Baby shower for fourth child?

[Deleted]

A friend of men just had her 4th. I gave her a gift when I met the baby.

She mentioned that another friend is going to throw her a shower next month. Should I buy another gift? I assume so.

We tend to do showers after the baby are born in my circle. I should have asked I guess, but she didn't have a baby shower for her second or third so it never occurred to me.

Eta: Sorry, I meant to post on MMMoms.

[countthestars]

I would either go without a gift or buy something very small, like a stuffed animal.

[cjeanette]

No. You are good.

[drloretta]

No, I would not get her yet another gift.

[ECB]

Ditto the others- no, I wouldn't get her yet ANOTHER gift.

[bronxgirl]

Being that you already gave her a gift I don't think you're obligated to bring anything else, but if you want to bring something you can find cute baby items for $10 or less at HomeGoods/TJ Maxx, etc.

[GailGoldie]

i wouldn't get another "gift" but wouldn't show up to a party empty handed either- i'd bring a pack of diapers, or the bottle of wine idea (if you know she drinks it... if someone brought me that it wouldn't be so great b/c i rarely drink)

[Deleted]

A baby shower for a fourth kid?!? Tacky!

[takeonyou]

I would feel pressured to bring something. Maybe a pack of diapers like PP suggested or some onesies and socks.

[rosebudred]

Nov 26, 2012 21:37:42 GMT -5 @lauriergirl28 said:

A baby shower for a fourth kid?!? Tacky!

This.

But I would also probably cave and bring a little something.

[flatlan]

I think the bottle of wine is a great idea!

[Deleted]

I wouldn't go or take a gift. In my opinion showers are only for the first baby.