I want to dig my eyes out with a spork!

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I'm sorry . Oh and please don't call him dh anymore...there's nothing dear about him.. :N:

[doriswe]

While I totally get it, this is not the hill to die on. Of course the kids are going to think she's freaking awesome...she's not their parent and doesn't have to make them act in the manner you do. You have got to let that stuff roll off your back.

As for her babysitting, I totally understand you wanting XH to spend his time with the kids alone, but you have no control over what happens at his house. Much like he has no say over who you get to watch the kids at your house. Is it completely frustrating, absolutely, but it's not your place to say anything.

[BlueBayou]

Oct 15, 2012 22:33:25 GMT -5 doriswe said:

While I totally get it, this is not the hill to die on. Of course the kids are going to think she's freaking awesome...she's not their parent and doesn't have to make them act in the manner you do. You have got to let that stuff roll off your back.

As for her babysitting, I totally understand you wanting XH to spend his time with the kids alone, but you have no control over what happens at his house. Much like he has no say over who you get to watch the kids at your house. Is it completely frustrating, absolutely, but it's not your place to say anything.

Yes this, as hard as it is. This is true.

[doriswe]

So allow yourself to be pissed off today and tomorrow you let it all go! He's not worth getting this upset over!!