FFFC!!!!!

[starryfish]

Lets hear them!!!!!

[starryfish]

I got a doozy:

-i slept with my FWB last night.....and the whole time we were doing it i kept thinking of D....this is super sad that I cant even enjoy my FWB which tells me i am NOT ready to date for a while....boo!

-I really want to contact D but I wont.....

[roselis]

I went over to guy's house last night and we ended up having sex.... I really need to learn to say no. I realized this last night and am not too happy with myself.

[doriswe]

I'm currently being a dick to DD's dad....he hasn't had time to see her in over a month and he text me yesterday morning to see if he can have her this weekend. I told him she's free but I can't drive her to the 1/2 way point (an hour drive for me) because I'll be out of town. He IMMEDIATELY text back "can't your mom drive her?" No....I'm not even asking my mom to do it. He should have planned more than a day in advance and I have bent over backwards to make things easy for him to see her. I realize that this is probably not in the best interest of DD, but for fucks sake, he can plan better for next weekend.

Also, if I get the job at the prison, shit is going to have to change with me driving DD all the time since I would have to drive 45 minutes back home to drive an hour back that direction to drop her off and an hour back home. Screw that. He should have figured out a way to move closer to his DD.

[doriswe]

Oct 12, 2012 8:45:26 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

My "friend" whose BF I found on match emailed me to tell me that I'm obnoxious and inappropriate. This is not news and although I can tone it down sometimes, I'm not changing who I am for someone.

Then she told me that I should steer clear of her boyfriend instead of seeking him out to talk to him. I'm annoyed because I don't seek him out, he seeks me out, makes inappropriate comments to me about my body and how hot I am. I've had people in bars tell me that he's a douche because he talked about me and not his GF when the two of us were dancing at a bar one night. He's a scumbag (and is probably still on match.com). My confession is that all I can think is that at least I'm not a 40 year old who has lived at home for 10 years and is with a man who openly lusts after my friends. I'm pissed that she thinks it's MY job to stay away from him. I'm not the one with the boner for him. I hate being blamed because I'm pretty. I know that sounds awful, but don't hate me because your BF thinks I'm hot. I barely talk to the douche.

I think she knows the truth about him and is projecting on you

[jojoandleo]

Oct 12, 2012 8:47:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 12, 2012 8:45:26 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

My "friend" whose BF I found on match emailed me to tell me that I'm obnoxious and inappropriate. This is not news and although I can tone it down sometimes, I'm not changing who I am for someone.

Then she told me that I should steer clear of her boyfriend instead of seeking him out to talk to him. I'm annoyed because I don't seek him out, he seeks me out, makes inappropriate comments to me about my body and how hot I am. I've had people in bars tell me that he's a douche because he talked about me and not his GF when the two of us were dancing at a bar one night. He's a scumbag (and is probably still on match.com). My confession is that all I can think is that at least I'm not a 40 year old who has lived at home for 10 years and is with a man who openly lusts after my friends. I'm pissed that she thinks it's MY job to stay away from him. I'm not the one with the boner for him. I hate being blamed because I'm pretty. I know that sounds awful, but don't hate me because your BF thinks I'm hot. I barely talk to the douche.

I think she knows the truth about him and is projecting on you

Yep. She's not ready to let go, so is throwing the blame on you. Hopefully she will wake up soon.

Oh, and I too am obnoxious and inappropriate.

[doriswe]

Oct 12, 2012 8:51:41 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Oct 12, 2012 8:47:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I think she knows the truth about him and is projecting on you

Yep. She's not ready to let go, so is throwing the blame on you. Hopefully she will wake up soon.

Oh, and I too am obnoxious and inappropriate.

*raises hand* so am I!

[gozf]

Oct 12, 2012 8:51:41 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Oct 12, 2012 8:47:39 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I think she knows the truth about him and is projecting on you

Yep. She's not ready to let go, so is throwing the blame on you. Hopefully she will wake up soon.

Oh, and I too am obnoxious and inappropriate.

Your friend is lousy, and totally projecting. You're better off without her. Still, I'm sure it stings, and I'm sorry for that. You were a good friend to her. This is definitely, 100% her loss.

[gozf]

If match were free, I'd totally do this for you, MCC

[angieawesome]

Im seeing new guy tonight and so excited! This may or may not be flameful, but we have ah-maaaay-zing sex. He's pretty freaky and he brings out the freak in me, more so than any other guy ever has. I let him do things to me and I do things to him that I would never have thought I'd be cool with, but with him its amazing!

[bullygirl979]

Oct 12, 2012 9:02:08 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Oct 12, 2012 8:51:41 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Yep. She's not ready to let go, so is throwing the blame on you. Hopefully she will wake up soon.

Oh, and I too am obnoxious and inappropriate.

Thanks. I know sometimes I'm too inappropriate but after how he acts toward me, I keep all convos pg and banal. It just sucks because she made me feel like an awful person and it sounds like she doesn't want me as a friend anymore

Another confession: I want to make a fake match profile and find him on it now. I'm sure he blocked my real profile which is why he's not showing up[/quote

That sucks, MCC. And I agree that she is totally projecting.

