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pamela
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m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:30:59 GMT -5

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Just started bleeding and I'm stuck at work. Can't leave my only coworker without relief. My husband is asleep and I won't see him until we trade off DS in the parking lot this evening. I've been so incredibly stressed at work I think it was stress making me nauseous, not morning sickness.

In order for me to take any days off other than my scheduled of Sunday between now and next Friday, I have to tell my boss exactly why. He'd let me go then, but I don't really want to tell him if there is nothing the dr can do. I'll keep taking my meds until I get a negative hpt though.

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auberge Full Member Posts: 2,830 Likes: 1,674	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:32:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by auberge on Oct 25, 2012 11:32:42 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. You don't have sick time? I would leave!!!
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ijack Elder Posts: 16,121 Likes: 8,168	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:33:16 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ijack on Oct 25, 2012 11:33:16 GMT -5 I am so sorry
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pugz Elder Posts: 28,270 Likes: 34,246	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:35:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pugz on Oct 25, 2012 11:35:04 GMT -5 (hugs) can you tell him it's just a personal medical issue?
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Deleted Posts: 0	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:35:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2012 11:35:41 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. <<hugs>>
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carolinagirl831 Senior Member Posts: 8,468 Likes: 5,696	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:36:02 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by carolinagirl831 on Oct 25, 2012 11:36:02 GMT -5 Uhhh, I'm sorry!
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yellowbrkrd Senior Member Posts: 6,719 Likes: 4,410	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:39:54 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by yellowbrkrd on Oct 25, 2012 11:39:54 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))
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mellymel Senior Member Posts: 7,563 Likes: 4,434	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:41:01 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mellymel on Oct 25, 2012 11:41:01 GMT -5 I am so sorry. I want to cry just thinking that you're going through this alone at work! I hope you can just tell your boss you're having a personal medical issue?
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countthestars Elder Posts: 17,759 Likes: 15,677	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:43:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by countthestars on Oct 25, 2012 11:43:41 GMT -5 I am so, so sorry Pamela.
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Saudade Senior Member Posts: 5,218 Likes: 4,991	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:46:16 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Saudade on Oct 25, 2012 11:46:16 GMT -5 I am so sorry.
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jenny1223 Full Member Posts: 2,317 Likes: 1,542	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:49:24 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jenny1223 on Oct 25, 2012 11:49:24 GMT -5 Oh no! I am so sorry, Pamela.
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Ashley&Scott Elder Posts: 15,699 Likes: 6,629	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:52:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Ashley&Scott on Oct 25, 2012 11:52:42 GMT -5 I'm so sorry ({) (})
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DarcyLongfellow Senior Member Posts: 7,860 Likes: 3,656	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:53:24 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by DarcyLongfellow on Oct 25, 2012 11:53:24 GMT -5 Oh no, I'm so, so sorry. I'd leave work if there was any way possible. Even if you can handle it physically, there's a lot of mental anguish as well.
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satama Full Member Posts: 1,228 Likes: 1	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 11:53:38 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by satama on Oct 25, 2012 11:53:38 GMT -5 I am so sorry.
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lmb5109 Full Member Posts: 2,261 Likes: 532	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:03:39 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lmb5109 on Oct 25, 2012 12:03:39 GMT -5 Oh no! I'm crossing everything hoping it's just bleeding and everything os ok. Did you call the doctor to see if they suggest coming in?
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barefootcontessa Full Member Posts: 4,125 Likes: 1,816	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:12:13 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by barefootcontessa on Oct 25, 2012 12:12:13 GMT -5 I am so sorry Pamela. I hope you can find time to take care of yourself.
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fbf2006 Full Member Posts: 1,920 Likes: 308	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:19:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by fbf2006 on Oct 25, 2012 12:19:50 GMT -5 I am so so sorry Pamela.
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m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:20:44 GMT -5

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Post by pamela on Oct 25, 2012 12:20:44 GMT -5

If I tell my boss personal medical issue right now, he'll know what it is. We're a close group, he has his suspicions and no way would I leave work right now for anything else not visible (think the equivalent of a CPA on April 14th).

May still be viable, no way to know. I told my ob I didn't have time right now for all the initial bloodwork because there was no action we could take based on it (already on all the meds they could consider giving me). It's still to early for even a vaginal u/s to be conclusive about being interuterine and growing as well (right at 5w). My only sign that something wasn't right before was that the wondofos weren't getting darker, but it was my first time using them so I thought maybe that's just how they were since they are so cheap.

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annieh2 New Member Posts: 92 Likes: 1	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:21:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by annieh2 on Oct 25, 2012 12:21:42 GMT -5 So sorry. What a crappy situation. hugs to you.
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crazygame Full Member Posts: 2,412 Likes: 1,564	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:24:18 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by crazygame on Oct 25, 2012 12:24:18 GMT -5 I am so sorry.
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m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:32:59 GMT -5

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Post by hannamaren on Oct 25, 2012 12:32:59 GMT -5

I am sorry.
I know you are trying to be a good coworker, etc but just keep in mind that if the shoe was on the other foot, you woukd totally understand if your coworker left, right? And same for your boss. This isnt being a fragile woman, this is a medical issue.

Either way, I hope today goes byfast.

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drloretta Elder Posts: 11,340 Likes: 7,035	m/c - again Oct 25, 2012 12:35:54 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by drloretta on Oct 25, 2012 12:35:54 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. I've been stuck at work during a m/c and it sucks.
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