I left xh 11/20 last year. Christmas night, my sister convinced me to go out to a local bar with her. I went and ran into J. We talked, I told him I had just left xh. I actually ended up going back to his house, thinking we were going to hook up. We hung out at his house for a while and he made no moves. I was so disappointed, lol. Then he texted me the next day and I never texted him back, thinking he wasn't actually that interested since he didn't try anything at his house.
He did invite me back to his house thinking we'd hook up, but he wasn't sure if that's what I wanted or if I was ready, so that's why he didn't make any moves.
Puddle, it sounds so cheesy, but I really think so. It wouldn't have been right if we hooked up in high school. It wouldn't have been right if we hooked up last December (I wasn't ready). I really feel like things have happened exactly how they're supposed to for us.