OK, now I have sex questions..

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For those who give BJs or have sex at the spur of the moment in places that aren't at home, how does this work?? We use condoms every time, so do you have condoms with you?? If you don't use condoms, What do you use to clean up after if you are at an event or something?

I have no problem with oral or my sex life, but I feel like I wouldn't be able to do anything spur of the moment because I would be like where the hell is the sperm going to go....do you just carry tissues and baby wipes?? Lol.

Seriously ladies, I need help here. If you do it spur of the moment, do you orgasm or is it just for fun? I've never been one for quickies because I need more time than that. I would be all about this, but I need to be prepared. I need advice!

[80sjunkie]

You swallow. With sex, you might carry condoms or you find a way to clean up. If you want it badly you don't always think about clean-up in advance.

[Kore]

Swallow.

[Deleted]

Well, for one, I don't use condoms every time. The Giant and I have moved past that so spur of the moment sex is easy. In fact, it will happen tonight because I really want to give a BJ.

As for cleaning up, if it's spur of the moment, I'll just uh.....swallow.

[huey]

Oct 16, 2012 14:39:14 GMT -5 80sjunkie said:

You swallow. With sex, you might carry condoms or you find a way to clean up. If you want it badly you don't always think about clean-up in advance.

Wanna know how low my sex drive is right now? When I read this, I was thinking: I never want it that bad to have to mess with it

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Oct 16, 2012 14:38:53 GMT -5 gravytrain225 said:

My husband and I don't have spontaneous sex out, but I think you are in the minority for needing a condom. I believe most married couples just have sex and are using birth control.

We use both BC pills and condoms. I am terrified of an accidental pregnancy. It wouldn't be the end of the world if we didn't have a condom, but at home, this is what we do.

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Lol. Cleanup never really crosses my mind with spontaneous sex.

[DarcyLongfellow]

We don't use condoms. Problem solved.

I don't know if we're weird or what, but people are always talking about "the wet spot" or how much clean up there is. We don't seem to have that problem? I mean, I'm scared to death of UTI's, so I always pee after sex, and there's definitely some "goo" that goes into the toilet, but if I were somewhere other than at home, a kleenex or whatever would work just fine.

[dochas]

Oct 16, 2012 14:38:53 GMT -5 gravytrain225 said:

My husband and I don't have spontaneous sex out, but I think you are in the minority for needing a condom. I believe most married couples just have sex and are using birth control.

Condoms ARE birth control.

We don't have sex in public, but needing a condom would definitely put a damper on it!

[chessie]

I do have a condom in my purse. Not concerned with cleanup really. Cant take hormonal pills so that is the only thing I got. Been a few close calls we forgot, it happens though. we always have fun though.

[mollz007]

H and I are boring. I dont know if we have had sex anywhere other than our bed in a year. The most dangerous place we have done it is in his old bed at his parents house when we were there for xmas. (they were not home, lol) Also, as I posted in another thread, we had sex in his old apartment with BIL in the next room. Yep. We're so scandalous.

[MixedBerryJam]

Wait ... is the implication of some of the responses that men use condoms when they're getting a beej? Because I've never heard of that. And I've given a beej or two in my day ...

And to answer the op, our "sex not at home" was pretty much limited to bj's for the whole "doesn't need cleanup" reason.

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Oct 16, 2012 15:13:39 GMT -5 MixedBerryJam said:

Wait ... is the implication of some of the responses that men use condoms when they're getting a beej? Because I've never heard of that. And I've given a beej or two in my day ...

And to answer the op, our "sex not at home" was pretty much limited to bj's for the whole "doesn't need cleanup" reason.

Never used condoms for a BJ. I want something from it too. I dont think I'd be fine with just him getting off.

[anna7602]

Oct 16, 2012 14:46:50 GMT -5 @mrschicken said:

Lol. Cleanup never really crosses my mind with spontaneous sex.

Ditto this.

[bunnysmom]

Oct 16, 2012 14:41:09 GMT -5 huey said:

Oct 16, 2012 14:39:14 GMT -5 80sjunkie said:

You swallow. With sex, you might carry condoms or you find a way to clean up. If you want it badly you don't always think about clean-up in advance.

Wanna know how low my sex drive is right now? When I read this, I was thinking: I never want it that bad to have to mess with it

I was thinking the same! Lol, you're not alone!

[hannamaren]

I usually take it in my mouth and then spit it out. It is too much volume for me.