Shit!! This is awkward. TMI

[stephbfan]

So I have been seeing someone for sometime now. I will leave the deets for a different post though.

Anyway, he came over last night, we had sex and he left after a while. Long story short, he opened a condom we didn't use and ended up using another one instead.

We/I forgot about it but the found it in the morning, didn't think much of it and then put it in the trash can in my bathroom, thinking that I need to take all the trash out today anyway.

My mom came to visit unexpectedly and used my bathroom. I'm SURE, she saw the damn condom. My family doesn't know I'm seeing anyone.

Anyway, I know I was freaaaking dumb because I should have wrapped it in toilette paper or something and now I feel like Im 15 having to hide stuff.

I should have read wikihow for instructions especially the bolded part!!

How to dispose a condom

1. Make sure your condom is properly on before intercourse, and it's not torn, ripped, or damaged in any way, as it wouldn't matter how you took it off if something was wrong with it.

2. Finish what you have started.

3. Slowly pull out while gripping the base of the condom as you don't want to leave it behind. As unlikely as that sounds, you obviously don't want a kid, so just grip the base.

4. Ensure it isn't ripped. If it is, consult your personal and religious morals about what to do next.

5. Pull the condom off, but keep a safe distance away from the lady or male's orifice that the condom and penis was in. A drip can bring you a baby or STI.

6. Tie the end of the condom off, and find a proper trash bin or waster basket to dispose it in.

7. Wash your hands, and penis off, to rid of the semen that may have left behind.

Tips

If you don't want your parents to know, it's always easy to hide a condom in anything that looks like waste, don't just throw it on top. Mothers don't like that.

[omeomi]

I'd be so embarrassed, omg.

Granted, I'm way way way past the age where my parents think I'm innocent, but I don't want them to *know* if I've had sex lol.

Chalk it up to a learning experience. Hide the used condoms

[Deleted]

I think id be mortified. Though, your mom might just be happy you are using protection.

[Deleted]

I as a mom of almost adult children would be happy to see you are being careful and safe@!

[stephbfan]

This happened in the afternoon and my dad was with her so she didnt say anything.

My mom... lets just say she is not open to sex talk and her opinion of sex is VERY conservative. For her having sex before marriage is not good at all and having multiple partners during you life is not good either. Imagine her surprise when I ended up pregnant before getting married (I was engaged though).

[doriswe]

If she says anything you just blame us for your horrible behavior, k???

[stephbfan]

Sept 23, 2012 20:36:19 GMT -5 doriswe said:

If she says anything you just blame us for your horrible behavior, k???

Mom, I didn't want to sleep with the guy but Doris MADE me to. This board is a bad influence for me lol.

I clearly remember my mom talking about my cousin saying that there was a rumor about her sleeping with all of her boyfriends, and then my mom added and Im sure it has to be more than 10. Ehhh if she only knew that my number is higher than that!

[doriswe]

Sept 23, 2012 20:43:47 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

Sept 23, 2012 20:36:19 GMT -5 doriswe said:

If she says anything you just blame us for your horrible behavior, k???

Mom, I didn't want to sleep with the guy but Doris MADE me to. This board is a bad influence for me lol.

I clearly remember my mom talking about my cousin saying that there was a rumor about her sleeping with all of her boyfriends, and then my mom added and Im sure it has to be more than 10. Ehhh if she only knew that my number is higher than that!

lol....I'm practically forcing you to have sex with dudes!! You can send her my way, I'll vouch for that!!

Sometimes I think it's best if moms have blinders on!!

[naeljun]

I am wicked conservative so I would be mortified if that happened.

[roselis]

I understand the embarrassment. My mom still thinks I have been celibate since my divorce.

[mclovin]

My parents don't think you should have sex unless married.
Thanks for the advice about condoms. LOL

[ECB]

Think about it, though - when you're in a bathroom and even if you throw something away, do you really LOOK in the trashcan?? I know I don't.

[marigoldgirl]

Sept 23, 2012 19:52:43 GMT -5 mags said:

I as a mom of almost adult children would be happy to see you are being careful and safe@!

I completely agree.

[turtle1120]

Sept 23, 2012 21:39:20 GMT -5 @roselis said:

I understand the embarrassment. My mom still thinks I have been celibate since my divorce.

I'm pretty sure my mom thinks this as well which is why the few times I HAVE gotten some since then I've been very careful about hiding all evidence!

[roselis]

Sept 24, 2012 9:55:17 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

Sept 23, 2012 21:39:20 GMT -5 @roselis said:

I understand the embarrassment. My mom still thinks I have been celibate since my divorce.

I'm pretty sure my mom thinks this as well which is why the few times I HAVE gotten some since then I've been very careful about hiding all evidence!

I keep a trash can in my bedroom and take it out regularly

[stephbfan]

Sept 24, 2012 10:07:55 GMT -5 @roselis said:

Sept 24, 2012 9:55:17 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

I'm pretty sure my mom thinks this as well which is why the few times I HAVE gotten some since then I've been very careful about hiding all evidence!

I keep a trash can in my bedroom and take it out regularly

I do this too but I found the condom maybe like 2 hours before my mom came.
I never felt the need to hide anything because my family doesn't really come over that often anyway.

And my mom is convinced that I havent had any since my ex which was 4 years ago. I think I made it to the 2 year mark.