SSG

[quinny]

How are you doing? I think about you often.

[eratmama]

Ditto. Hugs to you

[tattooedmeegs]

Also been thinking of you.

[rikkiandjulie]

Me 3!


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[seattlekari]

I've been thinking about you also. ((hugs))

[2brides]

me too.

[hensmum]

Thinking of you here too

[Duchess1]

I think if you often and hope you are okay.

[ct]

yup <3

[mk]

Here, too. Although I already read your FB update. Just wanted to add my support

[ssg73]

Hi guys

Thanks for thinking of me. As I said on facebook. Things are getting better. It is not easy and there are some things that are harder to overcome than others. It does help that S has been completely open about what happened and I strangely don't have any fear right now of it happening again. We have been doing a better job of connecting with each other and trying to come to terms with the affair and rebuilding. Some parts as you can imagine are easier to move past than others but I am trying to be patient with myself and keep a balance of allowing myself time to heal while not allowing myself to get stuck in the anger and grief I feel about the infidelity. Therapy is helping but boy do I wish I didn't need to do all this work. Marriage is hard. I think I should have gotten a memo on that. Thanks for all your support. It has meant so much to me even though I have been pretty quiet I have been reading.

[rikkiandjulie]

Sam,

Julie has said somethings very similar to you. Especially, the part about how she has no fear of it happening again. And how it helps that I've been soooo honest about it all. Thank you for sharing. I hope you continue to grow and heal, and that happiness is right around the corner for you. ((Hugs)) I'm also glad to gear that things are getting better even if slowly.




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[thiswillbe]

Thanks for the update for those not on FB. Glad to hear things are getting better, even though it's a rough road. ((hugs))

We miss you!

[hensmum]

Glad to hear from you, and that things are improving. It really is so hard going through therapy together and digging into everything. My heart goes out to you, big time.

[ct]

Mrs F said it exactly...my heart goes out to you. I'm so incredibly impressed and inspired by you. You are such a strong mama.