Thank you everyone. We all feel so lost. Lu broke down and cried when he realized his dad was 66 and that is Lu's favorite number and that today is our monthiversary and Pop's mom's birthday. I just can't see straight. I can't think. We are just so confused and feel like we need to go pick him up somewhere. I appreciate your kind words.
Thank you everyone. We all feel so lost. Lu broke down and cried when he realized his dad was 66 and that is Lu's favorite number and that today is our monthiversary and Pop's mom's birthday. I just can't see straight. I can't think. We are just so confused and feel like we need to go pick him up somewhere. I appreciate your kind words.
My best advice (not that you asked for it) is to just let yourself feel like this for awhile. There's no rule book for this, so give yourself and everyone around you a break and don't put any pressure on yourselves because you think you have to feel a certain way.
To be honest, I only remember snippets of 3 full days after my dad died. It's just a big blur, like trying to remember a dream, but that's how my body interpreted the shock.
I'm feeling for you guys. I hope you and Lu's family find some peace in the near future.
Post by OrangePixyStix on May 23, 2012 12:55:59 GMT -5
It will probably be rough for a while, but hopefully all of your family (and his) will be able to come together during this time of mourning and be able to remember the good times with him.