Would this be a deal breaker for you?

[leslieknope]

Oct 14, 2012 14:49:07 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

I used to be really self conscious about oral. I was worried about what I looked like up close, would he think I was ugly, etc. I finally enjoyed it when I learned to stop thinking and just relax and enjoy it.

This is me, too. Now I can't get enough! Definitely a deal breaker for me if a dude isn't into it.

[kaneen]

Really? That's always been part of foreplay for you? You be one lucky ho.

D went south the first time we had sex with zero suggestion from me. I was surprised but very happy.

[naeljun]

Oct 13, 2012 16:26:08 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

If you haven't talked about it or attempted to perform, it's not a deal breaker to me. I'd talk or try first. If it's "not his thing" then yeah it might be an issue.

This.

[achase123]

I hate oral so it wouldn't be for me. Ok, I don't HATE it, but I don't really get much out of it.

[doriswe]

Oct 15, 2012 10:50:27 GMT -5 achase123 said:

I hate oral so it wouldn't be for me. Ok, I don't HATE it, but I don't really get much out of it.

Giving or receiving?

[achase123]

Oct 15, 2012 10:53:12 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 15, 2012 10:50:27 GMT -5 achase123 said:

I hate oral so it wouldn't be for me. Ok, I don't HATE it, but I don't really get much out of it.

Giving or receiving?

Receiving. I don't mind giving at all.

I know I'm weird because of this...I just don't get much out of it and never have. I'm pretty orgasmic too...I just never have been ablet to get off this way. Plus I feel like I should be enjoying it, kind of like they're doing me a favor, but I usually never like it.

And I've told plenty of guys that and it's like they make it their mission to change my mind. Alas, they never do.

[GilliC]

I enjoy it, but I've always been kind of indifferent about it.

Then one of the guys I dated last year was really into it, but it was terrible! He did some sucking thing that simultaneously tickled and kind of hurt, and I think at one point I actually shoved him off with my foot, because it was an "Aack! Make it stop!" moment!

Enter my current boyfriend, who is also very into it. Something about his style (or maybe just him in general) is very effective and better at getting me in the mood than I could have imagined.

Not sure if it would be a deal-breaker if I went back to indifferent or dislike, but I definitely like being able to enjoy it!