Since I am still seemingly the butt of many jokes on SO and everyone is so awesome with ignoring my craziness, why don't you all post and get it all out here.
Tell me what you really think?
I'll tell you what I think. I took some time off from these boards after being berrated for being pregnant and making bad decisions. I'm obviously not refined and belong in a trailer park because for some reason many of you believe that I am white trash. I started posting again on other boards because I did genuinely enjoy being here. So yesterday I posted here to say hello and give a little update and saw Mag's post about how she's so proud that everyone ignored me. I was insulted so I quietly disappeared. It really feels shitty to have so many people who don't know me make me feel so unwelcomed on a public forum. It's sad that I don't have many people or places in my life to "vent" to or have an outlet and I really did enjoy hanging around here. I actually have tears in my eyes as I'm typing this because I'm so hurt by it all.
I'm not asking for anything and I'm not causing trouble. Honestly, if you don't want me here, please tell me. This post is open to how you feel about me. If you collectively do not want me here, I will not stay.
Post by wrathofkuus on Oct 26, 2012 16:49:16 GMT -5
You don't have to be. While there's a lot of overlap, each board has its own tone and social norms. And though you may not precisely fit in with any of these, you may be surprised at how much more accepting of your quirks one board is over another.
I like Married Life a lot. Try joining in there, wading in slowly by responding to other people's posts, and getting a feel for whether you like it.
Post by wrathofkuus on Oct 26, 2012 16:54:01 GMT -5
I must also add that it's not unusual to find that a particular online forum is a miserably poor fit for you. Hell, there were two separate board collections (theregoesthebride and ivillage) who fit me so poorly that they banned my ip address.
I must also add that it's not unusual to find that a particular online forum is a miserably poor fit for you. Hell, there were two separate board collections (theregoesthebride and ivillage) who fit me so poorly that they banned my ip address.
Kuus, I REALLY hope you are coming to the east coast GTG....
Post by prettyinpearls on Oct 27, 2012 15:19:20 GMT -5
You are clearly not "going quietly" as you so mentioned. If you were, there wouldn't be one last "Boo hoo SO, you hate my guts" post.
We tried for SO LONG to help you. You constantly made bad decisions and blamed us for hating you, when we were just genuinely concerned for your well being.
I'm done. And I truly hope you're just full of shit in 95% of the things you've posted about.
Honestly? You make bad choices and then act like a bunch of people on the internet seemingly aren't going to call you on your bullshit. RealityCheck: This is just like real life, in which people will say, "hey, get help. You need it."
Also, what dynamoo said. "Life is not a game. Especially when you bring a dependent child into it."
If you need help, therapy, medication, a new lifestyle, whatever, DO IT. It is totally fine to fuck up your life when it is just you, but you have a kid now. Get it together.