DH is going to be disappointed

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So a few weeks ago I posted about bleeding when I urinated. I had a checkup and everything was deemed normal. Fast forward to this weekend, DH and I have sex Saturday am. I bleed once when I peed Saturday afternoon. I attributed this to having intercourse. No more bleeding Saurday or Sunday. We also haven't had sex since Saturday. This afternoon I bleed twice when I peed. I just got finished talking to the doctor and was told no more sex until after the baby is born. He believes it is residual trauma from sex saturday. I actually thought for a moment he was joking until I was told otherwise. Anyone else been put on a sex ban?

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I feel you. I was on a no sex ban from 6-13wks. It almost killed me.

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I'm on a sex ban too...until at least 20 weeks. It sucks!

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I am extremely bitter about this because it is 7 weeks until the baby is due. But then its not like I can immediately jump back on the sex wagon right after giving birth. So who knows how long it will actually be until we can have sex again. Ugh!!!!

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Dec 11, 2012 16:44:17 GMT -5 @thecoachswife said:

I am extremely bitter about this because it is 7 weeks until the baby is due. But then its not like I can immediately jump back on the sex wagon right after giving birth. So who knows how long it will actually be until we can have sex again. Ugh!!!!

I hear ya. We hadn't done it since before Thanksgiving because of travel/sickness etc. Then I get put on pelvic rest. Then they tell me orgasms are okay. Then I bleed again after an orgasm and they tell me no orgasms. I have a feeling I won't be getting any until October at this point. :-(

At least DH can take care of things on his end. I told him I am picking out my push present.

[CloudBee]

I was for a month. It's not fun.

[kittycatlove]

I was on a sex ban for my entire pregnancy

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That sucks, I commiserate. I had out-of-the-blue pre-term labor at 36 weeks, then again at 38 weeks. I was put on pelvic rest after the first time. I was so messed up from my rough c-section that we didn't have sex until 12 weeks PP. So four months with no sex! It really sucked.

[mrssandro]

Dec 11, 2012 17:26:16 GMT -5 kittycatlove said:

I was on a sex ban for my entire pregnancy

This for us. I felt like a born again virgin when we started back again.

From 8 weeks on. You find ways to get some enjoyment though.

[pugz]

yup at 33 weeks

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Dec 11, 2012 17:26:16 GMT -5 kittycatlove said:

I was on a sex ban for my entire pregnancy

That sounds rough. I know it can be worse but I'm throwing myself a pity party today.

[starlily]

I was from 9-12 weeks, but it really didn't matter to me. I had zero sex drive while pregnant.

[dcrunnergirl]

Yes, the first time around, we did it once around 8w, and then got banned until I delivered.

This time, due to issues I had last time with my cervix, we're also abstaining probably until I deliver. The dr's said so far, we could still have sex, but he also thought it might be smart to wait. Neither DH nor I want to risk months of bedrest for a few moments of pleasure, or have me get placed on bedrest again and always wonder if it was the sex that did it.

And this means we're banned from everything...full pelvic rest.

[jackpackage]

Signing in to the born again virgin club! Pelvic rest for 5 months. Of course the most I've ever wanted sex was when we couldn't have it. Torture!

[fbf2006]

I've been on a sex ban since 16 weeks due to my cervical stitch.