Grrrrrr. When we got to the house tonight MIL took my sleeping infant out of her carseat and purposely woke her up. Wtmf! So instead of getting to settle in, relax and eat pie, I had to feed A within ten minutes of getting there because awake = time to eat.
I love my MIL. I can't believe she did that without asking.
I haven't mentioned my fury to H yet. This house is too small. I think MIL would cry (and not in a passive aggressive way) if she knew how upset I was. I'm hoping she just wasn't thinking clearly. I will be very clear with instructions next time.