AE: I kind of hate my husband

[nervouswife]

I try to be understanding but he is just so damn moody sometimes that I just want to scream that I want a divorce. Oh and we haven't had sex in at least six months.

[lanyac]

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[limey]

What's stopping you from getting divorced?

[nervouswife]

Nov 13, 2012 22:35:26 GMT -5 limey said:

What's stopping you from getting divorced?

Scared to be alone and I love his family

[Kore]

Will you provide more background? What's been going on to lead to the dry spell?

[nervouswife]

Dry spells have been the norm for the last five years. Depression on either side have been the main contributor

[pugz]

have you been to counseling separately or together?

are you guys on medication for depression?

[gettingfitt]

Nov 13, 2012 22:41:42 GMT -5 Kore said:

Will you provide more background? What's been going on to lead to the dry spell?

This ..
If there isn't anything that has happend to lead on a dry spell get him to the doc to get his testosterone levels tested.

SO is a 35 years old, fit, and very active but suffers from low T.
Before he started treatment the longest dry spell we had was six months then we would have sex maybe once every two months.
He would also have really really horrible mood swings and be a complete d*ck for no reason.


Since he has started the t shots he doesn't really have mood swings anymore and now we have sex atleast once a week.

[nervouswife]

In counseling separately, although I have not been in a few months because I felt my main issues were covered at the time. Both on meds, although I have long doubted he was on the right ones but he hasnt gone on anything new.

[nervouswife]

Nov 13, 2012 22:48:39 GMT -5 gettingfitt said:

Nov 13, 2012 22:41:42 GMT -5 Kore said:

Will you provide more background? What's been going on to lead to the dry spell?

This ..
If there isn't anything that has happend to lead on a dry spell get him to the doc to get his testosterone levels tested.

SO is a 35 years old, fit, and very active but suffers from low T.
Before he started treatment the longest dry spell we had was six months then we would have sex maybe once every two months.
He would also have really really horrible mood swings and be a complete d*ck for no reason.


Since he has started the t shots he doesn't really have mood swings anymore and now we have sex atleast once a week.

thanks! I will have to suggest this. Hopefully he isn't a dick about it.

Of course to further complicate matters, my grandmother is dying and I REALLY have no patience for his moods.

[limey]

Sorry you are dealing with all of this at once. Do you have family or friends that you can lean on for some help?

[gettingfitt]

Nov 13, 2012 22:51:20 GMT -5 nervouswife said:

Nov 13, 2012 22:48:39 GMT -5 gettingfitt said:

This ..
If there isn't anything that has happend to lead on a dry spell get him to the doc to get his testosterone levels tested.

SO is a 35 years old, fit, and very active but suffers from low T.
Before he started treatment the longest dry spell we had was six months then we would have sex maybe once every two months.
He would also have really really horrible mood swings and be a complete d*ck for no reason.


Since he has started the t shots he doesn't really have mood swings anymore and now we have sex atleast once a week.

thanks! I will have to suggest this. Hopefully he isn't a dick about it.

Of course to further complicate matters, my grandmother is dying and I REALLY have no patience for his moods.

It took about 6 months of me explaining to SO the importanace of testosterone and to get him to actually go get tested.
He was really fatigue all the time.
Zero sex drive
Horrible mood swings
He finally went after he realized that testostorne was vitual to his well being not just to have sex.


Sorry about your grandmother ({) (})

[nervouswife]

Nov 13, 2012 22:56:40 GMT -5 limey said:

Sorry you are dealing with all of this at once. Do you have family or friends that you can lean on for some help?

His parents? Lol. My mother passed away, I am not close with my dad, and my sister has enough to deal with.