Post by pantsparty on May 22, 2012 16:45:26 GMT -5
I wonder if this would be as flameful if it wasn't an emergency c-section. I mean, how many people were more than a little gleeful when TAOMB decided to go for the epidural. Of course it's not the same thing, but slightly same premise.
I wonder if this would be as flameful if it wasn't an emergency c-section. I mean, how many people were more than a little gleeful when TAOMB decided to go for the epidural. Of course it's not the same thing, but slightly same premise.
CHOOSING an epidural is not the same thing as having an emergency (or even planned) csection. BS on the slightly same premise. I had an epidural with my first even though I wasn't planning on it, and got tons of "I TOLD YOU SO" and shrugged them off. But then the second time, I opted out and I was all "I TOLD YOU SO" lol
Given her know-it-all, smug status, I would probably KIND of feel that way given that she (and the baby) were never in any danger. Like if she had to give in and go to the hospital for something routine, I'm sure there would be a part of me that would be like "Guess you're not always right, huh!?" But given that she had to have an emergency c-section... that's too scary (for me AND my bff) for me to really think about the fact that her crunchiness had to be put aside to make sure her baby (and she) lived.
I had my 4th child in July by emergency c-section and I can say that this was one of the scariest time's in my life. I had major complication's and so did my baby. I am thinking if this was the case with your friend you wouldn't feel this way.
1. I'm not "happy" that she had to have a c-section, nor am I jumping up and down pointing my finger. Please.
2. She went for a routine checkup and was told they needed to get baby out because of my friend's medical history (she had gastric bypass and ulcers)
1. Uh...because when you say you're "glad" about something and "ha serves you right", its hard NOT to get the impression that you're jumping up and down and pointing your finger.
2. Regardless of the reasons for her c-section, she still had major surgery that clearly, she'd hoped to avoid. And a going for a "routine checkup and was told she needed a c-section" is quite different than "It was an emergency C-section at 37 weeks."
You said it was flameful, so at least dont backpedal when you get flamed.
I knew it was flameful and I knew I was going to get shit for it. I am taking this more personally than I usually do. I am deactivating and taking a time out for my own sanity before I post something even dumber.
Why the hell would you post a flameful confession and then delete it. Don't be such a pussy! If you have the balls to post it then you should keep it up for all to read.
I knew it was flameful and I knew I was going to get shit for it. I am taking this more personally than I usually do. I am deactivating and taking a time out for my own sanity before I post something even dumber.
what, what, what? this is so unnecessary and draws in even more attention. everyone has an off day, come back tomorrow and all will be fine. well, now everyone will rag you for the dd and deactivation, BUT, once you get over that hump it will all be fine.
Dude, take your flames like a big girl. And please to explain why crunchy means she deserved to have an emergency section. Like, what does A have to do with B? We all know I'm not that smart, so please to explain?
Post by melindafelinda on May 22, 2012 18:33:18 GMT -5
Ugh, I am mad. I was going to say yesterday that I think Pseudo sucks lately and now I can't be shocking by saying this because now everyone does. This is about me!!!
Ugh, I am mad. I was going to say yesterday that I think Pseudo sucks lately and now I can't be shocking by saying this because now everyone does. This is about me!!!
Lol, I never post opinions about people here, but I really love you!
Ugh, I am mad. I was going to say yesterday that I think Pseudo sucks lately and now I can't be shocking by saying this because now everyone does. This is about me!!!
Hahaha! I love this! I was wondering if it was just me that was wondering WTF happened to her. I always remembered her being pretty cool on ML.