Hell to the No. I don't care WHO is playing. Or why. Or how miraculous it is. No. Just NO.
this. at least (?) he didn't realize it. i would tell my h he could go if he really wanted, but would guilt him enough that he wouldn't go. tell him if he wants to go, he needs to take the baby, you'll pump in the mean time.
While I see it's unfair I would let him go and then tell him that I get a 2 day girls weekend out to make everything fair. I also would give him an earful about not thinking about me and our daughter when planning something like this.