Post by spitforspat on Nov 26, 2012 13:31:25 GMT -5
So. I hate my BIL. He's insulting and jerky to my sister. She does everything, and he sits back and criticizes the way she does it. There are a million reasons I hate him, but I won't list them all.
A couple yrs ago my sister and BIL go in a huge fight with my parents and BIL said 'f you' to my parents and said he was done with my family.
After that, my sister would visit with the kids, but we didn't see him for over a year. Fine with me! Then, when my mom was dying it was important to her to make amends. Everyone was friendly for her sake.
Now that she's gone, it's like he's just back in the family. Comes to all out get togethers, etc. But I still really despise him.
Do I get him a Christmas gift? The thought of it makes my blood boil, but I don't want my sister to feel weird.
Maybe I could get him something for her.... Whoa- sorry that got so long!
Post by VeryViolet on Nov 26, 2012 13:35:10 GMT -5
I tend to be a more keep the peace within the family kind of person for things like this. She knows he is a dick and she chooses to stay and you can't control that. If his criticism seems more verbally abusive I might not be able to bite my tongue or suck it up though. Anyways can you get "them" a present maybe something for the house that your sister would really like.