Let's talk about (oral) sex, baby

[jojoandleo]

So, multiple people in the deal breaker thread have said they don't like oral. I didn't think I liked it until I found someone good at it, so I think I am biased and think you just haven't found the right tongue yet. So, tell me about it! If you don't like it, is it a comfort thing? Just not for you thing? What do you prefer (if you are willing to share)?

[prettyinpearls]

I'm assuming this poll is about being on the receiving end?

[dakotadangerdog]

It's the number 1 way I get off, I can't get off from regular P in the V, so hell yeah!

[jojoandleo]

Oct 15, 2012 13:22:55 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

It's the number 1 way I get off, I can't get off from regular P in the V, so hell yeah!

This is me. You want to get to the P to the V, I need to cum first (you see what I just did there?).

[jojoandleo]

Oct 15, 2012 13:16:03 GMT -5 prettyinpearls said:

I'm assuming this poll is about being on the receiving end?

Yes, the receiving end.

[Deleted]

IMO the guy has to know what he is doing otherwise it is awkward. I've had guys who were not good. It wasn't uncomfortable but it gets boring real fast.

[doriswe]

Sober I'm more self-conscious about it and demand showering prior to....drunk I have no such boundaries!!!

I'll also second LOB that a guy needs to know what he's doing!

[leahmel]

It's a must for me. It just isn't complete without it!

[blackkitty]

Oral sex makes baby Jesus cry

[dakotadangerdog]

Oct 15, 2012 14:05:43 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Oral sex makes baby Jesus cry

GOOD

[doriswe]

Oct 15, 2012 14:05:43 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Oral sex makes baby Jesus cry

Is that what you learned at singles bible study???

[gozf]

Oct 15, 2012 14:14:48 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 15, 2012 14:05:43 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Oral sex makes baby Jesus cry

Is that what you learned at singles bible study???

/dead

[blackkitty]

Oct 15, 2012 14:23:57 GMT -5 gozf said:

Oct 15, 2012 14:14:48 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Is that what you learned at singles bible study???

/dead

Yes

[turtle1120]

Oct 15, 2012 14:27:22 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Oct 15, 2012 14:23:57 GMT -5 gozf said:

/dead

Yes

Oh, that's not good. In that case, don't even consider dating anyone you meet there!

[jojoandleo]

Oct 15, 2012 14:14:48 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 15, 2012 14:05:43 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Oral sex makes baby Jesus cry

Is that what you learned at singles bible study???

Tears of joy? Cause I've been known to cry after a great orgasm too.

[obladi]

I don't like it, it's too intense, like so much so that it is not enjoyable.

[wrathofkuus]

It's okay. It's a rather delicate sensation, and I really have to be in the mood for it. Usually I'm not.

[Deleted]

Have to have it, it is essential because althougth I live P and V it can't climax from it. I seriously wouldn't date a guy if he didn't do it.

[omeomi]

Gotta have it.

Not every single time, but it's awesome foreplay (as long as they're good at it, as stated above). Sometimes I want to cum first just from that, other times, it's more of a build-up tease before the main action. I can cum from either one, so I enjoy both equally. And of course extra super bonus points if the guy really loves doing it and you can see/hear that he does.

[hainesherway]

Oct 15, 2012 15:47:12 GMT -5 omeomi said:

Gotta have it.

Not every single time, but it's awesome foreplay (as long as they're good at it, as stated above). Sometimes I want to cum first just from that, other times, it's more of a build-up tease before the main action. I can cum from either one, so I enjoy both equally. And of course extra super bonus points if the guy really loves doing it and you can see/hear that he does.

This!

[Deleted]

Yeah, I need it. I only climax from clitoris stimulation.

[Deleted]

Oct 15, 2012 13:26:38 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Oct 15, 2012 13:22:55 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

It's the number 1 way I get off, I can't get off from regular P in the V, so hell yeah!

This is me. You want to get to the P to the V, I need to cum first (you see what I just did there?).

Same here!

[marigoldgirl]

It's a must for me. XH was bad at it. BF is fantastic at it. The person giving has a lot to do with how good it is.

[jade28]

Gosh I guess I am the only one that doesn't like it . I've been with guys that are good at it from what I can tell and I have gotten off once from it. But overall, it does nada for me. It's not hot to me.

But also, I do orgasm awesomely with just the Penis (with my bf now especially) so I never really feel a need or desire to have oral. I think the penis feels better than a tongue and it gets the job done for me.

[jojoandleo]

I think the difference between the haters and the lovers may be the ability to get off from regular sex. Clitoral stimulation may be too intense, or just not what you like. Hmmm, someone should study this and prove me right on my theory and pay me millions of dollars. J/K

[omeomi]

Oct 15, 2012 20:05:15 GMT -5 jade28 said:

Gosh I guess I am the only one that doesn't like it . I've been with guys that are good at it from what I can tell and I have gotten off once from it. But overall, it does nada for me. It's not hot to me.

But how could you think that they're good at it when you've only gotten off once by it?

Someone that's good at it should be able to adapt to what you like in order to get you cum that way. Or at least get really turned on by it.

But if it's just something that doesn't do it for you, no matter what the guy does, that's just how you are. Not a big deal

[letyourselfgo]

My MO: Go with the flow every single time. If you go into anything with way too many preconceived notions, you're bound to get your panties in a twist.

This goes for oral. Either way.