I guess XH liked it so much he put a ring on it!

[achase123]

I got a text last night from him saying that he had proposed to his on again/off again GF.

This is the same one that he was upset about breaking up with less than a month ago so he went on a drinking binge. They're obviously back together now.

This is also the same one he's been dating the entire time when he's propositioned me for sex multiple times. Eeek.

I told him "congrats" and he followed up with a "well, I wanted so badly for us to be a family, but I realized I have to move on with my life". ::sigh::

Anyways, bottom line is, I do think that she is a good person and I know she is good around P so I can appreciate that. That is really all that matters. Just figured I would share the happy news with everyone

[doriswe]

I have no words....well none I should say outloud!

Hopefully she'll be the responsible adult P needs over there

[stephbfan]

OMG, I think his drinking issues and other stuff should be more noticeable now than before, so how can someone get into a relationship like that?
I actually feel bad for her.

[achase123]

Oct 29, 2012 10:54:08 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

OMG, I think his drinking issues and other stuff should be more noticeable now than before, so how can someone get into a relationship like that?
I actually feel bad for her.

I do too because she does actually seem like a nice person. She's nine years his senior so I wonder if she thinks she's really landed herself a hot younger man or something.

[jojoandleo]

Uh, who marries their on again/off again boyfriend after being on again for only a month??? I predict either a) they never make it down the aisle or b) divorce within 6 months.

I am glad she is good to P and that is all that really matters, but I do NOT see this working out.

[glitzyglow]

I wonder what her friends and family think of him.

[jojoandleo]

I don't feel sorry for her AT ALL-anyone dumb enough to get engaged to someone after a month of "on again" KNOWS what she is getting into.

[Deleted]

Why does she want to marry him?

[prettyinpearls]

SMH.

[redredwine]

Well...I'm sure it's going to last forever!

[lizzie415]

Oct 29, 2012 10:44:47 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I have no words....well none I should say outloud!

Hopefully she'll be the responsible adult P needs over there

With doris on this one.....wow, well actually kind of speechless.

(Back with a new name, doris can vouch)

[doriswe]

Oct 29, 2012 20:29:45 GMT -5 lizzie415 said:

Oct 29, 2012 10:44:47 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I have no words....well none I should say outloud!

Hopefully she'll be the responsible adult P needs over there

With doris on this one.....wow, well actually kind of speechless.

(Back with a new name, doris can vouch)

She's cool (glad you're back...even if it's just hit and miss!)

[jojoandleo]

Oct 29, 2012 20:35:19 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 29, 2012 20:29:45 GMT -5 lizzie415 said:

With doris on this one.....wow, well actually kind of speechless.

(Back with a new name, doris can vouch)

She's cool (glad you're back...even if it's just hit and miss!)

Why do you always know everything while I know nothing? *pouts* :-( I am glad you are back too, person i do not know who you are!

[doriswe]

Oct 29, 2012 20:36:49 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Oct 29, 2012 20:35:19 GMT -5 doriswe said:

She's cool (glad you're back...even if it's just hit and miss!)

Why do you always know everything while I know nothing? *pouts* I am glad you are back too, person i do not know who you are!

Uhhhh, cuz I'm like the great, all-knowing, Oz, obviously!!

[stephbfan]

Oct 29, 2012 12:56:45 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I don't feel sorry for her AT ALL-anyone dumb enough to get engaged to someone after a month of "on again" KNOWS what she is getting into.

I feel bad that she has such a low self steem that she thinks she doesnt deserve any better.

But yeah, I guess she thinks she is so special she will be the one to change him!!!

[doriswe]

Oct 29, 2012 20:53:23 GMT -5 stephbfan said:

Oct 29, 2012 12:56:45 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I don't feel sorry for her AT ALL-anyone dumb enough to get engaged to someone after a month of "on again" KNOWS what she is getting into.

I feel bad that she has such a low self steem that she thinks she doesnt deserve any better.

But yeah, I guess she thinks she is so special she will be the one to change him!!!

Come on guys.....they're in luuurrrvveeee and gonna be together FOREVA!!!

[lizzie415]

Oct 29, 2012 20:36:49 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Oct 29, 2012 20:35:19 GMT -5 doriswe said:

She's cool (glad you're back...even if it's just hit and miss!)

Why do you always know everything while I know nothing? *pouts* I am glad you are back too, person i do not know who you are!

PM if you want; I have been too critical on guys with grammar and fudged my own in the same post - but that was a while back. I have a DC.

[jojoandleo]

Oct 29, 2012 21:04:24 GMT -5 lizzie415 said:

Oct 29, 2012 20:36:49 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Why do you always know everything while I know nothing? *pouts* I am glad you are back too, person i do not know who you are!

PM if you want; I have been too critical on guys with grammar and fudged my own in the same post - but that was a while back. I have a DC.

Doris told me. I remember you!!! Welcome back! I get judgey with the grammar and then say flower instead of floor. Who does that? I blame the excessive drinking.

[lizzie415]

Oct 29, 2012 21:08:30 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Oct 29, 2012 21:04:24 GMT -5 lizzie415 said:

PM if you want; I have been too critical on guys with grammar and fudged my own in the same post - but that was a while back. I have a DC.

Doris told me. I remember you!!! Welcome back! I get judgey with the grammar and then say flower instead of floor. Who does that? I blame the excessive drinking.

Thanks! Unfortunately, I cannot blame drinking

[turtle1120]

Like you said, it's good that she's good to P. However, I can't imagine this will last in the long run.

[achase123]

Oct 30, 2012 1:30:56 GMT -5 @redvelvet29 said:

I honestly can not believe this... perhaps he is just saying this to make you jealous?
i would be really suprised if this actually happened

I seriously wonder too. Especially because he told me via text, and I wasn't checking messages because I was at dinner. In the span of two hours that I wasn't responding because I didn't have my phone he left five text messages, called twice, and left a VM. It was like he was worried I was intentionally ignoring because I was upset. If he was soooooo in lurve why would my reaction (or lack thereof) matter?

[starburst604]

It's a long way from bended knee to the altar, and I'd be shocked if this one makes it that far. At least she's good to P though.