I got very little sleep last night (we'll discuss later) and I crashed at 8:30. DS woke up me at 9:30 to put him to bed (no school tomorrow, stop judging me!) and now I can't fall back asleep. Damnit all!!
Okay...for a limited time only, let's do an ask me anything since I can't sleep!!
DD is 13 (holy hell!) and DS is 8. They both look like me (poor kids!) and have my snarky ass attitude. I feel like this will not help them in the long run
Ok "DD Doris" one question before this old man gets some beauty rest.
I am going on a 4th date with A this week, is it time to cut my FWB loose? Have not had sex with A yet.
Do you want to have sex with A? After our "chat" today, I was getting the feeling you were digging on her a little more after this weekend. Do you think it's got potential to go the distance? Have you talked about exclusivity? Is she dating other people?
Honestly J, I think if you're thinking about cutting the FWB loose, you're already answering the question for yourself!
Ok "DD Doris" one question before this old man gets some beauty rest.
I am going on a 4th date with A this week, is it time to cut my FWB loose? Have not had sex with A yet.
I am butting in here. Never dump a FWB until you've had sex with the new potential. It could be a dealbreaker. Unless you have a "return without punishment" clause in your FWB agreement.
Good point. And trust me she wouldn't think twice about re-engaging in a FWB situation.
Ok "DD Doris" one question before this old man gets some beauty rest.
I am going on a 4th date with A this week, is it time to cut my FWB loose? Have not had sex with A yet.
Do you want to have sex with A? After our "chat" today, I was getting the feeling you were digging on her a little more after this weekend. Do you think it's got potential to go the distance? Have you talked about exclusivity? Is she dating other people?
Honestly J, I think if you're thinking about cutting the FWB loose, you're already answering the question for yourself!
Yes I would def have sex with her but I have been moving slower than my usual pace. Way too early for even thinking about long term potential. Havent talked exclusivity and I would guess she isn't dating anyone else.
Honestly, I may be just looking for any reason to end FWB with J because she got cranky with me the other day. Drama is a turn off for me, especially with a woman I have no interest in pursuing a committed relationship with.
Do you want to have sex with A? After our "chat" today, I was getting the feeling you were digging on her a little more after this weekend. Do you think it's got potential to go the distance? Have you talked about exclusivity? Is she dating other people?
Honestly J, I think if you're thinking about cutting the FWB loose, you're already answering the question for yourself!
Yes I would def have sex with her but I have been moving slower than my usual pace. Way too early for even thinking about long term potential. Havent talked exclusivity and I would guess she isn't dating anyone else.
Honestly, I may be just looking for any reason to end FWB with J because she got cranky with me the other day. Drama is a turn off for me, especially with a woman I have no interest in pursuing a committed relationship with.
Wait, is that why you don't love me anymore?? Well fuck you too!
It's not the crier, is it??? *please say no, please say no*
38DD...and for what it's worth, there are rarely any cute bras in that size.
Funny you should ask...there was motorboating happening all over the place this weekend...mostly for funsies, not for sexing it up...
I used to have DD's. Then I had a breast reduction. But mine were not in great shape. Do you ever have back or shoulder pain? I did. Now I love my perky little boobs, but I occasionally miss the DD's!
Thankfully I don't. I actually looked into a reduction because they're kind of a pain in the ass but I was terrified of how it's done. And I figured I'm pretty proportionate currently and it might be weird if I had smaller boobs.
Thankfully I don't. I actually looked into a reduction because they're kind of a pain in the ass but I was terrified of how it's done. And I figured I'm pretty proportionate currently and it might be weird if I had smaller boobs.
Plus I like them.....most of the time!
Yeah, the surgery is pretty major. I had mine done in march and my scars are actually just starting to really fade. I always feel like I have to warn guys before they touch them since you can feel the scars, even if you can barely see them. Then, they act all afraid to touch them. Worst part of having it done! I do love being able to wear shirts without bras and not having to wear larger shirts just to fit my breasts, but I didn't realize how much of my identity was wrapped up in being the "girl with the big boobs." If I didn't have the back and shoulder pain, I probably wouldn't have done it.
One of my friends had it done and the surgeon didn't bother to tell her what it would look like right after and she lost her shit! She's pretty self concious about it because the scars were pretty bad.
One of my friends had it done and the surgeon didn't bother to tell her what it would look like right after and she lost her shit! She's pretty self concious about it because the scars were pretty bad.
I had mine done in 2008 and the scars are barely noticeable if you take care of them at the beginning. Most guys don't even notice now. The sad thing is that I am now a C/D.....before I was a J
Wow, a J? That must have been a medical necessity. Did insurance cover it?
Our provincial insurance covered most of it as they did say it was medically necessary however, they didn't cover the lipo to the area under the arms that is necessary to "rebalance" everything. Most surgeon's won't do the surgery without that as it doesn't look right so that was almost $2000.