “experts”) that she deserves better than him and leave. But she obviously wants to be married so badly that I don’t think she’ll ever do it. The nicest thing he could do would be to finally admit he’s into her and call it a day. He’s a piece of work, and quite frankly so is his mom. What a bitch. When he said that he knew her as she was walking down the aisle it seemed apparent from that moment that it wouldn’t work.

I feel like I’m in the minority, but I really like Stephanie and AJ as a couple. If she can whip his hot headedness into shape I feel like they could go the distance.

[cbwm1]

Mar 1, 2019 21:37:35 GMT -5 achi said:

Mar 1, 2019 21:17:07 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I agree. I would like to know why he thinks he is a 7.5 in his role as a husband. And the way he judged Kate and her honest response was pretty gross.

I wish she would stand up for herself and tell him (and the “experts”) that she deserves better than him and leave. But she obviously wants to be married so badly that I don’t think she’ll ever do it. The nicest thing he could do would be to finally admit he’s into her and call it a day. He’s a piece of work, and quite frankly so is his mom. What a bitch. When he said that he knew her as she was walking down the aisle it seemed apparent from that moment that it wouldn’t work.

I feel like I’m in the minority, but I really like Stephanie and AJ as a couple. If she can whip his hot headedness into shape I feel like they could go the distance.

Since Luke and Kate haven’t consummated, can’t they get an annulment? Like, I would go for that over a divorce from that MFer.

Also, I also like Steph and AJ. I think if he’s given the right tools to deal with his anger, they will be great together. And she is for real a saint for dealing with that shit from him.

[cleo29]

Mar 1, 2019 22:50:27 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Mar 1, 2019 21:37:35 GMT -5 achi said:

I wish she would stand up for herself and tell him (and the “experts”) that she deserves better than him and leave. But she obviously wants to be married so badly that I don’t think she’ll ever do it. The nicest thing he could do would be to finally admit he’s into her and call it a day. He’s a piece of work, and quite frankly so is his mom. What a bitch. When he said that he knew her as she was walking down the aisle it seemed apparent from that moment that it wouldn’t work.

I feel like I’m in the minority, but I really like Stephanie and AJ as a couple. If she can whip his hot headedness into shape I feel like they could go the distance.

Since Luke and Kate haven’t consummated, can’t they get an annulment? Like, I would go for that over a divorce from that MFer.

Also, I also like Steph and AJ. I think if he’s given the right tools to deal with his anger, they will be great together. And she is for real a saint for dealing with that shit from him.

the only reason i doubt this a bit is that he see nothing wrong with how he reacts to things or how it might make the people around him feel. he had no ownership or awareness and when it was brought up he was so dismissive.

[Jalapeñomel]

Kate needs to grow a backbone and some self esteem.

I hope Luke ends up single forever after treating Kate like this.

[achi]

Mar 1, 2019 23:09:13 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Mar 1, 2019 22:50:27 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Since Luke and Kate haven’t consummated, can’t they get an annulment? Like, I would go for that over a divorce from that MFer.

Also, I also like Steph and AJ. I think if he’s given the right tools to deal with his anger, they will be great together. And she is for real a saint for dealing with that shit from him.

the only reason i doubt this a bit is that he see nothing wrong with how he reacts to things or how it might make the people around him feel. he had no ownership or awareness and when it was brought up he was so dismissive.

You make a valid point. He needs to own how his actions make others feel and deal with his anger. A feel like therapy would do him a world of good. Perhaps now that it’s airing it’ll be the mirror he needs?

[Jalapeñomel]

Mar 2, 2019 9:25:06 GMT -5 achi said:

Mar 1, 2019 23:09:13 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

the only reason i doubt this a bit is that he see nothing wrong with how he reacts to things or how it might make the people around him feel. he had no ownership or awareness and when it was brought up he was so dismissive.

You make a valid point. He needs to own how his actions make others feel and deal with his anger. A feel like therapy would do him a world of good. Perhaps now that it’s airing it’ll be the mirror he needs?

I don’t think he has enough self-awareness.

[fernweh]

I agree about AJ and Stephanie. Personally I find his personality annoying but they seem good together. Hopefully he gets his anger under control because I could see them lasting.
I like Keith and Kristine because they are both willing to compromise and adapt together. However I could see Keith and jasmine Being a decent match too Keith and jasmine seem to have the same idea about gender roles and they but seem very unenthusiastic about their partners fitness/wanting to workout.

[Jalapeñomel]

Anyone want to discuss the 90Day Fiancé drama with the divorce parties of Larissa and Colt?

[cleo29]

Mar 3, 2019 8:29:24 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Anyone want to discuss the 90Day Fiancé drama with the divorce parties of Larissa and Colt?

it seems bananas. she already has a new boyfriend, right? and i saw he wants to stop her green card.

[Jalapeñomel]

Mar 3, 2019 9:26:43 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Mar 3, 2019 8:29:24 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Anyone want to discuss the 90Day Fiancé drama with the divorce parties of Larissa and Colt?

it seems bananas. she already has a new boyfriend, right? and i saw he wants to stop her green card.

Like strippers and whatnot. Where’s all this money coming from?

[cleo29]

Mar 3, 2019 9:48:56 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Mar 3, 2019 9:26:43 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

it seems bananas. she already has a new boyfriend, right? and i saw he wants to stop her green card.

Like strippers and whatnot. Where’s all this money coming from?

i would almost wonder if the wild horse paid for it as a promotional thing.

[Jalapeñomel]

Mar 3, 2019 10:04:48 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Mar 3, 2019 9:48:56 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Like strippers and whatnot. Where’s all this money coming from?

i would almost wonder if the wild horse paid for it as a promotional thing.

Had to have or something. I hope TOC is learning from this hot mess.

[litskispeciality]

Mar 2, 2019 9:32:41 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Mar 2, 2019 9:25:06 GMT -5 achi said:

You make a valid point. He needs to own how his actions make others feel and deal with his anger. A feel like therapy would do him a world of good. Perhaps now that it’s airing it’ll be the mirror he needs?

I don’t think he has enough self-awareness.

Now I have to feel a *little* bad for Luke's real life girlfriend, or whatever he's hiding. If he's this way with Kate he can't possibly treat a "real" relationship any better.