I'm glad I didn't poas

[winecheery]

When I wiped (tmi) there was a tiny bit of pale, pale brown and since I'm 13dpo today, that's in line with AF being due tomorrow or thereabouts. I'm so bummed.

I do feel proud that at least I didn't waste a pee stick, and have the added insult of a blank white screen staring at me. Rude!

I really never thought this would be so hard to get pg. I have 3 more cycles before I go see a doctor. (They said they wouldn't make me wait a full year; just six months) The odds don't feel so great atm. Especially since I have had well-timed (good) sex for 3/4 cycles and I'm ovulating on my own, and my LP seems fine, and we're both in good health, blah dee blah.

le sigh.....bring on the adult beverages I suppose :drink:

(If/when AF shows soon, I'll have to buy myself another present...maybe I'll make a poll and you guys can help)

[awick14]

((Hugs))

They do say it can take the average couple 6 months to a year to conceive. So don't get to worried yet. (I am not following this advise after only 1 cycle of TTC I am already feeling like a failure)

FX for next cycle to be your cycle!

[magpie]

I'm so sorry. It hasn't been long, so try not to worry. It will happen when it's meant to happen. Hugs and hugs and many beverages to you.

[Cheesecake]

I'm sorry! I know exactly how you feel!!!
Overhere they even say the average healthy couple takes a year to get pregnant. I've been trying since March now. I'm ovulating on my own, my ute is beautiful according to the doctor.

We're in the same boat I guess. I'm crossing my fingers that we both get lucky soon!

[glauren]

((hugs)) TTC sucks

[mkesweetie]

I'm sorry about the BFN. I give myself major props when I can manage to wait until I'm at least late before I POAS. lol.

As for the timing - listen - IT HASN'T BEEN THAT LONG. Trust me, I know it seems like forever. I know that. But it has only been three cycles which is not that long. If you consider that one of those cycles you already know you weren't having sex at the right time, you're down to two. Try to keep this in perspective because even if you end up at the GYN's and even if there is a problem (and I'm not saying there is!) there is no quick solution to this problem.

Relax for the next few days, drink lots of wine and booze, and then get back to trying in December. GL to you!

[winecheery]

Oh I'm not like sobbing or anything. But to be accurate it's been four cycles, so when AF shows this weekend I'll be onto cycle 5. My ticker makes this confusing, but it's been 4 months of trying, three of them well-timed Even so, of course I'm naturally bummed out and disappointed.

I'm not worried that it won't happen, but it is shitty every time when you see that bit of spotting, or whatever it may be, and you have that realization that this wasn't the cycle either.

I will be having champagne tonight, and more wine at a party tomorrow, so I think I've got the drinking bit covered!

Onto to thoughts of my gift to myself...!

[littlemisschatty]

Im sorry!! I never thought this would suck so much either

[sunflower22]

Sorry you're out, it sucks This is totally within the realms of normal, try not to worry. I do understand the disappointment though, happens to everyone. Patience, grasshopper!

[winecheery]

Nov 30, 2012 16:12:30 GMT -5 sunflower22 said:

Sorry you're out, it sucks This is totally within the realms of normal, try not to worry. I do understand the disappointment though, happens to everyone. Patience, grasshopper!

lol wax on wax off sunflower san

[FastHands]

Whomp whomp.
I've started trying to think of POAS as a lottery ticket. It's ok to be excited, and it COULD be awesome news, but I'm not devastated when it's not. Although in the 3 minute window, I'm usually telling myself that POAS odds are WAY higher than lottery, so I end up with my hopes ul anyway. haha

[goodygumdrop]

Sorry

maybe next cycle will be your cycle!

[blindyswife]

I like fasthand's lottery analogy lol.

Sorry 'bout the AF coming, wine.

[potatopie]

Boo. I got a BFN this morning too. On top of ANOTHER friend announcing a pregnancy last night.

It all made for some revenge shopping this morning....