I'm going to kill my FSIL. Rant ahead.

[picksthemusic]

My FSIL is such a two-faced bitch.

She asked a while ago if I knew of any doctors that were good, and of course, I recommended my office. Little did I know this was going to cause me so much trouble.

In the past, she and my BIL have come in for visits, and I would room them. BIL had labs done, and I brought him his lab letter once since I knew I would see him. This seemed to bother SIL, because she called a few days later to complain, and then wanted this private session with the doc and then there was a note saying that no one should get his info but BIL or MIL/FIL. This was kind of difficult since he was seeing the doc I work for. I never violated HIPAA, but whatever. I stopped rooming them all together, and that was it. BIL never had a problem with it, btw, it was just her. I talked to her about it, saying if she didn't want me knowing her business that that was fine, just let me know, and she said she didn't have a problem with me - it was the interpreter she had a problem with. But then I come to find out it was me she had the problem with. She had lied to me.

Since she's deaf, we have to get an interpreter. Sometimes the interpreter is late, but this is not our fault. Today, however, no interpreter showed up because they didn't get our request (the front end forgot to check the faxes on Saturday so we couldn't resend it before her appointment today - so that was our fault and we said as much). She said that was fine, she'd just write down what she wanted to say. She ended up seeing the doc, and went on her merry way. 20 minutes later, we get a call from her saying she wanted to talk to our supervisor because she was VERY unhappy with the service she received today.

I mean, seriously? I've talked to my manager and she's being very understanding, thank goodness. But I would NEVER cause any trouble at a family member's workplace. It's so disrespectful, and why the hell doesn't she just talk to me and TELL ME THE TRUTH. If she's that unhappy here, go somewhere else.

[jennlin]

sorry she's being a butt

[karebear219]

You said it, if she is unhappy she should go some where else. I don't understand why some people go out of their way to cause issues.

[Deleted]

I'm sorry that totally sucks.

Could your office refuse service to her?

[sarack]

ahh.. yikes.

i wouldn't necessarily refuse her service.. because that could cause more harm than good, but i think you and your h have done too much for them and maybe it's just time to be a little more distant.. i'm sorry!

[fiddles]

Wow is she always like this?

Is there any way you could have absolutely NO contact with her? Have someone else help them when they come in the office?

[Deleted]

Wow. I feel like she has this unreasonable grudge against you...so she particularly makes these complaints hoping to get you in trouble/fired? But seriously, what a biatch! Avoid if at all possible.

[llh0211]

Wow! That stinks! I agree, try to keep your distance with her. Super lame. And really, if she was that concerned, as others have pointed out, why the heck doesn't she go somewhere else? Is she typically the type to complain about things a lot?

[Deleted]

Are you still planning her bachelorette party?

[livinitup]

I know a few people who are really socially awkward and can't handle their feelings, so they fake there way through uncomfortable situations only to blow up in really really bad and odd ways later.

[picksthemusic]

Thanks, everyone. I just wish she'd show me the same respect I show her.

[tacocat]

I'm sorry, that is really lame. I doubt you could release care based on this, but I would talk to her personally about maybe going somewhere else.