I am a horrible person and a terrible wife.

[Doc_Lobster]

For the last few weeks m H has been stuck covering the night shift and working tons of overtime because someone else quit and they haven't found a replacement yet.

They're giving him the day off next Monday and he wants to hang out with me, of course. And I want to spend time with him, we barely see each other right now.

But....all I can think about is how I am going to have to skip spin that night. This is truly shameful and he must never know.

[kams]

Ha! I totally get it. I've slapped myself on the hand for similar thoughts (my H travels a ton, and I like my routine!).

Would he want to go with you? Sometimes I can coax my H with the promise of the gym hot tub.

[keweenawlove]

I can understand that. Luckily DH works out as much as I do so he'd at least understand me thinking that.

[sadlebred]

Don't feel guilty. Take him with you and go out to dinner afterwards.

[emsumm]

Yeah, take him with you! I've done that a time or two. I always remind him that no one can see what you're doing on your bike, so he can half-ass it, lol. Then we go in the hot tub together and get some dinner after. It's usually a really nice night.
Oh, it doesn't hurt that our gym has daycare and I can coax him with that, too

[onwisconsin]

Yep, I completely understand! Sometimes I think I can never have kids because HOW AM I GONNA BE ABLE TO RUN?!?!? Anyhow, dramatics asides, we hear ya! Maybe you can squeeze in a short workout in the morning?

[Deleted]

I can completely relate.

Make plans before or after your spin class.

[Doc_Lobster]

I asked him tonight if he wanted to go and he said no.

I think he's just extra tired from working so much, maybe he will change his mind after having a full weekend off for once. I wish he would come with me, I freaking love spin and it would be more fun if he was there.