Post by littlemermaid on Nov 15, 2012 14:45:30 GMT -5
I feel with the second one I was more relaxed. I knew what to expect with every stage/milestone. I wasn't as anal about everything baby related. Going places with two was not bad at all. Just go with the flow.
I am hoping my 2nd will not be as intense as my toddler. But overall she was not that bad. I am with you I have trouble imagining how dinner time or anything that requires me to cater to two kids.
Totally doable! It's hard at first but then gets progressively easier. I swear that having our two boys is easier than having just one because they play together so well. They're currently building "santa's workshop" in one of their bedrooms, lol.
You'll be fine! My second is a lot harder than my first and it's still awesome.
They are so stinking cute together, it'll make your heart want to burst. Last night, for the first time, we had both kids in the bath together. When my little boy realized his sister was there to play with him, the smile on his face and the squeals! And my DD just kept saying, brother's silly, brother's silly! SO cute!
Post by dutchgirl678 on Nov 15, 2012 19:04:35 GMT -5
It is totally fine. I stress sometimes as I have a FT job and feel like we're running all over the place, but doing it with one child or two hasn't really been that much more work. I agree with a pp, that with the second you already know so much more, so you worry less about the small stuff.
DD is about 3 years older than DS and she adores him. She helps me so much, it is really sweet.