Not sure if they changed this, but you used to be able to make up profiles for free. You just can't email people. I hated how people can see if you've visited their profiles, so I made a fake one up in case I wanted to show their profile to my friends. This way I didn't look like a creepy stalker

[turtle1120]

Oct 12, 2012 8:46:44 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I'm currently being a dick to DD's dad....he hasn't had time to see her in over a month and he text me yesterday morning to see if he can have her this weekend. I told him she's free but I can't drive her to the 1/2 way point (an hour drive for me) because I'll be out of town. He IMMEDIATELY text back "can't your mom drive her?" No....I'm not even asking my mom to do it. He should have planned more than a day in advance and I have bent over backwards to make things easy for him to see her. I realize that this is probably not in the best interest of DD, but for fucks sake, he can plan better for next weekend.

Also, if I get the job at the prison, shit is going to have to change with me driving DD all the time since I would have to drive 45 minutes back home to drive an hour back that direction to drop her off and an hour back home. Screw that. He should have figured out a way to move closer to his DD.

This isn't being a dick. He's being a dick for thinking that you and/or your mom should drop everything at the last minute to accommodate him.

[doriswe]

Oct 12, 2012 9:15:51 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

Oct 12, 2012 8:46:44 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I'm currently being a dick to DD's dad....he hasn't had time to see her in over a month and he text me yesterday morning to see if he can have her this weekend. I told him she's free but I can't drive her to the 1/2 way point (an hour drive for me) because I'll be out of town. He IMMEDIATELY text back "can't your mom drive her?" No....I'm not even asking my mom to do it. He should have planned more than a day in advance and I have bent over backwards to make things easy for him to see her. I realize that this is probably not in the best interest of DD, but for fucks sake, he can plan better for next weekend.

Also, if I get the job at the prison, shit is going to have to change with me driving DD all the time since I would have to drive 45 minutes back home to drive an hour back that direction to drop her off and an hour back home. Screw that. He should have figured out a way to move closer to his DD.

This isn't being a dick. He's being a dick for thinking that you and/or your mom should drop everything at the last minute to accommodate him.

Thanks...I have mixed feelings on this, to be honest. I want him to have a relationship with DD, but for the love of pete, he's only interested in seeing her when he has something going on to show her off. AND she knows this and hates going but says "I should just get it over with so I don't have to go for a while". Sigh.

[chrissie3416]

yeah Doris Im with Turtle....my XH doesn't drive now and expects me to drive DD all over to accomodate him when he needs it so I feel where you are coming from...tell him next time to plan ahead!

[bullygirl979]

I have convinced my mother to bring me food 3 times since Tuesday. I feel kinda guilty about it but not guilty enough to stop asking her.

[doriswe]

Oct 12, 2012 9:17:57 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

yeah Doris Im with Turtle....my XH doesn't drive now and expects me to drive DD all over to accomodate him when he needs it so I feel where you are coming from...tell him next time to plan ahead!

I'll add to it, he's legally blind (longish story) so he can't drive himself and lives with his mom/step-dad. BUT they CHOSE to move further away after they let their house get foreclosed on AGAIN....and he told DD they were moving to *new city* to be closer to family. DD told me that she's hurt by this because they apparently don't see her as an important family member....grrrr

I need to stop talking about this...it's ticking me off!

[achase123]

I'm on there MCC, I could stalk him for you!

[bullygirl979]

Oct 12, 2012 9:14:18 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Oct 12, 2012 9:09:39 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Thanks. I know sometimes I'm too inappropriate but after how he acts toward me, I keep all convos pg and banal. It just sucks because she made me feel like an awful person and it sounds like she doesn't want me as a friend anymore

Another confession: I want to make a fake match profile and find him on it now. I'm sure he blocked my real profile which is why he's not showing up[/quote

That sucks, MCC. And I agree that she is totally projecting.

Not sure if they changed this, but you used to be able to make up profiles for free. You just can't email people. I hated how people can see if you've visited their profiles, so I made a fake one up in case I wanted to show their profile to my friends. This way I didn't look like a creepy stalker

Awesome, I have like 8 email addresses so I will sign up and stalk later. Have I mentioned they've been together since March and he won't let her put pics of them up on FB?? That's messed up

Hmm...what color flag is this? Oh, yeah...RED!! lol

[turtle1120]

Oct 12, 2012 9:20:32 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 12, 2012 9:17:57 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

yeah Doris Im with Turtle....my XH doesn't drive now and expects me to drive DD all over to accomodate him when he needs it so I feel where you are coming from...tell him next time to plan ahead!

I'll add to it, he's legally blind (longish story) so he can't drive himself and lives with his mom/step-dad. BUT they CHOSE to move further away after they let their house get foreclosed on AGAIN....and he told DD they were moving to *new city* to be closer to family. DD told me that she's hurt by this because they apparently don't see her as an important family member....grrrr

I need to stop talking about this...it's ticking me off!

