Ideas to Cheer Up H

[dawnyp]

Work has been super stressful the past 2 weeks for H and as a result he's been in a fairly negative mood. It's hard for him to leave work at work. He called in sick today and is going for a massage and trying to rest. I need ideas of things to do to cheer him up. I hate seeing him like this.

[Deleted]

Usually when my H is like this all he wants is to veg out, play video games with some craft beer and nap. If it were me, I'd just leave him alone to do just that.

[mkate710]

This game goes both ways in our house, I feel your pain.

Going in for a massage is brilliant. I usually ship H off to get one when he's really stressed. I also will ask him what it is that's bothering him. I know a lot of guys aren't like this, but mine feels better after he vents and tells me everything that's upsetting him.

Making his favorite dinners helps too. And foot rubs.

[jennlin]

didn't he just get a new car?

guys are hard to cheer up when it comes to work. they take it so personally. i'd ditto uw..he probably could just use some alone time. stock the fridge with food and beer, then be scarce.

[dawnyp]

He has the house to himself today I won't be home until about 8 or 9 tonight. Hopefully he's in a better mood when I get home tonight. It's been about 2 weeks of this.

[madDawg228]

My mind first went to a bj... guys like those right? But I also like uw's idea of letting him veg out w/ beer and video games (or whatever vices he enjoys).