f/u to Weird Date/Man with Kids

[starburst604]

What an idiot!!! Good for you being proactive, he was just going to be a waste of your time. Next indeed!

[jojoandleo]

Dodged. a. bullet. His FIRST reaction to you asking to have a cell free night is to basically state Communicating with his XW is more important than your wishes. Funny, since you didn't even mention his XW-that's where HIS guilty mind went. He's a douche who isn't over his ex.

[lovelybb]

Yeah.... he's a turd. Good riddance. Whether he was texting her or a friend, it was still extremely rude to be doing it on a date.

[achase123]

What a moron! Seriously though, just proves your instincts were right on!

[cutter21]

I agree that you dodged a bullet and that his reaction was really weird about the texting. On to the next one...

[jojoandleo]

Sept 24, 2012 17:11:36 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Sept 24, 2012 17:09:45 GMT -5 achase123 said:

What a moron! Seriously though, just proves your instincts were right on!

I know. On the second date I thought things wouldn't work out but I gave it another couple shots. BK said to me that the fact that he was quasi-bad mouthing his XW (we were talking about what we're looking for based on qualities opposite of our exes and he went a little far) wasn't a good sign. At least I know I gave it a fair chance.

This + jumping when she calls + refusing to put down the phone for a single night BECAUSE of his ex= he's not over it.

[Deleted]

Dude what a horrible response. Glad you dodged this bullet, but sorry:(

[udscoobychick]

Sept 24, 2012 17:24:39 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Dude what a horrible response. Glad you dodged this bullet, but sorry:([/quote

:Y:

[turtle1120]

So he said he wouldn't be made to feel guilty about texting his exw, but then said he was texting a friend?

I'm sorry you're disappointed, but at least you don't have to waste any more time on him.

[BookLover]

He's a loser! Glad you went with your gut feeling and got to the bottom of the issue now instead of later.

[farfalla2011]

Geez! I'm glad you were able to see his true colors now rather after you had a ton of time invested. Next!

[doriswe]

That sucks, but I'm glad you handled it the way you did. He is clearly not over his XW.

[stephbfan]

Sept 24, 2012 17:26:53 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

So he said he wouldn't be made to feel guilty about texting his exw, but then said he was texting a friend?

I'm sorry you're disappointed, but at least you don't have to waste any more time on him.

Wow, guy is crazy, not only because of the relationship with the ex but also because of his reaction. If he reacted like this to a simple comment, imagine if you were having a serious fight.

[naeljun]

better you find out now than later.

[roselis]

That sucks MCC. At least you dodged that bullet!

[Deleted]

That stinks!