Have there been instances where you've demonstrated this sensitivity? Or is your boss just sexist? I would probably be offended and ask him what he meant by that, thereby giving him another example of me being oversensitive. Ha.
Yes, shamefully my boss has seen me cry. He caught a perfect storm of stress, pms, extreme anger, a big fight between H and I and it bubbled over and exploded.
I get that this is not exceptable in a business environment, I am not disputing any of it (though I don't think I am really that sensative, it was just an accumulation of circumstances).
What baffles me is that he hinestly thinks that someone can just stop being so sensative. Like a switch you can just turn off.
Post by sapphire bou on May 24, 2012 16:31:34 GMT -5
But to offer advice:
If someone says something that strikes up that emotion, hold it in until a later time. Release either to your husband, by doing a deep breathing routine, yoga, running, something to get that anger/sadness/whatever out. After you've calmed down, if it's an issue that needs to be addressed, revisit it with that person in a calm, collected manner.
This. Time to start acting your ass off When I get worked up (mind you, I get angry not sad), I just take a few breaths and say something like, "I'll need to think about this."
If someone says something that strikes up that emotion, hold it in until a later time. Release either to your husband, by doing a deep breathing routine, yoga, running, something to get that anger/sadness/whatever out. After you've calmed down, if it's an issue that needs to be addressed, revisit it with that person in a calm, collected manner.
This :Y: I usually go to the gym and work out my frustrations or I get an hour lunch so I usually do something that makes me happy rather than express the emotion. If its really been a hard day, I come home and tell my hubby.
This. Time to start acting your ass off When I get worked up (mind you, I get angry not sad), I just take a few breaths and say something like, "I'll need to think about this."
This. There's nothing wrong with excusing yourself from the situation when you start to feel overwhelmed.
And even though it's nearly impossible to completely separate the two, you need to leave your home stress at home - the same way you'd leave your work stress at work.