This is one of the messages in this I loved and wish my friends would embrace!! ::::" People get so caught up in the minutiae [of dating], asking things like: “How long should I wait to text after a date?” If you have to ask that question, don’t text at all. You’re in no position to date this person. You need to shift your perspective from whether your date likes you to whether you like this person. That’s empowering."
Very good point too MP! Ive seen a lot of friends "changing " themselves hen they get involved with someone. Do you suppose its a fear of rejection that the guy wont like her if she doesnt like the same things?? ( which is preposterous!!) But girls are natural pleasers too...so we have a tendency to lean that way!!!