I'm going on a date with a hot cop. *Updated*

[lookingup]

I'm excited. We hung out shortly last week while I was at an event downtown and he was on duty; he is super gorgeous in uniform with his full sleeve. I think he actually caught me swooning once.

I have to go get ready now!

[bullygirl979]

Have fun! Personally I didn't have much luck being with men in law enforcement but there are some good ones out there. Crossing my fingers he is one of them!

[Deleted]

How did you approach him?

[imalwaysme79]

Have fun!

[lookingup]

MCC- YES!
LOB- I didn't approach him. I made a POF profile one night last week out of boredom, and he messaged me the next day. We've been talking ever since.

I haven't noticed any red (or orange or yellow) flags yet, and he even bought my dinner when we got to meet. I'll let you know how it goes!

[justkly]

Oct 14, 2012 15:02:24 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Have fun! Personally I didn't have much luck being with men in law enforcement but there are some good ones out there. Crossing my fingers he is one of them!

This. I've dated two hot ass cops that both turned out to be crazcakes. Hopefully, yours isn't but never again for me.

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Oct 14, 2012 15:02:24 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Have fun! Personally I didn't have much luck being with men in law enforcement but there are some good ones out there. Crossing my fingers he is one of them!

Same here! I try to stay away from them now :-/Good luck, hope he's a good one!

[leslieknope]

I love a man in uniform! ;D
Exciting! Have fun!

[Deleted]

Oh OK, I thought you spoted him for the 1st time at the event so I was like damn, she gets a date from a cop on duty!

[bullygirl979]

Oct 14, 2012 17:02:48 GMT -5 justkly said:

Oct 14, 2012 15:02:24 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Have fun! Personally I didn't have much luck being with men in law enforcement but there are some good ones out there. Crossing my fingers he is one of them!

This. I've dated two hot ass cops that both turned out to be crazcakes. Hopefully, yours isn't but never again for me.

Yeah, I didn't find them to be crazycakes but more drunken, cheating assholes.

[formerlyknownasefl]

Let us know how it goes!!

[leahmel]

Oct 14, 2012 17:02:48 GMT -5 justkly said:

Oct 14, 2012 15:02:24 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Have fun! Personally I didn't have much luck being with men in law enforcement but there are some good ones out there. Crossing my fingers he is one of them!

This. I've dated two hot ass cops that both turned out to be crazcakes. Hopefully, yours isn't but never again for me.

I third this notion, but I know there are exceptions to every rule, and I hope he is the exception and not the rule!!. The ones I've dated were cocky and not very respectful to women, which was really disapointing because I found them ridiculously attractive. ha

[lookingup]

It was such a good date! We tried a new restaurant and then decided to see a movie. The movie didn't start till a couple hours later, so we went into an arcade and shot some aliens. We saw End of Watch (the cop movie with Jake Gyllenhaal) and it was a really good movie, but it made him super anxious.

I had lots of fun. We had some good conversation and got to know each other better. The best part is that he opens the car door for me- seriously. He followed me back to my house after the restaurant so I could drop off my car and we could go together to the movies. After I parked, he got out of his car and went around to open the door for me to get in. Who does that?!

[udscoobychick]

Glad it went well! I love chivalrous men.

[doriswe]

I wouldn't have let him know where I live...but I'm wayyyy too paranoid for my own good!

[doriswe]

Oct 15, 2012 7:23:27 GMT -5 jellymankelly said:

But he's a cop and probably has access to way more than just her address, right?

Which would add to my paranoia!!!

[prettyinpearls]

Honey Boo Boo and her sexy-specs are distracting me from reading any of these posts.

[lookingup]

Oct 15, 2012 7:25:49 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 15, 2012 7:23:27 GMT -5 jellymankelly said:

But he's a cop and probably has access to way more than just her address, right?

Which would add to my paranoia!!!

Yeah, when he first told me he was a cop he said that freaked a lot of girls out. It really doesn't bother me; he doesn't set off my creeper senses in the least.

[lookingup]

Oct 15, 2012 7:45:48 GMT -5 prettyinpearls said:

Honey Boo Boo and her sexy-specs are distracting me from reading any of these posts.

:heart:

[bullygirl979]

Oct 14, 2012 23:37:54 GMT -5 lookingup said:

It was such a good date! We tried a new restaurant and then decided to see a movie. The movie didn't start till a couple hours later, so we went into an arcade and shot some aliens. We saw End of Watch (the cop movie with Jake Gyllenhaal) and it was a really good movie, but it made him super anxious.

I had lots of fun. We had some good conversation and got to know each other better. The best part is that he opens the car door for me- seriously. He followed me back to my house after the restaurant so I could drop off my car and we could go together to the movies. After I parked, he got out of his car and went around to open the door for me to get in. Who does that?!

Glad you had fun. Why did the movie make him anxious?

[lookingup]

Oct 15, 2012 8:44:23 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Oct 14, 2012 23:37:54 GMT -5 lookingup said:

It was such a good date! We tried a new restaurant and then decided to see a movie. The movie didn't start till a couple hours later, so we went into an arcade and shot some aliens. We saw End of Watch (the cop movie with Jake Gyllenhaal) and it was a really good movie, but it made him super anxious.

I had lots of fun. We had some good conversation and got to know each other better. The best part is that he opens the car door for me- seriously. He followed me back to my house after the restaurant so I could drop off my car and we could go together to the movies. After I parked, he got out of his car and went around to open the door for me to get in. Who does that?!

Glad you had fun. Why did the movie make him anxious?

***SPOILERS (kinda)***




There was a shootout at the end of the movie where the cops are ambushed.

[Deleted]

Glad you had a good date!

[wrathofkuus]

I can't possibly be the only one thinking of Arrested Development.

[achase123]

Sounds like a great date!

[bullygirl979]

Oct 15, 2012 12:41:53 GMT -5 carrotsmakemefat said:

Oct 14, 2012 20:10:29 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Yeah, I didn't find them to be crazycakes but more drunken, cheating assholes.

That was my ex H.

I try not to judge all cops though, but I wouldn't be with another one. Mostly because their schedules are rough, they deal with a lot of traumatic stuff, and it is hard on a marriage.

Mine too! Lol. Yeah, I know there are some nice, normal ones out there but I can't say I would ever date one again.

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Oct 15, 2012 10:52:23 GMT -5 wrathofkuus said:

I can't possibly be the only one thinking of Arrested Development.

Ahaha.

Is it completely wrong that I put the entire series on DVD on our wedding registry??