Post by bullygirl979 on Oct 29, 2012 8:15:55 GMT -5
Mine was awesome!
Friday night I had a date with the cardiologist. Surprisingly, I was kind of wrong about him. He wasn't very cocky at all and was actually really funny. We had a few drinks, flirted a ton and ended up making out like 15 year olds outside a bar. It was really hot. I am seeing him again tomorrow.
Saturday I went to the market, cleaned up my house and went to my neighbor's halloween party. I only stayed an hour cause I was exhausted from my date with R. the night before.
Sunday I had a 3 hour long lunch with my friend, then did some shopping then took my mom out to dinner.
Friday night - Halloween party at my house. I think I went to bed at 5am. Finally got out of bed at 11am. When I have someone to snuggle with, it takes a lot to get me out of bed.
Saturday - After we got out of bed, we all (meaning everyone that stayed the night....9 people total) went out to IHOP for breakfast/lunch. After that, two friends that stayed the night and myself met up with another friend and we went to a wagon ride/corn maze. I finally got home about 10pm and went straight to bed.
Sunday - Woke up at 9am. XH dropped A off at 11am. I was supposed to go to a friend's DD's birthday party, but it was outdoor and with how cold and windy it was, plus A did not want to nap at all, I decided against it and went to my parents for dinner instead.
I had a fabulous weekend....the wedding was probably the most fun I've ever been to! I'm sooooo happy those two found each other. I also got to spend a lot of time with my BFF, who I just love a little more every single day! Oh and then there was that part about a boy
Post by udscoobychick on Oct 29, 2012 9:41:12 GMT -5
Mine had its ups and downs.
Friday, my parents arrived, BF met my dad (without me or my mom around), which went HORRIBLY, I cooked dinner for my parents, went out to BF's house after they left.
Saturday, went to a corn maze and a winemaker's dinner with my parents. I loved the food and wine, but I don't think they were as impressed--higher standards than me, apparently
Sunday, went to church and out to lunch with my parents, got a lecture on how they don't approve of or like BF, and they left. BF immediately came over, and I spent the next 3 hours crying and cuddling with him. Taught some dance classes, came home, cooked a late dinner, and cuddled with BF some more.
I am completely drained and wiped out mentally, emotionally, and physically from the stress and tension of this weekend. Ugh.
Friday, my parents arrived, BF met my dad (without me or my mom around), which went HORRIBLY, I cooked dinner for my parents, went out to BF's house after they left.
Saturday, went to a corn maze and a winemaker's dinner with my parents. I loved the food and wine, but I don't think they were as impressed--higher standards than me, apparently
Sunday, went to church and out to lunch with my parents, got a lecture on how they don't approve of or like BF, and they left. BF immediately came over, and I spent the next 3 hours crying and cuddling with him. Taught some dance classes, came home, cooked a late dinner, and cuddled with BF some more.
I am completely drained and wiped out mentally, emotionally, and physically from the stress and tension of this weekend. Ugh.
DS was sick with fever of 103 so we both buckeled home and rested. He was super clingy and in a lot of pain so I couldn't get anythig done and just held him the whole time.
Friday, my parents arrived, BF met my dad (without me or my mom around), which went HORRIBLY, I cooked dinner for my parents, went out to BF's house after they left.
Saturday, went to a corn maze and a winemaker's dinner with my parents. I loved the food and wine, but I don't think they were as impressed--higher standards than me, apparently
Sunday, went to church and out to lunch with my parents, got a lecture on how they don't approve of or like BF, and they left. BF immediately came over, and I spent the next 3 hours crying and cuddling with him. Taught some dance classes, came home, cooked a late dinner, and cuddled with BF some more.
I am completely drained and wiped out mentally, emotionally, and physically from the stress and tension of this weekend. Ugh.
Friday night my BFF and I took P to a Halloween carnival.
Saturday-hung out with P (who has a bad case of the 3 YO's) and went to a baby shower. Saturday night my friend and I had sushi, drank wine, and watched Magic Mike.
Sunday-worked out, went to the grocery store, prepped meals for the week, cleaned out my car, cleaned my house, and did laundry while P was with XH.
Sunday night-watched the Giants and had dinner at my mom's with my little brother, grandparents, and P.
Scooby - I'm sorry your parents didn't like BF but are you surprised? I mean, they were going into meeting him already not approving due to the age difference so did you think that meeting them would change that? They seem to have a very closed mind when it comes to this. It really sucks and I'm sorry they aren't more open. They seem very old fashioned.
Scooby - I'm sorry your parents didn't like BF but are you surprised? I mean, they were going into meeting him already not approving due to the age difference so did you think that meeting them would change that? They seem to have a very closed mind when it comes to this. It really sucks and I'm sorry they aren't more open. They seem very old fashioned.