Even if he is legally blind, he needs to realize that you and your DD have a life and that he can't spring things on you at the last minute like that. If he lives with his parents, and it's so important that he see your DD this weekend with no notice, then they can be the ones to do all the driving. You're nice enough to do the driving to help him out, in turn he should be considerate enough to give you more than one day's notice if he wants to see his daughter. You're not being a dick here. It's not like you're going to be sitting at home on your ass and doing nothing, and refusing to drive your DD to see him. You have plans and you shouldn't have to rearrange or cancel them to do what he wants at the last minute.

[doriswe]

Oct 12, 2012 9:30:26 GMT -5 turtle1120 said:

Oct 12, 2012 9:20:32 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I'll add to it, he's legally blind (longish story) so he can't drive himself and lives with his mom/step-dad. BUT they CHOSE to move further away after they let their house get foreclosed on AGAIN....and he told DD they were moving to *new city* to be closer to family. DD told me that she's hurt by this because they apparently don't see her as an important family member....grrrr

I need to stop talking about this...it's ticking me off!

Even if he is legally blind, he needs to realize that you and your DD have a life and that he can't spring things on you at the last minute like that. If he lives with his parents, and it's so important that he see your DD this weekend with no notice, then they can be the ones to do all the driving. You're nice enough to do the driving to help him out, in turn he should be considerate enough to give you more than one day's notice if he wants to see his daughter. You're not being a dick here. It's not like you're going to be sitting at home on your ass and doing nothing, and refusing to drive your DD to see him. You have plans and you shouldn't have to rearrange or cancel them to do what he wants at the last minute.

Thanks again...in my head I know this, but I think I'm really wanting DD to have a decent relationship with her dad since I never did (projecting much??? 8-D )

[jojoandleo]

Oct 12, 2012 9:14:18 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Oct 12, 2012 9:09:39 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Thanks. I know sometimes I'm too inappropriate but after how he acts toward me, I keep all convos pg and banal. It just sucks because she made me feel like an awful person and it sounds like she doesn't want me as a friend anymore

Another confession: I want to make a fake match profile and find him on it now. I'm sure he blocked my real profile which is why he's not showing up[/quote

That sucks, MCC. And I agree that she is totally projecting.

Not sure if they changed this, but you used to be able to make up profiles for free. You just can't email people. I hated how people can see if you've visited their profiles, so I made a fake one up in case I wanted to show their profile to my friends. This way I didn't look like a creepy stalker

Awesome, I have like 8 email addresses so I will sign up and stalk later. Have I mentioned they've been together since March and he won't let her put pics of them up on FB?? That's messed up

uhhhhh, your friend is an idiot. She needs to pull her head out of her ass. He's cheating for sure. It's been what, 7? 8? months? bull fucking shit.

[achase123]

Essentially the only two guys I've ever actually liked/thought I had a future with post divorce have BOTH just had babies and are now married. It makes me sad to know that I'm not in that place and I hate that feeling. I sometimes think I'm like the "Good Luck Chuck" female version.

[hobs209]

Oct 12, 2012 10:23:02 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Essentially the only two guys I've ever actually liked/thought I had a future with post divorce have BOTH just had babies and are now married. It makes me sad to know that I'm not in that place and I hate that feeling. I sometimes think I'm like the "Good Luck Chuck" female version.

Both of my serious relationships found their "perfect" one immediately after we split and I had the same thought about myself.

On the flipside, I think W might be Good Luck Chuck. Apparently the last 4 girls (including me) that he's dated have found someone amazing after they ended.

[bravofan]

I am currently listening to Bobby Brown on Pandora.

[jade28]

I never have juicy confessions. Obviously, my life is boring. Maybe I can get into some shenanigans this weekend just so I have something to report to the board.

[Deleted]

Oct 12, 2012 11:28:47 GMT -5 hobs209 said:

On the flipside, I think W might be Good Luck Chuck. Apparently the last 4 girls (including me) that he's dated have found someone amazing after they ended.

Speaking of W what's going on with him?

[jojoandleo]

I put all my flameworthy stuff in yesterdays thread.

This may be flameworthy-I got a request today; it's in Spanish. I don't speak Spanish. I am still expected to translate it and respond to the request. I don't want to do it!! Why didn't someone at the facility translate it!!! I really thought I would be able to send back "No hablo espanol" but, nope, I have to translate it.

[jojoandleo]

Oct 12, 2012 13:24:04 GMT -5 jade28 said:

I never have juicy confessions. Obviously, my life is boring. Maybe I can get into some shenanigans this weekend just so I have something to report to the board.

LOL-me too. My confessions are generally that I don't want to work. SOmetimes I confess to things I did in my past so people can realize I wasn't always so boring.

[stephbfan]

Oct 12, 2012 13:27:01 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I put all my flameworthy stuff in yesterdays thread.

This may be flameworthy-I got a request today; it's in Spanish. I don't speak Spanish. I am still expected to translate it and respond to the request. I don't want to do it!! Why didn't someone at the facility translate it!!! I really thought I would be able to send back "No hablo espanol" but, nope, I have to translate it.

I can help you with the translation if you want to

[omeomi]

I had a super hot, sexy email conversation with a chick yesterday. The whole time, I was keeping boy crush updated on what was going on. Then I called him for some phone sex. It was awesome.