Should I do this???

[starryfish]

So you know that D ended things with me and i was super sad....well before it ended, we had signed up for a 5K obstacle course mud run, and its this saturday.

He still wants to do it with me, and i dont know anyone else doing it so I feel kinda stuck. I was thinking I could handle doing it with him (just meeting up at the race together and running together, no car rides or anything).

Well we were chatting this morning about the race and we got off topic....apparently he started dating someone new and he is moving out of state soon (she is out of state in his home state). This REALLY bummed me out....seriously...i was doing SOOO well....but now feel like I am going backwards....i am Pissed too that he is happy with someone else when he admitted he wasnt ready for a relationship!

I REALLY want to do this race still....so should I just do it alone or do it with him? (I have done mud runs alone and they SUCK that way so I am torn).

[achase123]

Ugh, there isn't anyone else who can do it with you? Honestly I wouldn't do it with him, especially given that he's with someone new now. It will just be really difficult. I'd opt for doing it with someone else, or by yourself, or maybe scheduling a different run.

I don't think I'd do it with him. It might cause you to be more upset than you already are.

[starryfish]

he just messaged me this:

You know if I was honest with you, I would tell you that im really interested in this VB woman. So that means even more that I can't and don't want to make any mistakes this weekend. Just want you to know.


Seriously? I want to punch him in the balls!

[stephbfan]

I think he is a moron. He shouldn't have said anything about dating anyone.
I wouldn't do it with him.

[starryfish]

Oct 25, 2012 11:34:37 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

I'd do it without him. Didn't you find that fb group that does these runs? Can you do it with them maybe?

I did...but only 2 people are doing it and they are doing the special heat for police and fireman only

[chrissie3416]

Hes being a dbag...those comments are unnecessary. Try to run it without him if you can. If you have to do it with him, trip him....

[jm5855]

Oct 25, 2012 11:43:16 GMT -5 @tjenbell said:

Do it alone and own it. Dude, you CrossFit. You got this.

Agreed. Ditch this clown and stop communicating with him.

[starryfish]

Oct 25, 2012 11:43:05 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

Hes being a dbag...those comments are unnecessary. Try to run it without him if you can. If you have to do it with him, trip him....

I called him out and told him he should NOT have shared that with me (that he was dating someone else) and that I dont want to run it with him anymore. He said he was sorry and that he wont do the race anymore so I dont have to see him at ALL.

[achase123]

Oct 25, 2012 11:36:26 GMT -5 starryfish said:

he just messaged me this:

You know if I was honest with you, I would tell you that im really interested in this VB woman. So that means even more that I can't and don't want to make any mistakes this weekend. Just want you to know.


Seriously? I want to punch him in the balls!

What.the.fuck?!

I read that as "just so you know, I am interested in boning someone else. And, I know, I know, I'm utterly irresistible, but please TRY and contain yourself when you're around me this weekend. I don't want to mess up any chances I may have of boning this other woman. Kthanks."

[Deleted]

Douchetastic. He totally sucks.

[starryfish]

Oct 25, 2012 11:46:43 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Oct 25, 2012 11:36:26 GMT -5 starryfish said:

he just messaged me this:

You know if I was honest with you, I would tell you that im really interested in this VB woman. So that means even more that I can't and don't want to make any mistakes this weekend. Just want you to know.


Seriously? I want to punch him in the balls!

What.the.fuck?!

I read that as "just so you know, I am interested in boning someone else. And, I know, I know, I'm utterly irresistible, but please TRY and contain yourself when you're around me this weekend. I don't want to mess up any chances I may have of boning this other woman. Kthanks."

Yea it was in reference to a text he sent me the other day about how it was going to be HARD for him to not kiss me and stuff....DUDE he broke up with ME and when he sent me that he was already seeing the OTHER girl already :@

[jm5855]

Oct 25, 2012 11:45:45 GMT -5 starryfish said:

Oct 25, 2012 11:43:05 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

Hes being a dbag...those comments are unnecessary. Try to run it without him if you can. If you have to do it with him, trip him....

I called him out and told him he should NOT have shared that with me (that he was dating someone else) and that I dont want to run it with him anymore. He said he was sorry and that he wont do the race anymore so I dont have to see him at ALL.

