AW: So you guys KNEW we'd get together?

[letyourselfgo]

Mr. T and I made it official on Friday and he's now my wonderful, kick-butt boyfriend.

Our mutual friends had apparently placed bets amongst themselves on exactly how long it would take for this to happen.

The range went from nine days to two weeks to three weeks to a month.

Obviously, the person who said two weeks won....and everyone else has to pay up.

[letyourselfgo]

Update: Things are going well.

[emma245]

Good for you. Glad you are happy!

[letyourselfgo]

Yes, that was me.

[letyourselfgo]

By the way, the following went down within the past several days and Mr. T is wanting lots of non-communication and space. Because our mutual friends raised a stink.

1. Mr. T and I fell for each other very quickly and got very intense. Lots of PDA and holding hands.
2. Mutual friends raised a stink and told Mr. T that we should "take things slow" because this is his first relationship.
3. Mr. T pulls back, then says that he doesn't want to.
4. We go back to being very intense.
5. Mutual friends are pissed at me because they have an issue with me acting like a "normal" college student and wearing the color pink constantly, and getting weekly manicures and "pretending to be someone I'm not". They're also pissed because they see me as initiating the mucho PDA. Apparently this time, Mr. T decides that we need a period of separation, which he doesn't state explicitly to me....he states at the very last minute that our date last night was off, doesn't send his morning/night "good morning/night" texts, and doesn't get a hold of me at all.
So, I'm all kinds of pissed because the way that this is going on is extremely immature and I'm not sure if Mr. T is right for me at all with the lack of maturity he has regarding letting other people influence how and what he does with a relationship.

I really, really like him....but after this....I don't trust him.

[hobs209]

I'm usually pretty open when it comes to age differences... but he's 20, right? He's going to be immature. You're almost 30. You can't expect him to be in the same place as you.

[doriswe]

I'm sorry, but are they all in high school??? They're worked up cuz you wear pink?? WTF?

You need to date a grown-up....who has grown-up friends

[letyourselfgo]

If there were any grown ups who were interested in dating me, I would be dating them.
I'm done with Mr. T. The immaturity is giving me migraines.

I'd rather remain single again for awhile....especially because there isn't anyone to date....or at least no one who shows the slightest bit of interest in me. :X

[letyourselfgo]

And things have returned to the way they were before I met Mr. T and his friends. I spend time with the friend who is closest to my age and who was the first person I'd met on campus and who introduced me to Mr. T and the other people.... and with her, there's no drama and none of the immature BS, OhThankHeaven!

This craziness went down within the past forty-eight hours. Welcome to college, I guess!

[stephbfan]

Nov 1, 2012 19:26:34 GMT -5 letyourselfgo said:

If there were any grown ups who were interested in dating me, I would be dating them.
I'm done with Mr. T. The immaturity is giving me migraines.

I'd rather remain single again for awhile....especially because there isn't anyone to date....or at least no one who shows the slightest bit of interest in me. :X

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Im glad you are dropping the guy.

[doriswe]

I say take this as an opportunity to focus more on school (and possibly next semesters internship stuff). Don't fall into the "woe-is-me there is no one to date". You'll stumble on more mature people in time!

[udscoobychick]

Nov 1, 2012 20:23:26 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I say take this as an opportunity to focus more on school (and possibly next semesters internship stuff). Don't fall into the "woe-is-me there is no one to date". You'll stumble on more mature people in time!

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