Post by fuddyduddy on Oct 21, 2012 10:37:09 GMT -5
I've ventured over here a few times, but didn't feel quite ready to start posting. I'm going through a divorce after discovering my STBXH's infidelity on our fifth anniversary in August. I'm living about 3,000 miles from my family because we relocated for his job and now I'm in nursing school here, so it will be a while before I can move back near my home state. Needless to say, the last couple months have been rough, but I'm sure it will get better with time.
This board seems to be a nice support system and I hope to get to "know" all of you a little better. Feel free to ask me anything.
Hi, welcome. I know it's not easy in the beginning, but I does get better. I filed for divorce in may, similar situation(but he was emotionally abusive too.). I moved into my own apt in June. The longer I'm away from him, the happier I am and the more I realize how bad it really was! When do you finish nursing school? Is it possible to transfer to a program closer to your family? Good for you--nursing is a great career! I'm a PA. Good luck! You deserve happiness!
Hi, welcome. I know it's not easy in the beginning, but I does get better. I filed for divorce in may, similar situation(but he was emotionally abusive too.). I moved into my own apt in June. The longer I'm away from him, the happier I am and the more I realize how bad it really was! When do you finish nursing school? Is it possible to transfer to a program closer to your family? Good for you--nursing is a great career! I'm a PA. Good luck! You deserve happiness!
Thank you. I'm sorry you went through something similar (it sounds even worse), but I'm glad to hear that things are improving.
I just started school this semester and I won't be finished until May 2014. I haven't bothered looking into transferring because I don't think it is a possibility, given how competitive nursing programs are and the admissions process. I am planning on just sticking it out here and making the best of it.
It sounds like you enjoy working in health care. I really like it so far, so I hope it turns out to be a great career choice.
I also am new...just started mediation...have you started the process yet?
Hi. How is mediation going?
We haven't filed anything yet, but we are beginning the process of separating our finances this week. Fortunately it is amicable and we have agreed on how we are going to divide everything.
Hi, welcome. I know it's not easy in the beginning, but I does get better. I filed for divorce in may, similar situation(but he was emotionally abusive too.). I moved into my own apt in June. The longer I'm away from him, the happier I am and the more I realize how bad it really was! When do you finish nursing school? Is it possible to transfer to a program closer to your family? Good for you--nursing is a great career! I'm a PA. Good luck! You deserve happiness!
Thank you. I'm sorry you went through something similar (it sounds even worse), but I'm glad to hear that things are improving.
I just started school this semester and I won't be finished until May 2014. I haven't bothered looking into transferring because I don't think it is a possibility, given how competitive nursing programs are and the admissions process. I am planning on just sticking it out here and making the best of it.
It sounds like you enjoy working in health care. I really like it so far, so I hope it turns out to be a great career choice.
Best of luck with everything! What part of the country are you in? The ladies are all spread out here. I'm in NY.
Thank you. I'm sorry you went through something similar (it sounds even worse), but I'm glad to hear that things are improving.
I just started school this semester and I won't be finished until May 2014. I haven't bothered looking into transferring because I don't think it is a possibility, given how competitive nursing programs are and the admissions process. I am planning on just sticking it out here and making the best of it.
It sounds like you enjoy working in health care. I really like it so far, so I hope it turns out to be a great career choice.
Best of luck with everything! What part of the country are you in? The ladies are all spread out here. I'm in NY.
Thank you!
I'm from CA, but living in NH now. I actually want to make a trip down to NY soon. I haven't been there since I was a kid. Are you in the city?
I also am new...just started mediation...have you started the process yet?
Hi. How is mediation going?
We haven't filed anything yet, but we are beginning the process of separating our finances this week. Fortunately it is amicable and we have agreed on how we are going to divide everything.
We just started mediation last week. This week there we will focus on finances and the kids. We agree on mostly everything also. We actually get along quite well for now. I don't hate him but he is not the one for me, that's for sure!
We haven't filed anything yet, but we are beginning the process of separating our finances this week. Fortunately it is amicable and we have agreed on how we are going to divide everything.
We just started mediation last week. This week there we will focus on finances and the kids. We agree on mostly everything also. We actually get along quite well for now. I don't hate him but he is not the one for me, that's for sure!
I'm glad to hear that it's going smoothly so far. I feel the same way; I also don't hate him, but I don't want to be with him anymore.
I'm new over here too. Also divorcing because of infidelity. I am so sorry you are going through this too.
Thank you and I am really sorry you are experiencing the same thing. It is incredibly painful, but I am sure we will both make it out on the other side.
Post by marigoldgirl on Oct 22, 2012 9:04:14 GMT -5
Welcome! I'm sorry you find yourself here, but it is very nice to have people around who understand what you are going through. It is very supportive here.