Perfect!!

[udscoobychick]

Oct 25, 2012 11:50:05 GMT -5 starryfish said:

Oct 25, 2012 11:46:43 GMT -5 achase123 said:

What.the.fuck?!

I read that as "just so you know, I am interested in boning someone else. And, I know, I know, I'm utterly irresistible, but please TRY and contain yourself when you're around me this weekend. I don't want to mess up any chances I may have of boning this other woman. Kthanks."

Yea it was in reference to a text he sent me the other day about how it was going to be HARD for him to not kiss me and stuff....DUDE he broke up with ME and when he sent me that he was already seeing the OTHER girl already

He is earning a major ^o) from me for that!

[bullygirl979]

Oct 25, 2012 11:50:05 GMT -5 starryfish said:

Oct 25, 2012 11:46:43 GMT -5 achase123 said:

What.the.fuck?!

I read that as "just so you know, I am interested in boning someone else. And, I know, I know, I'm utterly irresistible, but please TRY and contain yourself when you're around me this weekend. I don't want to mess up any chances I may have of boning this other woman. Kthanks."

Yea it was in reference to a text he sent me the other day about how it was going to be HARD for him to not kiss me and stuff....DUDE he broke up with ME and when he sent me that he was already seeing the OTHER girl already

He is a MOTHERFUCKER. Starry, I want to crotch punch him for you.

I think you should do the race anyway, because FUCK HIM.

[lovelybb]

What an ever-loving ass....

[turtle1120]

You need to cut this guy off completely. Tell him, there's no reason for the two of you to be in contact anymore and stop communicating with him. Block him if you can. He's a first-class douche.

[usedtobebear]

Oct 25, 2012 11:36:49 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

I think he is a moron. He shouldn't have said anything about dating anyone.
I wouldn't do it with him.

This!! I'm sorry, I would be really annoyed too and definitely wouldn't do it with him!

[heavenly]

Where is Kuss with her pip of douchface?

Seriously, he is scum and not worth another minute of your time.

[starburst604]

Everything in this thread about this guy makes me angry!!! I want to punch him in the balls too!! Oh like you're gonna fondle his nuts while he jumps through tires because you just CAN'T control yourself around him. What a douche. I'm glad he's not doing the race. I say do the race alone, but I also know how you feel, mud races aren't that much fun alone. But if it's a short one it will be over quickly anyway. I'd probably make the decision based on how much it cost me to sign up. And yes, for the love of God, disconnect from this idiot for good. I'm so mad for you!

[explorer2001]

I say do the run with.him and trip him and shove him in the mud at every obstacle. What a dbag!

[starryfish]

Alright, thanks guys! It means a lot to me that you all are enraged for me too!

I cut contact with him....unfriended him on FB, etc.

I AM going to do the race bc I was the one originally who REALLY wanted to do it. I will do it alone if I have to and I will ROCK it! :-)

[doriswe]

If you do it with him, can you punch him in the face and be all "whoops, just trying to avoid that obstacle".

He's a fuck face...that's about all I have to offer!

[starryfish]

Oct 25, 2012 13:45:43 GMT -5 dynamoo said:

Yay! You WILL ROCK it!!!

In the very least, hopefully this will help you get him out of your head going forward?

Yea i thought that too.....he is now a DB in my book

[doriswe]

Use that anger to get down totally faster than him!!

[starryfish]

Oct 25, 2012 13:50:58 GMT -5 dynamoo said:

Oct 25, 2012 13:49:44 GMT -5 starryfish said:

Yea i thought that too.....he is now a DB in my book

And the rest of our books too!!

He's not doing it, right?

Yea he said he is not going

[Deleted]

Fuck him...do it yourself....and please please lap him while you are doing it...turn smile and give him the finger!!!

[cutter21]

Good luck and have fun! I think your plan sounds great- I think you'll enjoy it a lot more by yourself than dealing with him.

[kaneen]

I totally agree with achase's take on this. This guy wants to string you along b/c it boosts his tensy tiny wittle ego to think a pretty girl is hung up on him.

DOUCHE...