I was hoping that my dad and BF would come out of the meeting with some respect for each other. I'm not foolish enough to think they would actually get along. I was hoping for some understanding of where each other is coming from, but that didn't happen.
They are very old fashioned, strict, conservative, etc., which definitely plays into their reaction to BF.
Scooby - I'm sorry your parents didn't like BF but are you surprised? I mean, they were going into meeting him already not approving due to the age difference so did you think that meeting them would change that? They seem to have a very closed mind when it comes to this. It really sucks and I'm sorry they aren't more open. They seem very old fashioned.
I was hoping that my dad and BF would come out of the meeting with some respect for each other. I'm not foolish enough to think they would actually get along. I was hoping for some understanding of where each other is coming from, but that didn't happen.
They are very old fashioned, strict, conservative, etc., which definitely plays into their reaction to BF.
It just really is unfortunate that you are going to have to eventually choose one over the other.
Really just a bunch of minor things that all added up. It started out great with drinking and playing poker with crew friday night, not to mention I took $100 off of them.
I dropped $700 on my car. Raked every leaf in Iowa. OU got thumped. Realized I was trying to force chemistry with A and that I need to call things off with her.
Also had overwhelming feelings this weekend that I just don't want to put in the effort of dating anymore..or least for a couple years. Just tired of looking for women, getting to know someone new..blah blah blah...lol. I always find a reason why I don't want to see them anymore and that is on me. I am just going to try and get by on FWB situations until I figure exactly what I am looking for in a woman....because I really have no clue.
I was hoping that my dad and BF would come out of the meeting with some respect for each other. I'm not foolish enough to think they would actually get along. I was hoping for some understanding of where each other is coming from, but that didn't happen.
They are very old fashioned, strict, conservative, etc., which definitely plays into their reaction to BF.
It just really is unfortunate that you are going to have to eventually choose one over the other.
Ya, it will come to that, eventually. I'm really not looking forward to that. They tried to emphasize that they're not trying to set it up as an "us or him" choice, but they are, whether intentionally or not.
I just feel really beaten down over the whole thing.
I always find a reason why I don't want to see them anymore and that is on me.
True....want me to psychoanalyze that for you?? You're scared as hell to get burned again....so you find the negative so you can bail and not put yourself in a position to get hurt again.
Friday-I cancelled my date because I was exhausted and didnt want to go to overboard with seeing him agian so close, so I stayed home and rented Magic Mike. Good god Channing has some moves.
Saturday-Rested, worked out, and hit a halloween party.
Sunday-Date with the guy. We had a blast but Im exhausted today!! Im really starting to like him
Friday-I cancelled my date because I was exhausted and didnt want to go to overboard with seeing him agian so close, so I stayed home and rented Magic Mike. Good god Channing has some moves.
Saturday-Rested, worked out, and hit a halloween party.
Sunday-Date with the guy. We had a blast but Im exhausted today!! Im really starting to like him
Sounds like a great weekend! I'm excited for you about this guy!
Post by formerlyak on Oct 29, 2012 11:29:16 GMT -5
Good, but tiring.
Friday night, swimming lessons with DS.
Saturday morning DS and I worked a canned food drive for his Cub Scouts and then he had his soccer game.
Sunday fi, ds and I walked to the beach for breakfast and then ds and I went to the park to play with his friend and his mom. Last night my parents took ds to dinner so fi and I could go to the last LA Galaxy game of the regular season.
I always find a reason why I don't want to see them anymore and that is on me.
True....want me to psychoanalyze that for you?? You're scared as hell to get burned again....so you find the negative so you can bail and not put yourself in a position to get hurt again.
Or it could be that my life feels nearly complete without a partner, so that makes me think I have to have the perfect woman or nothing at all.
Post by usedtobebear on Oct 29, 2012 12:10:14 GMT -5
Friday night, went to Halloween party, dressed up as a race car driver, got shit faced, like really shit faced, did something super embarassing, ugh!
Saturday, woke up confused as shit and for the first time I have zero memory of a few events (no guys involved, phew!). Walk for 1.5 hours to get my car, friends offered to drive me but I felt like a walk would sober my ass up, lol. Saturday night I went on a date with my Mom to a haunted house and then to a bar, the bartender was super cute, which gives me home there are cute boys out there.
Sunday, friends came over for breakfast, then later I went to babysit my niece and nephew.
Tonight I'm going to Amy Goodman, any fans of her?
True....want me to psychoanalyze that for you?? You're scared as hell to get burned again....so you find the negative so you can bail and not put yourself in a position to get hurt again.
Or it could be that my life feels nearly complete without a partner, so that makes me think I have to have the perfect woman or nothing at all.
lol...setting yourself up for failure looking for perfection, my dear!!
You know I adore you and just want you to be happy!