What the Hell?? Men out of the woodwork!

[womet]

That's so flattering! Definitely spend time focusing on yourself and your own healing. But that means that when you are ready, you'll have plenty to chose from. You hot momma you.

[womet]

I don't think you are giving yourself enough credit.

[dr.girlfriend]

That's great! But honestly, if it's someone you're potentially interested in, be honest. Otherwise you're kind of blowing him off now, and he might not be interested in five months when you are. Why not just say that you're not ready to date yet, but you are so flattered by his interest?

[dr.girlfriend]

May 18, 2012 20:05:55 GMT -5 @tjenbell said:

May 18, 2012 19:53:53 GMT -5 dr.girlfriend said:

That's great! But honestly, if it's someone you're potentially interested in, be honest. Otherwise you're kind of blowing him off now, and he might not be interested in five months when you are. Why not just say that you're not ready to date yet, but you are so flattered by his interest?

I'm scared to death of all of this. STBXH and I were unofficially separated in October of last year when I started mostly staying with friends or in the spare room, but I still feel married. I know this will improve with counseling and just time, but it's so strange. I think I kind of turned off that part of myself. But maybe I will express that I appreciate his friendship and let him know that there will come a time when I would be interested...

Exactly...good communication is key to a good relationship, so might as well start as you mean to go on, and not expect Mr. Sunshine to read your mind and know that you're secretly heart-fluttering over his texts while failing responding pretty neutrally...

[theintended]

But is your gut feeling that the guy is creepy?