Post by jojoandleo on Oct 29, 2012 18:28:49 GMT -5
I guess I would just not want to wait until I get attached to find out about a deal breaker. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I don't think it has to be a "Do you want kids? Or else this is a deal breaker!" big deal. It could be a simple talking about life-your hopes and dreams, throw in that you want kids and ask him about it and he answers. I mean, does know one else talk about what they want in the future on third dates? Am I a freak? LOL
I guess I would just not want to wait until I get attached to find out about a deal breaker. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I don't think it has to be a "Do you want kids? Or else this is a deal breaker!" big deal. It could be a simple talking about life-your hopes and dreams, throw in that you want kids and ask him about it and he answers. I mean, does know one else talk about what they want in the future on third dates? Am I a freak? LOL
I strictly talk non-benefits on a third date
I think you can have a light flowy conversation about it whenever it pops into conversation. Just don't be "I NEED TO HAVE THE BABIES BEFORE MY EGGS DRY UP"
No, Jojoandleo, my natural instincts and how well our dates have gone makes me feel like I need to find out sooner than later. And of course Im not going to pose it like "Hey do you want to have kids with me?' We talk about his son a lot and hes comfortable talking about that so I could bring it up in that context.
No, Jojoandleo, my natural instincts and how well our dates have gone makes me feel like I need to find out sooner than later. And of course Im not going to pose it like "Hey do you want to have kids with me?' We talk about his son a lot and hes comfortable talking about that so I could bring it up in that context.
This is how I picture it, a natural convo flow, not "GIVE ME YOUR SEED NOW!" Although, you should yell that during sex when your man has problems cumming, I hear.
Maybe I'm in the minority here, but I find a way to bring it up with most people I've gone on multiple dates with. I never assume that everyone is into getting married and having a family, even if they're young. Not after "V" and his philosophy that marriage and family were outdated institutions.
I guess I would just not want to wait until I get attached to find out about a deal breaker. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I don't think it has to be a "Do you want kids? Or else this is a deal breaker!" big deal. It could be a simple talking about life-your hopes and dreams, throw in that you want kids and ask him about it and he answers. I mean, does know one else talk about what they want in the future on third dates? Am I a freak? LOL
I strictly talk non-benefits on a third date
I think you can have a light flowy conversation about it whenever it pops into conversation. Just don't be "I NEED TO HAVE THE BABIES BEFORE MY EGGS DRY UP"
BUT MY EGGS ARE DRYING UP!!!! GIVE ME YOUR BABY MAKING JUICES!!!!
J/K...I don't think I want the babies anyway. you can't drink for like 9 months!!! who does that?
I think you can have a light flowy conversation about it whenever it pops into conversation. Just don't be "I NEED TO HAVE THE BABIES BEFORE MY EGGS DRY UP"
BUT MY EGGS ARE DRYING UP!!!! GIVE ME YOUR BABY MAKING JUICES!!!!
J/K...I don't think I want the babies anyway. you can't drink for like 9 months!!! who does that?
This made me snort!
I love to drink as much as the next person. I managed to make it nine (well more like 10 mos) AND I was dealing with a cheating, drug addicted ex. I'm sure you would manage!
Oh wait, I did have 1/4 of a glass of red wine before my exam.
I think you can have a light flowy conversation about it whenever it pops into conversation. Just don't be "I NEED TO HAVE THE BABIES BEFORE MY EGGS DRY UP"
BUT MY EGGS ARE DRYING UP!!!! GIVE ME YOUR BABY MAKING JUICES!!!!
J/K...I don't think I want the babies anyway. you can't drink for like 9 months!!! who does that?
lol....you think going without drinking is bad?? Wait until you get puked on and are so sleep deprived you go out in public with it on your clothes